Why do feminst think a woman can just enter my life, my ship, the ship that I built and declare herself my equal?
Women are not equal. Men and women have different qualities. For example you rarely see women doing hard manual labour, such as working on a construction site. They have the lighter office jobs. Yet complain they don't get equal wages. Men can't give birth, or nurture. That's the woman's domain.
Is it degrading for a woman to give a blowjob?
No, it's not degrading at all, it is a natural part of a good relationship. It's degrading for a woman to be used, for vaginal sex or for oral sex. If she is with a decent man who responds appropriately, it's not degrading at all.It depends on how you made her feel.Look, she was giving you immense pleasure, she was really concentrating on you while you were on you back enjoying the ride, or standing while she was on her knees giving you the pleasure. Sometimes you can get this question in her eyes, especially if she is not that confident - exactly this question, is it degrading or not?So you need to make her feel great about herself, that's basic decency for a man. Tell her how much you enjoyed that, thank her, tell her all the good things you feel about her - and if you love her, put it in the best words you can. Kiss her hands, kiss every single finger, kiss her feet, make her really soak in your appreciation.