Why don't guys talk to me?
I'v heard like a million times that I'm pretty so I don't think that's the problem (I don't mean to brag or anything cause I'm not bragging :P). But most guys my age kind of ignore me. I'm kind of shy so I don't really like hanging out with guys that I don't know so much alone. I need to have a friend with me. But when I say something it's like he doesn't really listen, he just looks away and says something to someone else. I don't know what to do. What can I do to make them notice me? Thanks :) <3
Why won't boys talk to me?
Okay, I went through the same thing myself, and I have a bf now. Basically, just be yourself, don't change yourself at all, don't go out of your way to try and make boys notice you, because when the right one comes along it will be so natural that it will leave you wondering what you were worrying about in the first place. If you're a nice, genuine, pretty person then the chances are lots of boys will have fancied you, but its really likely that they never pursued it because they were terrified of rejection. Think of it as a tree, you're one of the brilliant apples at the top, and boys are afraid to climb up to the top in case they fall off and get hurt, so they pick at the more used apples at the bottom. You just have to wait for the right boy who's brave enough to climb right to the top. I can't remember where I heard all that but it's true! Just don't think you have to start acting out, or showing off, or trying lots of flirt tips to get a bf. Trust me, in time one WILL come. And I used to think that was bogus too but it happened so quickly and naturally with me that its left me thinking its not so bogus after all.
Why dont boys talk to me?
So I am a freshman in high school and so many people always tell me that im gorgeous,so pretty, and cute. My friends, my family, teachers, and girls in school that I dont even know. But no boys ever talk to me or notice me. I am very shy also. I just dont understand how so many people can tell me that im pretty but no boys notice me. Why is that?
Why is it that boys talk to me but they don't ask me out?
That’s just how life is.(And based on question, I’m assuming you’re on the younger side…) So, one thing you’ll learn over time is that people will either see you as a friend or they’ll be interested in you (romantically.) I think for some relationships, it can change as your relationship progresses.Umm, but to be honest there can be a handful of reasons. Personally, I used to be such a huge flirt in high school, and it wasn’t intentional most of the time. That’s just how I was, and I’m sure I gave plenty of girls (& guys, maybe) the wrong impression. So, some people may unintentionally give you the wrong impression.Another reason is that they’re just not interested, and they prefer to stay friends.Also, yeah I was a huge flirt, and yeah I did flirt with girls I liked in high school, but I never asked anyone out for a number of reasons. For example, sometimes the timing isn’t right, or the circumstances they’re in forbids them from getting in a relationship.Or I know sometimes guys are hesitant or they’re shy. To be honest, again, there’s a number of reasons. In my situation, I knew the girl I liked had feelings for me too, but that still wasn’t enough because the timing of it wasn’t right. (And that’s not me being dramatic. I was just in a place where I wasn’t ready to commit myself because it wouldn’t be fair to my girlfriend.)
Why don't cute guys ever talk to me??>_
I'm going to put myself in the mindset of a high school boy to provide my answer (yeah, I still remember those days). You are definitely very cute, and if your personality is anywhere near as beautiful as you are physically, you would have to be a total sweetheart. Most guys in high school are very awkward around pretty girls, wishing desperately they could make a good impression but not wanting to say something stupid and screwing up their chances. Seriously, it takes a LOT of guts for a guy to talk to a girl he likes, let alone ask her out. When I was in high school I was terrified to talk to any pretty girls, so I never did and I missed out on every chance I may have had to find a girlfriend or even just have a friend who was a pretty girl. I would recommend you take the forward step and talk to those guys who don't talk to you. Get to know them even if just a little bit so you can find out what sort of person each one is and how they feel about you. Even if you don't find a boyfriend you will probably make several friends. Popularity isn't just granted; it's something you have to actively earn, and you do that by being social. By the way, when you do talk to the guys, please cut them a lot of slack and allow them to make their mistakes. More than one guy will put his foot in his mouth while trying to impress you, so give them plenty of chances to relax and open up.
Why dont guys talk to me or approach me?
You suffer from a common problem many women have, your too attractive. Problem 1-Most guys will assume you have a guy already. A typical guy has gone through the pain of asking out ten 'normal looking' women and have each of them have a guy already. Attractive women are even worse as they are automatically born with a boyfriend. The chances of meeting an attractive single woman is just about zero. Problem 2-The average attractive woman does not like most guys. Again a typical guy has been burned too many times when an attractive woman turns him down as 'he is not her type'. Then toss in your shy personality and get: Problem 3-You don't show guys you like them. And again the typical guy has been burned here too many times. He sees an attractive woman on the beach and she even looks back. The poor guy thinks 'well she would not look at me at all unless she liked what she saw, right?'. So poor guy will walk over and ask out the attractive woman..and she will not only say no, but will rip his heart out and spit in his face and laugh and embarrassed him. So you can see that most guys are just going to stay away from you. They don't want to get hurt..again. So just sitting there and waiting is no going to work for you. You need to take the first step. You need to be a little less shy and quiet. You will need to approach the guys.(you don't need to go full tilt and ask them out..but you could). To keep it more 'classic', just come up with a way to ask for 'help'. It does not matter much what it is. On the beach you could ask the guy to open a water bottle(go buy one you can't open, even). Or ask the time. Or walk near them and drop something(and if they don't notice, wait a bit and come back and say you dropped something and ask for help to find it.(nothing important, of course, but a nice piece of jewelry works great. Get that gold plated dolphin you got when you were 12)) Or ask for help with your car, or your computer or even just directions. And don't just ask for help and run. Make small talk. Anything to keep the two of you talking. And it's important to work into the conversation that you are A)Alone B)Single and C)Looking. (Oh and keep your little set up to yourself...don't tell him)
Why won't any guy talk to me?
Because you’re not initiating conversations, boo.There are currently guys all over Quora asking their own version of exactly that question: “Why don’t girls talk to me?”If you want to talk to a guy, go do it.Say hi. Introduce yourself. Have a conversation.Who are you waiting for?Him?If so, you are wasting your time. It is not the job of boys to talk to girls. We do not live in the year 1890. It is the job of people interested in conversation to make that conversation happen.You are not a helpless princess who has to wait around for guys to give her attention; you are a fully functional human being capable of opening her mouth and engaging with another. So make it happen!As a veteran Person Who Freely Speaks To Humans With Genitals That Don’t Look Like Hers I can confirm that I’ve done the research and conclusively proven that it is possible to get out of such an interaction unscathed. I’m alive, well, and have sprouted zero extra limbs or antlers. Spread the word.
Am I wierd? Guys dont talk to me :(.?
Ok so I find myself really wierd. My friends/family say im pretty and that im nice and smart, but why dont guys talk to me? I play sports so youd think we'd have something in common but they never make conversation with me. I mean I dont want to sound shallow (dont take this the wrong way) but my friend who is average has a guy who she likes and he likes her back. Whenever I like someone they never like me back. I mean I dont understand whats wrong with me? Is it because Im hyper? I go up and talk to guys but they never make a conversation---> Which then leads me to thinking that Im not cool/good enough to talk to guys so I clam up. Is this normal? Wenever I ask people they say no guy in my school likes me. I just feel like an outcast and ugly with a bad personality because no guys talk to me. I have been called bubbly/charming b4 but no one notices this(idk). Am I wierd? Am I too hyper? Does any1 have any tips for me? Ik theres more than guys but this rlly confuses me :S. And Im going to boarding school after summer and I really want to be able to talk to guys with confidence and not be wondering if they think Im lame. Trying to make a fresh start :). P.S. Im not very social after school. Is this why guys dont like me? Cuz im not very social?
Why don't guys talk to girls they like?
I know that a lot of times guys don't always talk to their crushes..but I just don't get why. Like what are they afraid?? This guy at my school likes me but he won't talk to me! How long do I have to wait until he tries to strick up a convo? He liked me for like almost 3 months now lol But anyways what are guys so afraid of? They're actually doing the girl a favor when they come talk to them. THANXX && THANXX
Why is it that boys don't speak their mind?
Girls: words are they're weapons, tools, currency.guys: words are optional and only used when needed.Girls: why won't he/she talk to me?guys: No need to explain what is already understood.in short: guys keep their opinions to themselves because we don't feel the need to explain anything, you should already get it, and if you don't then you won't. Conservation of energy. We release enough energy through physical action, so to spend it on talking endlessly would be burning the candle on both ends.