Why don't women fall in love with guys who really care for them?
Read this carefully. It might answer your question.A guy I knew from high school happened to be a “nice guy”. I never was interested in him but did believe he would land a girl just as sweet as him someday. He was so sweet. He and I would talk occasionally. He seemed like an approachable guy who wouldn’t behave like a butt hole like some others I knew. He would help out people a lot and was kind. Sometimes I would think how someone like him could be single. He wasn’t a go-getter type when it comes to girls.This guy never showed any interest in me and went on to date some girls in college. We did not get to meet face-to-face after high school. I once noticed him grinning when a bunch of his friends they made misogynistic jokes on my girl friends. Soon after college, he texted me once and showed interest in me. I was shocked. I never really saw him as anything more than a nice friend. That was all. But alas!I had to respond whether I accepted his advances or not. I rejected him. I was asked for a reason. I told him that I only saw him as a nice friend. He was heart-broken (I believe). He asked me again and again. I denied him each time. Then he asked me the reason as well. I told him with full honesty that I did not like him that way. He once texted me. “The girls; they all tell me that I am a very nice guy.” I was like, “Me too. But that doesn't make me attracted to you romantically.” He is still waiting for me to say yes, even after I specifically told him that I wasn’t interested in him.Did you guys notice it? Did you notice why I outright denied this nice guy?There was the misogynistic take. Any guy, not matter how sweet, if he is misogynistic on the inside, there’s no point.He kept using his sweetness to get me. I don’t like guys just because they are sweet. I have certain criteria which guys need to fit if they want me to perceive them as attractive guys. Some of which include a passion to travel, not being a chauvinist and admit mistakes when he’s wrong, not blindly following someone when he knows they are wrong, chivalry and similar interests as me. He didn’t fit all the categories.Just because you’re a nice guy, doesn’t mean that girls should feel lucky if you like them. Being sweet is a good thing. But if that’s all you’ve got, then your pool of selection will be limited. There is more to life than just sweetness.
Why women don't find "nice guys" sexy?
I am going to be uncharacteristically harsh. Have you ever been to "Heartless Bitches International?" They have a lovely rant about "Nice Guys." See Source 1. It may actually be a pretty enlightening read. I like alpha males. I like strong, confident men who know what they want out of life. Not aggressive jerks; assertive gentlemen who don't whine or ***** when life gives them an unfair shake. Not a guy who will let me cry on his shoulder while secretly hoping I'll ask him out while I say, "Why can't I find anyone?" Because the person I am looking for is not likely them. Women TEND to prefer men who have experience, who look like they've been through some stuff, because they're the most likely to appeal to female drives that deal with attraction. You will also notice that a lot of girls who go for bad boys or guys who are wrong for them tend to whine about wanting a "nice guy," essentially, they're not being honest with themselves. I was told once by a very wise lady that strong women know EXACTLY what they want, and it isn't weak traits. I'll use some bird biology here. A female bird will sleep with the choice male while the weak little male who she can get to care for her mixed brood isn't looking, because the stronger male's genes are likely better. So, essentially, you need to grow a pair, get out and experience the world a bit. If you need a woman for you to love yourself, you're working in the wrong order. The fact that you need constant attention screams insecurity.
How do guys deal with a woman's period?
I know she feels rundown and I try to help her as much as I can. I know she feels very flu like and I know she does not have her normal high tolerance of my goofy nature, so I try to fly right for a week or so. Very hard to do by the way! I keep a running chart in my head of her cycle so I can know when the period is starting up. Its part of her so I don't see it as something to hide from. Its as natural as sleeping or eating or any thing else. I still cant help saying "Have a happy period" when she mentions that she is starting to feel premenstrual.That always sets her off. She says that commercial was written by men, and I'm sure it was.
Why do most guys dont allow their girlfriends to wear mini skirts? whats the big deal?
hm..i asked a similar question........my gf wears micro mini..red lipstick...and i tend to feel a lil isecure.....cause it sort of says "im available"...in my mind anyway...... Ive never stopped her ...from wearing what she wants.i dont get mad.but yes she knows i dont like it.but teases me a lil too about it