Why do people always make fun of my nose?
So basically I am 17 years old and have a huge nose. Everywhere I go people have to bring it up just to make me feel like ****. I usually try to take this insults as best as I can, but sometimes they just get to me and I feel so angry at the world for making me like this. My whole family is very good looking with attractive noses, but I'm stuck with quite possibly the biggest nose I have ever seen. Every time I begin to feel good about myself I have to hear my dad say something like " Ya maybe he is ugly, but he wouldn't be without that nose." I cannot take this anymore and just want to live a life like everyone else where I don't have to worry about people making fun of me everywhere I go.
Why do people make fun of me?
I used to have this problem when I was younger too. But after I made some adjustments, no one ever DARED to say anything about me to my face. So what you have to do is, first start with your appearance. Stop worrying about attracting attention because obviously they notice you anyway. If you start wearing clothes that look better, like a nicer color, they will probably notice you in a good way. My advice is to wear your best outifts to school. And a hater may say something every now and then, but you'll mostly get positive comments from everyone else. Get your hair done really nice, wear a little makeup, like lipgloss, maybe eyeliner, and talk to your parents about contact lenses. I was so happy when I switched form glasses to contacts! :) As far as haters go, speak your mind to them. If they are pointing out your flaws, don't be afraid to point out theirs. They have a funny last name? Tell them how funny it is or how ridiculous it sounds. Speak up in class and that will get you better credits in your grade. They can laugh and snicker all they want, but I bet you they could not answer the same question. The thing that I did was stop caring about what other people thought about me. I said what I wanted and if anyone had a problem with that, we could discuss it. And if they wanted to get in my face and try to start something, I was more than willing to teach them a lesson. I'm not saying that you should fight everyone, but if it comes to having to defend yourself, don't be afraid and never back down. Most of the time, people who talk tough and try to pick on you do it because they know that you will never respond. So it's like a puppet. Surprise them and call their bluff. They won't be expecting that and once they see you aren't having that anymore, they will most likely leave you alone. All in all, I say that you should work on your self-image and maybe even outer image, speak your mind and not worry about what others think, and get tough and stand up for yourself. if you need more advice, I'd be glad to help at angelic_dreams92@yahoo.com Good luck!
Why do people make fun of people who are in Special Ed?
I'm 18 and I'm going to be a senior in high school soon. I've been in special ed all my life because I needed help with my school work etc. What I don't get is, Why to people always have to make fun of the special ed kids? I remember back when I was in middle school, I've always got bullied, picked on, etc because I was in special ed, they used to call me and my friends stupid or "little kids" etc and I felt really bad when people treated me like dirt. This is the same for High School too. I was a freshmen and I used to like this one girl and this guy kept asking her why is she hanging with those "little kids", and it really irritated me my blood pressure was boiling I wanted to go kick his ***. Back when I was at my old High School, You wouldn't get a High School diploma, you will get a certificate for special education and you wouldn't be allowed to go into College, I told my special ed teacher that I was going to go to College when I graduate, And she said "No your not" and was treating me like a baby acting like I had mental problems. That's what she did, treated us all like babys since were in Special Ed. Why the hell do people treat us like this? My sophomore year at my new School when we were taking our tests to pass to the next grade, my teacher rudely asked me do I need someone to read me the test questions, And I was like, Wtf? I already know how to read I'm not stupid or anything. And they had Special Ed aids in the regular ed classes helping the special ed kids who need help and I wasn't allowed to do any of the advanced work. Since were in Special Ed, why do people treat us differently? Not all of us are "stupid" or "retarded" like most people say we are. Girls won't even go out with me because I'm in Special Ed, What the hell is wrong with this picture? I'm smart, But the School treats me like I'm not, I'm only in Special Ed for Math and Science. And that's it. Why do we have to suffer because of this BS?
Why do some people feel good making fun of others?
It's people with low self-esteem that pick on others. It's pathetic that people do this, obviously they have zero self awareness and what drives their behavior.I almost feel bad or embarrassed for the person picking on the people because they're hurting inside.When somebody is confident they feel no need to do this mindless behavior. Instead they wish to help.
Why do people made fun of me being short?
I'm short for my age therefore I look younger but people in general tend to stop and take a moment to figure out a rude comment to say to me. What!!! Does everyone have to be normal or be compared? What is normal? or perfect? I'm seriously getting sick of other people's bull-h-t. I love the way I'am (no complaints here) just asking why do you make fun of others? Just remember treat others the way you would like to be treated. -spelling doesn't count- -Thank you!-
Why do some people always making fun of Autistic People?
Ignorance and possibly a mean spirit. We need to keep in mind no one is perfect.
How do I reply to the people who always make fun of me?
Why do you need to reply? I understand that you want to defend yourself against them, but anything you tried would probably blow up in your face. The people you are describing sound like bullies and bullies love when they get you upset! If you try to ��defend” yourself to them, they will have won.I get it, it’s not fair. Well, life’s not fair. Deal with it. I don’t mean to be discouraging, I just mean that if you let things like this get to you, you’re going to have trouble being happy. You have to just let it go. That will make it less fun for the bullies, so they’ll probably leave you alone.When someone in a group I’m in doesn’t like me, for whatever reason, I treat them the same was I treat the rest of the group. It doesn’t usually take too long for them to stop disliking me. I’m just too darned nice to them, in spite of the fact that they make sure I know they don’t like me. I don’t behave the way I do in order to get them to like me. I do what I do because that’s who I am.I am a very kind, considerate person. That means I can’t just be kind and considerate to people who are kind and considerate to me. Anybody can do that, it doesn’t take a kind, considerate person to do that. But I behave that way to everybody, no matter how they treat me. The result usually is that people end up liking me, or at least not being able to justify to themselves being unkind to me. But that’s not why I do it. I do it because that’s who I choose to be. So, you’re going to have to ask yourself who you choose to be.And karma has a way of working things out, too. Do what you believe to be best in the world and let the universe take care of the rest.