Why hasn't he asked me out yet?
So I met a guy at a party and the next day he started texting me on Facebook...After 4 days he asked for my telephone number,we ve been texting for a month everyday (most of the time he texts me first even though in the last 4 days I have texted him and we haven't talked that much) but he hasn t asked me out yet...We both attend quite difficult high schools and we both have to study hard but on Saturday or on Friday we re not busy ....We live in different towns but he has a car,so why hasn t he asked me out yet?
Why hasn't he asked me out yet?
There's a guy in my class who I have been attracted to since day one. We had a lot in common. Well, a lot of the guys in the class come up and talk to me, but I'm not interested in them that way. I finally had a chance to speak with the cute guy, and we hit it off. He also was flirting with me on social media, so I gave him my number. Ever since, he asks very detailed questions, is very respectful, and remembers little details I tell him. It appears he is really into me, but I know he is very busy with his senior project. He suggested we go skating, but didn't set a specific date. I'm wondering if he is just unsure or if I need to give him more cues? Any help is appreciated!
Why hasn't he asked me out yet?
i've known this guy for three months and have been hanging out with him for about 2 months. We hang out about 2 or three days a week and just watch movies in his dorm room. about a week ago we kissed for the first time. i didn't want to kiss him until he asked me out but it just happened. Then yesterday i chill with him again and we hook-up for the second time...just making out and only above the belt stuff. i don't get why he hasn't asked me out yet. at first i thought he might just want me as a hook-up but then why wait for me to be ready to kiss him for two months. my next thought was that he just want's to keep his options with other girls opened (b/c he knows and flirts with other girls.) I mean i just want a date i don't want to be exclusive or anything! Why wont he ask me out?? And I've told him that i like him (about 3 weeks ago.) I just don't know what to do...maybe move on...stupid boys....
Why has he not asked me out yet? This guy calls me and chats with me every day but hasn’t asked me out yet despite that he does like me. I asked him out, but he made some excuses?
Question answered: Why has he not asked me out yet? This guy calls me and chats with me every day but hasn’t asked me out yet despite that he does like me. I asked him out, but he made some excuses?There’s more to this than meets the eye.It would be easy to just assume that he’s not interested in dating you, given what you’ve said in your question. But let’s dig deeper.This guy calls you and chats with you every day and you already know that he likes you.In my experience, he may have low self-esteem and a very low level of confidence in dating women from being rejected dozens of times - if not more - in the past.That’s why he hasn’t asked you out yet. He’s afraid of failing (again) on the date itself. This also explains why he’s made some excuses when you’ve asked him out.He may have social anxiety. And he probably has a fear of rejection. He feels safe talking to you on the phone, but that’s where his feeling of safety ends.
Why hasn't my crush asked me out yet?
Boys like to get reassurance and they want to know the girl likes them back, or else they will be uncomfortable and won't know what to do and they won't want to feel stupid around you. Just let them know how you feel! You already know he likes you, and if you like him back what could go wrong by letting him know? He'll be thrilled to hear that you're into him as much as he's into you.
Why isn't he asking me out yet!??!?
One thing so many guys fear these days is rejection, they always worry that if they ask the girl of their dreams out, she is just going to say 'no', perhaps that is what he is worried about, maybe you need to make a move, kiss him on the lips or hug him unexpectedly, show him you care for him :)
Why hasn't he asked me to be his girlfriend yet?
Guys, boys, dudes - however you prefer them to be - can be annoyingly immature most times. In your case, there are a few possibilities as to why he has not asked you to be his 'official' girlfriend: 1. He might be content with the status quo at this point of time - being close friends without the 'commitment' required in a boy/girl relationship. 2. He might not have overcome his shyness or acquired the courage to ask you, even after two months being together. As I have mentioned above: boys can be annoyingly AND frustratingly puerile, when they should have done the mature thing and be more responsible, especially when the situation involves 'others' - (read: Girls)! 3. He might not be interested in having a 'relationship' with you. Sorry to say, but there have been situations like this amongst my friends, when the guy was simply happy to just be friends with a girl; merely close friends, and nothing more than that. So, the best thing to do now is: clarify, and verify. Ask him what he thinks, and I bet he will provide you the answer you're seeking. If he lays it down plain and simple, chances are option 3 is the answer. But if he blushes, stutters, and struggles to find the words to explain himself, then let him take his time to sort his mind out about how he wants to continue. If you like him too, then, some encouragement from you will help him into becoming less immature and be more forthwith. At any rate, I wish you all the best and may you get the best outcome you deserve.
If he likes me, why hasn't he asked me out yet?
First you understand the logistics that can create problems. You're in a job environment and women can complain of sexual harrassment. So he's not going to make a move if he doesn't get CLEAR direct message from you that you do like him.Second, this is where you work, and if the relationship doesn't work it can might create awkwardiness, emotional problems for him and you.Third is now the other type of fear which is the fear of rejection.Men as well as women fear rejection.It is the same reason why you haven't asked him out yourself. It is the same reason why he hasn't out you out too.The fear of being rejected can play a big part in someone and creates anxiety due to social conditioning, what others might think if he got rejected, what if you are one of those women who talks and goes around office he got rejected, and all sorts of stories we narrate in our minds.Which causes one to hesitate.So first ask yourself these questions..1. Do I want to risk dating someone where I work?2. Can I take the emotional strain if it does happen and find we break up, and knowing we'll see each other everyday at work?If the answer is yes, then all you need to know and do is these two..1. Do I like him? If yes..2. Approach and start conversing, tease, flirtIf you find he recipocrates then say.."what do you do for fun after work?"And lead to where you exchange numbers and agree arrange to meet for a drink and chill.Don't label it as a date as it creates awkwardness. Instead when you do meet, assume he is your boyfriend and act accordingly, tease, flirt, smile, laugh at his lame jokes, and touch, hold hands and even kiss.And do not leave before arranging another time or at least say to each other, you'll call each other to talk to meet again.
My crush likes me back but why hasn’t he asked me out yet? (It seems like he wants to date me though.)
From my personal experience, I wouldn’t say I’m super attractive but I’m meh. I’ve had girls come up and ask for my number and show interest in me when they have no idea who I am. Thus I’ve gotten into some pretty nasty relationships because I didn’t want to hurt a girl’s feelings by rejecting them. With that being said, I am currently doing this exact thing to a girl to see if she will come after me (which I don’t want). When a girl pursues me really hard it’s a huge red flag for me. I end up being that guy who starts dating her just to get her off my case essentially. (Not every guy is like me)The second biggest reason I’m doing this is because I wanna mentally prepare myself for whatever rejection I may receive. I take dating a girl very seriously and if I get rejected it’s gonna suck. It will hurt a lot worse to get rejected if I act based on what I’m feeling in the moment rather than look at the situation logically and prepare myself for rejection.So with that said, not every dude is just like me but the main things I see when talking to my friends is it’s a huge dent on a dude’s ego if a girl rejects them. I would worry about the guy who doesn’t care if you reject them because that means they really don’t value you as a human being in the first place
He likes me but he hasn’t asked me out yet. What should I do?
You should go on with your life and behave the way you normally do.If he likes you, he will approach you. It is not easy for guys to approach women. Be patient. If he asks you out, great. If not, just go on doing the things you love and enjoy. If he is interested, he will find a way. Otherwise, there are loads of guys around. Be approachable and friendly but dont be too easy. The harder he works to get you, the more he will appreciate you.