I'm so careless. What to do?
Two parts - 1 bashing, 2 suggesting. People who don't care are usually people who take things for granted. They're, in a way, selfish because they don't consider the turmoils and troubles other people go through, just themselves. Also, they tend to be somewhat ignorant. If you don't care about education, obviously you do not know the dire consequences of a lack of good education and financial struggle. I assume you are a child, or a teenager, living under a decent care of a parent, foster parent, or both parents. Then you are by no means bound to such struggles and stress. Then in that case, you don't know true suffering. You are ignorant and being inconsiderate of the sufferings of others. That's why you are careless. You don't know true pain or suffering, or how to be grateful of life. Secondly, you're inconsiderate because you're not considering the blessings you have (I assume you have a computer with internet to type this.. and not at the library). Some people don't even have computers or internet or any of the blessings. Some people want to get a good education to help their future and others. You not caring shows that although you have these things, you're ungrateful. Part 2 Force yourself to change. If you really can't, have someone help you change. Start with little steps, like reading a book or two. Maybe start studying a bit more, like 30 minutes more a day or something. Start being more active in your community. If you really don't have a passion to succeed in your own life or whatever, then live for someone else. Succeed and give back to the poor community of America so that they may have a chance to succeed at their own lives.
Why am I so careless of everything?
What are you even asking? Please, elaborate. I might have misunderstood your post. I suppose everyone goes through a time like that in your life. Mostly in their teens. If you don't care about anything anymore, you could just try to do stuff at a slow pace for a while and gradually start looking for new hobbies. If this is related to depression, you should seek a counselor or talk to your friends/family about it. Sulking alone will make things worse.
How can I be detached without being careless?
Nice question. Being detached from feelings and reality is very different to being absolutely with them and yet equanimous with what they are. Fighting for detachment is a guaranteed no win, because love, sorrow, and excitement to name a few, are natural responses to life. Becoming attached to detachment is natural mistake, because it seems like detachment is something that is done rather than something that is not done.Practicing detachment is about presence with natural responses, but not having or indulging in reactions, amplifications, and complications of those natural responses. They will arise and they will pass. If you don't crave the good ones, or be averse to the painful ones, just experience them as they naturally arise and decay, then that is your practice.Thus you may notice how not all good luck is wholly good, or bad luck wholly bad. Its just luck.A life without feelings, strong or otherwise is a crap outcome, and about as crap as a life run by feelings, and feelings about feelings. Just feel and leave it be. An unforced life is pretty easy to be around so your friends and family may not even notice much more than an ease, adaptability, and general contentment when its quiet.
Why have I become so careless and self righteous ?
All I can think about is the things people have done wrong to me and I can never forgive or forget. My Temper has increased so much I find myself losing it over the smallest things and things I used to feel sorry for I just dont see remourse as a feeling thats worth "feeling" I just hate what the worlds become around me and I dont trust anybody anymore I confide to myself and write music thats about it. I know my lifes sucked and parents abandoned me because of drugs. Theres a whole lot to it I dont have the time to explain on here but lately I realized how much ive changed. I only do things for my own gain I dont care about anybofy else's. I guess its the one part of me thats trying see the point of caring asking this question ? But to fix it I have to know why it started in the first place.
Are Gemini's self-centered and inconsiderate?
Wow, I couldn't have said it better than "Helin". I don't think Gems always realize that they're being selfish or inconsiderate most times. I'm not saying that the behavior can't be worked on...I just agree that you can't really hate a person for being born with a certain tendency. I think Gems just tend to live so much more in the moment, and in their own heads, that other ppl's feelings honestly just doesn't occur to them as much as with some other signs....And I'm not providing this as an excuse just because I Love Gems lol. Actually, I think this is a tendency with air signs in general. I know I am often guilty of it anyway. BUT as soon as a person brings it to my attention that I've hurt them, or they feel that I was being inconsiderate of them(once I get over the initial shock), I am VERY quick to apologize. It is never my intention to hurt anyone. Sometimes, I can just be so quick-tongued and whimsical that it simply doesn't occur to me.
Prior to the last presidential election in the US, what was wrong with Hillary Clinton communicating to anyone she wished by any means at her disposal including emails?
Nothing, nada, zip, zilch. Using email is not a crime, regardless of what some people seem to believe.The issue with Hillary’s emails concerned some she sent and received while Secretary of State, several years prior to her 2016 run. The controversy was about sending and receiving 110 classified emails on a potentially insecure private email server, which could have been compromised by a hostile foreign nation.Note the use of “could have” in that sentence. As far as anybody knows, it wasn’t. (You’d think, given all that’s happened since, we’d know about it by now.)On the other hand, the ‘secure’ email servers at the US State Department were hacked in 2014, apparently by the Russians.That was two years after HRC stopped being SOS. But it could have happened earlier. Would that have been more secure?There have been far worse breaches at the federal level than that. Chinese hackers broke into the servers at the Office of Personnel Management (OPM) in 2015 and stole 22 million records of current and former federal employees, including nearly 6 million fingerprints.You know who else also used private email accounts to discuss classified topics while Secretary of State? Condoleezza Rice and Colin Powell. And yet, they somehow escaped multiple congressional and FBI investigations spanning years.The FBI concluded Clinton’s actions were careless but not criminal, which seems about right. The rest of this is self-righteous chest thumping by wingnuts who wanted to stop Hillary from becoming president and now need her as a scapegoat for everything Trump does wrong (which is to say, everything Trump does).You know what’s a bigger security risk than maintaining a private email server? Using an insecure smartphone. Especially when you’re president of the United States.‘Too inconvenient’: Trump goes rogue on phone securitySo where’s all the self-righteous chest thumping over that?
Why does social media make some people more confrontational and able to say things they would never say in real life because its rude or out of line? Why are people more ballsy online?
A few years ago, I had a Facebook "friend" who started posting really odd hashtags all of a sudden.I had openly shared "Before" & "After" photos of my double eyelid surgery. To me plastic surgery is not that much different from getting orthodontic braces to correct crooked teeth.If I don't like something about my appearance, I do something to improve it. What's the shame in that?Soon after that, she started adding these hashtags to her selfies:#nomakeup #noplasticsurgery #nophotoshop #nofilterAt first I thought perhaps I was being too sensitive.Then she got more and more blatant and obvious. She fake complimented one of my photos and I replied, "Because the filter is nice. :)"Some time later, I posted a selfie sharing about my favorite BB cream which I had been using.The very next day she posted a selfie with hashtags:#noplasticsurgery #noBBcream #nomakeup #nofilter*eye roll*I decided enough was enough.So I posted this:"To the ladies who like to boast on social media how they don't use any makeup, BB cream, photoshop, filters or had any plastic surgery done… this is the f***ing applause you were seeking. Do you want a medal too?"She unfriended me immediately. Lol.Wanna bet she wouldn't have the balls to say any of those snarky self righteous crap to me in real life?Judging me is one thing but to constantly post such hashtags alongside selfies, as a passive aggressive method to shame me on a public platform just for wearing makeup and getting double eyelid surgery, is just shameful behavior.It's my face, lady. Buzz off.So yes, many people tend to be a lot more ballsy over social media because they are cowards hiding behind a screen, occasionally even behind total anonymity.I'm no saint. I do judge people too, but I keep my damn opinions to myself because frankly who gives a sh*t?
Why is this world so extremly boring?
The answers are wrong here, Life is boring because earth is not your home. Simple as that.What is living? What is life? Why do I live Who am I? What am I? What is my purpose? Stupid people gives stupid answers. But most importantly you feel bored because you humans are plain stupid that’s all.You are tired to the cycle of life because you experienced it a thousand of times now. First Humans are babies then kids, go to school and study useless things, become teenager have first sex then go to college to prepare for the real world but what you are learning in college is not how to survive in the real world but useless things that you could not even use after graduating to college you take a job with stupid shits all around you that has no purpose in life. Then have kids and just die Then your kids will repeat that cycle again. Tell me what the f*ck is enjoyable in this life cycle of the world. The earth is beautiful I know that its just that this life cycle sucks. The world is about living an enjoyable life not a struggling life full of shits.
How do you resolve disputes with passive aggressive significant others?
Sadly, I must say the most tried and true way to resolve disputes with passive aggressive significant others is to move out and move on.You’re never going to win, so if you’d like him/her to respect your wishes, forget about it.And he/she is not going to change. What made him/her this way is deeply rooted. The patterns of their thoughts and behavior are often the result of years and years of resentment, often toward a parent or parents who neglected them. So resentment rules their thoughts and feelings. They can become self righteous scolds who are constantly finding fault with others, and, if you have the misfortune of being involved with a passive aggressive, you will find that it’s death by a thousand cuts.I guess it would be just too devastating for them to ever admit that they are wrong, and that they are the ones who should stop being so negative. The world can be beautiful much of the time if you just stop sabotaging your happiness. Tell them that and you will just get more dirty looks. A passive aggressive person does not fight fair, so rosolution is out of the question. The best you get is a temporary truce.Passive aggressive people are often depressed, and, nowadays, most therapists will just prescribe happy pills instead of helping them get to the causes of their sadness and anxiety.You wouldn’t be asking this question if you were careless, if you hadn't already been trying to mend things for a long time. You can do a great deal to make your own life better. You can be a better parent. You can be far less dependent on somebody who can not properly respect you or care about you. Sometimes the only sensible thing you can do is to shrug your shoulders, let go, and move on.