My friends have abandoned me?
I understand how you feel. I am the kind of person who has 1 really close friend and then good acquaintances. I had a really good friend for 3 years who broke away from me and then another for a year who got friends with people i didn't like, maybe whats happening to you. However, it doesn't mean you cant be friends with this girl now, i had a best friend who i didn't talk to for a year, he's now my best friend again :). First you have to try and get to know lauren, see if you like her or not. if you've done this and you like her great, if you don't like her then you must talk to your friend. Tell her exactly what you feel, don't be angry, just be honest. Explain you want to stay friends but you don't want to control her life. Tell her that you feel used and uncared for. You may just be paranoid. This may sound awful now but if it doesn't improve then find a new friend, trust me you will. After i lost my friend that i knew for 3 years i was really upset but now i have a much nicer and more caring friend. However, if you have been friends with her for so long i'm sure theres nothing to worry about, she will probably understand, reassure you and treat you better. It will turn out ok either way :)
My "friends" abandoned me? :(?
Two of my "friends" have completely stopped talking to me. Their names are Kelsey and Laila. I am 100% positive that I didn't do anything to make them angry. They aren't nice people (talk about everyone in a mean way, talk to me badly, justr generally bitches) anyway, but it still bothers me. Kelsey and I had been best friends since Kindergarten, but then she started getting mean a few years ago (we're freshmen now) and she tells everyone that we're only acquaintances. I was okay with that, but she also says mean things 'jokingly' about my appearance, athletic abilities, and spreads rumors about me :( Then about a week ago she and Laila, a girl who I became close to this year, completely stopped talking to me. They won't even acknowledge me or say "hello" in the morning. They pass by me like total strangers, even though a couple weeks ago I thought things were fine. I just don't know why they're doing this, and I don't know what to do anymore besides ignore them and be as bitchy to them as they are to me. Help? :(
All my friends have abandoned me..?
It goes to show that my friends have up and left me in the midst of me leaving school for homeschooling, due to auditory hallucinations and major social anxiety. I admit crawling out of the woodwork isn't going to make me friends but I've known these people ever since I was a child. My best friend was in a psychiatric hospital just as I was twice but the probability of her going to a residential treatment facility are high. None of them show the ehre of being loyal. They hate me, for what ingurity? Maybe it's paranoia but I have been hurt not victimnizing myself just too many times I don't know what to do with myself. They'll never understand how I think I'm a freak unworthy of friendship and companionship, I see myself as trash everyday.
My friends have abandoned me?
Ugh... so i have only 3 friends (if you can call them that anymore -.-) they don't talk to me anymore, only if they need something. They mostly ignore me... should i leave them and try to find other friends? I am very shy so i have hard time making friends.. i don't want to be friends with people that are mean or selfish... please help? What should i do?
My friends abandoned me, while i was drunk?
Well we went out as a group of friends (about 9 of us), drunk a lot of wine and then we split two cabs to return to our homes .Now, the problem is that i've been having some issues with my best friend (she's a girl and i'm a girl too) and i didn't actually expect her to "take care" of me, but i was really wasted. So, i was near my home(about 15 minutes on foot) and i could barely walk and there she was giving me a speech about not being able to go home and that i'm old (19) and stuff. (It was 3AM by the way and no people around). My guy friends (at that point they were only 2 of them left - one of them is in love with me i think) didn't want to walk me home( i still don't know why) and so i started crying and i was actually begging them to help me, but no they did not and so i went home alone with red eyes from crying, and it was a miracle i didn't get raped or anything. Now i know that i was responsible for myself, but dude...i realised that you cannot trust anyone and count on ANYONE but yourself. What do you think? Was that okay what they did to me? (By the way, none of them is speaking to me..sons of bitches..)
My best friend has abandoned me..?
I know how you feel I have a similar problem. :/ It's a sucky feeling. I'd try talking to him and saying hey buddy!! you've been ignoring me and ditching me for your girlfriend and I'm sick of it!! Tell him that you understand that he has responsibilities now to his girlfriend but he also has a responsibility to his best friend. He needs to take responsibility for the turmoil in your relationship. I'm sorry he's being a jerk. >:( If all else fails ask his girlfriend to speak with him. She's probably a lot more sensitive than he is. Maybe she can talk some sense into him. Good luck!!! I hope you work things out. :)
Friend abandoned me?
I'm 19 and just found out I'm pregnant. I told my boyfriend, and that went well. No problems there. But when I told my friend of 8 years, she flipped out about how stupid this mistake is, and she basically abandoned me (that's how it feels anyway). She won't answer my texts or phone calls. What can I do?
Why do my friends abandon me for no reason?
Trust me, there IS a reason: either you are letting yourself ‘go w/the flow’ w/whomever is selecting YOU as a friend and YOU’re not discerning of choosing your associations, OR you ARE doing something offensive, confusing, scary, too ridiculous…Something they are noticing and not understanding or liking. We ACTUALLY LEARN MORE ABOUT OURSELVES from relationships than about the other person….IF we are paying attention and willing to be honest w/ourselves. IS there a common thread of your comments and/or behavior that these ppl are reacting to? OR are these ppl evidencing any type of character YOU want in your life…CHOICES is our power….as well as HONEST personal internal eval and reflection…is HOW we develop and progress to BE better ppl ourselves.