I am uncomfortable about my penis size?
i have a fairly small penis and im scared to lose my verginity because of wat the girl might say. I come close to having sex but i always back out cause i dont want to be humiliated. will a girl say something or maybe spread it around? please give me some advice.
Why am I uncomfortable with evangelising? Is this normal?
It is so normal that a very large percentage of Christians have never even once led someone else to a saving relationship with Christ.The idea that every Christian must be an evangelist is somewhat true but also mostly false. You may have other gifts and specialties. Each one is important. When David took his band on a raid, there were people that were exhausted, so he permitted them to remain behind in the camp guarding their “stuff.” When the returned, they possessed new spoils of war. David ordered equal shares for everyone. Those who had fought complained that those who were resting by the fire got a share without lifting a finger to help. David rebuked them, and pointed out that their service rendered was just as important as those on the front line.I find people who try to evangelize without some gifting for it, to be capable sometimes of more harm than good.I think it good to know how to present your faith. Peter said we should be ready to answer anyone that asks a reason for the hope that is in us. Notice the moving party in this transaction? It would not be the would-be evangelist. It is the interested seeker. We mistakenly try to force-feed unwilling listeners thinking we are serving God. They do not appreciate it. To be rather indelicate, it is kind of like romance. What woman wants some totally strange man to walk into a restaurant, grab her by the arm and tell her he has the wedding chapel hired and the preacher is waiting? She will be shouting for HELP!!!Rather, a delicate approach is required. An introduction. Take it easy. Establish a rapport, perhaps a friendship. You take things to the next level only when the time is right.Some of us are capable of doing this rather quickly. One reason we are successful at it is by having enough sense to know when to shut up. You develop a feel for it. Almost anyone will discuss religion with you. Very few want to join your “cult.” (That’s often how it makes them feel..) If they find out you are real, rational and respectful, you earn the right to be heard.Or you can give to missions. If you can’t do it, invest in those whose calling is to do nothing else. You can’t go wrong.The only way to really fail is to live in guilt for being who you are. This is rarely if ever a path to peace.
Do you feel uncomfortable using bathrooms in other people's homes?
Serious question. I always feel uncomfortable when I am in someone else's home and I have to use their bathroom to do a number two. I do not know why, but I just feel uncomfortable. I also sometimes feel uncomfortable when I just have to do a number one. It's just my nature, I guess. What about you...do you feel uncomfortable using the bathrooms of other people's homes?
Why do I always feel uncomfortable being touched?
It’s definitely not uncommon. I can feel very uncomfortable with being surrounded by people even when they don’t touch me and I’ll often ask people to remove their hands from me, especially if I haven’t slept well that night. There could be a lot of reasons for it. In my case, there are several reasons. As far as I’m aware, you can roughly categorize the possible reasons into two groups:It’s due to traumaYou’re physically more sensitive than normalLet me elaborate:If it’s due to trauma, something might have happened to make you feel uncomfortable with being physically close to people whether or not you remember it. When I say trauma, it doesn’t have to be something big, although it can be - getting raped will almost certainly make you feel uncomfortable being touched. But trauma can also be caused by small things, especially if that small thing is often repeated. It can be something like people repeatedly not respecting your personal space or you moving too far out of your comfort zone. While I have always felt a bit uncomfortable around people, forcing myself to experience that discomfort have certainly made it worse.You can also just have been born more sensitive to touch than normal. Some people have a heightened sense of touch, which can make touch overwhelming and therefore uncomfortable. Eg, people with autism often have one or more senses heightened. The reason I’m uncomfortable with touch is because of this. Other conditions can also be the cause, like being a Highly Sensitive Person.Tl;dr: It’s fairly common and I can’t tell you exactly why you feel like that because there are so many possible reasons.
Why am i so uncomfortable with affection?
It is because you are self destructive due to the fact that you have had pain from a father figure or older brother in the past, and now you don't understand affection because your brain is confused about what true affection really is. You are having trouble feeling or trusting affection due to the repressed pain. You have to find out what pain you felt before from the father figure and work through it so that you can be emotionally healthy again, and not be self destructive.
Why am I so uncomfortable with my boyfriend being bi-sexual?
I'm a teenager in a relationship with a guy, and our relationship is pretty serious. Recently, though, he came out of the closet as bisexual. I am the first person that he has ever told and it totally caught me off guard. I'm very gay tolerant, and I'd say that half of my friends are either gay or bisexual, but having a bisexual boyfriend really bothers me. I feel as if I'm not good enough for my boyfriend, and that he'll always be wanting something that I don't have. Sometimes, it seems as if he wishes that I were a guy. I feel really insecure, and I want to cry sometimes, even though he has explained to me that he loves me and I absolutely trust him. I just want to know how to look past this, because I feel strongly for him, and I don't want there to be any issues or drama in our relationship. When I'm upset, I can't even talk to a friend about it, because I am the only one who knows, and he is trusting me with that. What should I do to look past this?
Why do I feel uncomfortable and nervous in social situations?
Social phobia is a term that i would use to describe your current condition.It happens when you are constantly affected by what is happening in your surroundings. There is a difference between being alert and being on the edge. I am guessing you were bullied as a child, maybe had an embarrassing episode with the public and by public I mean your peers. Its that trauma which has not allowed you to come out and move on.I would advice the following-1. Stop seeking approval or appreciation from people. It will only make you lose your identity.2. Do what you fear the most. If its the Social culture that frightens you, start talking with strangers. Look for a book called "How to talk to anyone, anywhere and anytime" by Larry King.3. Aim to Express and not Impress.4. Stop looking at their faces when you are stressed out, the reactions on people's faces is just a distraction.Goodluck!!