Pregnant and ex-bf is being horrible. What to do?
i'm an idiot to. i went through the same thing only i was 17 and he would not stop calling and telling me to give the baby up for adoption. i know how hard it is. i got pregnant 1month after we broke up i thought that if i kept sleeping with him he would get back with me. any way. the best advice i can give you is to stop calling him until the baby is born. it's obviously stressong you out and that's bad for baby and mom. file for child support when the baby is born but talk to a lawyer now about support for you because they do have that while you are pregnant. i'll bet he changes his tone when he get a good chunck of his paycheck taken every month at least mine did he decided he wanted to be in mydaughters life in the end. he's scared and handling it wrong. unfortunately you can't make him come back or even take an interest. he'll come around. by the way usually if a young guy says “i'll support ya either way” it means go have an abortion i won't be mad not always but usually. i'm really sorry you have to go through this.
Why was God so heartless and horrible in the Old Testament?
Seriously? Why was he so nasty? What a horrible horrible guy he used to be? If he was all knowing and omnipotent, why did he need to test faith??? Therefore he should have KNOWN that Abraham (am i right there?) would have been prepared to sacrifice his son. Why did God go through the motions and put him through so much agony at the prospect of having to kill his own son? Even though he wa a good man? And Job, another good man, why did God destroy his life? Please explain to me why Gos used to be such a heartless you know what?
Why didn't James apologise to Vernon for being so horrible?
Because,A) James was NOT “so horrible” to Vernon, andB) James intended to apologise for his part in things, but never got the opportunity.The first meeting between Lily, her boyfriend James Potter, and the engaged couple, went badly, and the relationship nose-dived from there. James was amused by Vernon, and made the mistake of showing it.Vernon tried to patronise James, asking what car he drove. James described his racing broom. Vernon supposed out loud that wizards had to live on unemployment benefit. James explained about Gringotts, and the fortune his parents had saved there, in solid gold. Vernon could not tell whether he was being made fun of or not, and grew angry. The evening ended with Vernon and Petunia storming out of the restaurant, while Lily burst into tears and James (a little ashamed of himself) promised to make things up with Vernon at the earliest opportunity.This never happened. Petunia did not want Lily as a bridesmaid, because she was tired of being overshadowed; Lily was hurt. Vernon refused to speak to James at the reception, but described him, within James' earshot, as 'some kind of amateur magician'. [1]The information we are given is sparse, but enough to clarify the sequence of events. The first sentence describes the outcome of the meeting, and the second sentence describes James’s emotional reaction to Vernon.The third sentence and those following describe the sequence of events.First, Vernon was patronising about what sort of car James drove, and James responded honestly, taking it all with a grain of salt and a sense of humour.Second, Vernon was jackass, insinuating that James lived on Unemployment Benefits. James again responded honestly and with a sense of good humour.Third, Venon got pissed off and stormed out.Fourth, James tried to apologise (for Lily’s sake, despite having really done nothing wrong himself) at the reception, but Vernon refused to talk to him and was rude again in earshot of James.So, Vernon was being deliberately rude and pushy, and James responded by maintaining his composure and taking it with a sense of humour—which is a perfectly appropriate way to handle rudeness, rather than responding in kind.Nonetheless, James felt he owed it to Lily to try and patch things up with Vernon, and apologise for something he hadn’t actually done, but he never got the opportunity.Footnotes[1] Vernon & Petunia Dursley - Pottermore
Why didn't Ned stop Catelyn being so horrible to Jon Snow?
I am sorry but how can anyone describe Catelyn’s treatment of Jon as anything but horrible? For heaven’s sake, in that very scene where Catelyn is refusing to let Jon say good-bye to Bran who is in a coma and states very clearly: “It should have been you!” Jon reflects that it is the first time she has ever said his name. This encounter alone shatters him.Reflect on that. He has been at Winterfell with her for fourteen years and she has not once said his name. That is psychological abuse. Sansa and everyone else did not call him their “bastard brother” because Ned did. He NEVER did. They did not do it because Septa Mordane or Maester Luwin did. They did it because that was how their mother and the Lady of Winterfell referred to him even in his presence. “Your bastard brother” if she ever spoke to him at all. Don’t try to whitewash Catelyn’s treatment of Jon with misreadings of the text. It is wrong.Ned did not stop it because Ned cannot control Catelyn. He has to lay down the law to Catelyn when she asks him whether Ashara Dayne was Jon’s mother and he replies: Never ask me about Jon. He then finds out where she heard that rumor from and shuts it down like he shuts down everything else. This is a man who has not thought about Rhaegar in many years despite raising Rhaegar’s son after making a deathbed promise to his beloved sister after she died giving birth from Rhaegar’s having gotten her pregnant. Ned is not the most astute man, nor very good at dealing with complex emotions. Look at how easy it is for Catelyn and Luwin to get him to allow Jon to join the Night’s Watch, a decrepit organization, when there are other options around including fostering.
Why is my ex-boyfriend being so nice to me?
It sounds like he's insecure. When men are insecure, they mistrust the women who like them. He might be thinking: "I'm not that great. She likes me. Something must be wrong with her." And that's why he's a jerk. Were you together long? If it was several years, it's understandable that he's trying to get you back. If was a couple weeks or months, he might have a lot of extra emotional baggage you may not want to deal with.
Why is my ex boyfriend being so mean?
He broke up with me a little over 3 months ago. He said he wanted to stay friends. I have seen him maybe 4 times since then and each time he treats me like I am still his girlfriend. He would get upset that I wouldn't hold his hand or kiss him. Lately since I haven't seen him, he has been sending me really rude messages telling me I am fu**ked up, that I have mental problems, that I am a mistake, that I make him angry, etc. The thing is, is that I haven't even seen him or contacted him, so I don't know why he is being so rude. I know he tries to make me jealous by telling me about the girls he is going on dates with, but I just ignore it. He then thinks that I need to tell him where I go and who I hang out with. He sent me a bunch of really rude messages last night asking me where I was. I felt it wasn't any of his business so I didn't answer him. He kept sending and sending messages asking where I was as well as rude messages swearing at me. His last message said we are not together so enough of the ****. I finally decided to reply and said "I know we aren't together, thank god. Happy new year". I guess he didn't like that so he swore some more, called me rude things and sent one last nmessage saying "bye Aimers", which is the nickname that he made up for me. Why is he being so rude and why does he need to know where I am? When he broke up with me he lost that priviledge.
Why is he being so RUDE all of a sudden?
This guy I've known for about 8 months now just broke up with his really horrible girlfriend. We texted while they were still dating but mainly just as friends. But when we hung out and stuff, and it was pretty obvious we liked each other. We talk about everything and I was the person he came to when his parents started divorcing. One night, he called me drunk and actually said he loved me. Because I was always there for him and made him feel good. Well, he and his gf broke up Tuesday, and things have been weird. He texted me the next days after it acting fine, but he would randomly stop texting me. I mean, I knew he had just broken up, so I'm giving him space. But like Thursday, we always talk to each other in the morning and wish each other a great day. He never talked to me. But he texted me that night. Yesterday, we were having a really good conversation and at 4 he just never texted back... Until like 10:30 that night and said "Hey". Usually, he says "I gotta go, I'll text you later" but he hasnt been saying anything! Idk what the heck happens. And THIS morning, after talkin to him most of last night, I say "good morning :)" and NO reply. He's never done that before. I saw on FB On his dads profile where him and his dad are just hanging out. And I'm like, really? You can't even answer me back and you supposedly love me? My minds been running all day long tryin to figure it out. And I'm wondering. Since he and his girlfriend dated for like a year and half, is he rebounding with some other girl? Or is he with all his buddies and they're like "stay single bro, don't mess with commitment" like men stupidly do? Or is he wantin to belike his crazy daddy who cheated on his mom and is seeing all sorts of hoes?
Why is my ex being so heartless towards me?
Though you didn't give much for details, I think I may have a solid answer for you that'll hopefully give some insight. I was in a relationship for nearly two years with this girl who I thought was the most amazing human I've ever met. We went to colleges in totally different states and seeing each other was simply not easy to do. We were a long distance couple, which definitely had its challenges- yet whenever we were together time stopped and the world became one to conquer. However, in the fall of last year she started talking to me less- less texts, calls, FaceTimes, you name it. And I noticed. That's when she ended it with me over text and insisted we remain friends. My heart shattered in more pieces than I can count. I became pretty depressed over the fact that I could lose someone like her the way it happened. I was so in love- and now I was so single. After the initial breakup slump, wanna know what I thought? 'Well fuck her anyways.'I took my role as an ex in stride. I'd never start conversation with her "as friends" and when she did want to talk, I kept it brief and to the point. 'Why should I care?', I'd think to myself. As her ex, I'm certainly not obligated to care for her nor her feelings. I was partying more, banging ridiculously, and all in all grew to enjoy collegiate single life. By December, she noticed that I was getting more and more distant to her, and she asked why I was being so cold. I simply told her to look back at the way she ended what we had and to make her own ideas on it.Now I'm no mean person. And I certainly don't know the details of your particular situation. But if an amazing relationship ends suddenly without warning and without justification, expect some bitter coldness and shrugs from that ex. That's just life bud ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Why is Nicolas Cage so famous despite being a bad actor in bad films?
It is important to remember that we in America have used the terms ‘film actor’ and ‘movie star’ interchangeably. As a result, we’ve been confused when someone we’re unimpressed by still makes movies, still gets press, and still makes money.First, NG is a good film actor. He’s reliable, dependable, and gives the directors what they want - which is the primary goal of film acting: bringing one’s skill and talent to the job, to help the makers of the film realize their vision.Secondly, he is Hollywood royalty. He called himself Cage, so that he might earn movie roles on his own merit, but who is he kidding? He’s a Coppola, and because of that fact, he can do no wrong, nor right. Many people will love his work regardless of how bad it is, and many others will hate the same work - because he’s FF Coppola’s kin.Thirdly, he has been tabloid gold. He married Patricia Arquette and Lisa Marie Presley, he’s donated to several high-profile charities, and he’s had struggles with the IRS. A few magazines with his name and/or face on the cover have been sold over the years…So, take these three points and add in his two Oscar nominations and his one Oscar win, I submit that Nicolas Cage has fulfilled the definitions of both ‘film actor’ and ‘movie star’ - and fulfilled them well…
Why can't I stop being so mean to my little brother?
I know it's not anything you can help me with, but I'm so mean. He doesn't deserve it but I can't help myself. I gave my eight year old brother this letter before I went to camp, and looking back on it I feel so bad. But I know I can't take it back. This is the letter: Dear Justin, I know I make you cry, a lot. But you shouldn’t have to cry for every single little thing. You annoy me so much. You don’t need to do all the things you do. I wish you weren’t so weird. I wish you didn’t randomly dance everywhere. I wish you didn’t cry for every single thing. I yell at you for all these things, not because I want to be mean to you but because I want you to be normal. You’re so weird, and everyone thinks so too. Just stop it. Why is it so hard for you to be normal? I tell you to stop but you don’t. Please Stop. And don’t cry. Why are you so sensetive? You cry for everything. It’s not a big deal. Just man up and take it. Stop crying for everything. Please change. I always wanted a brother, but I had such high expectations. But you don’t meet any of those expectations. Sorry, but you’re a dissapoitment and I’m embarassed to call you my brother. Please change.