Why does he complain about my cooking?
Yesterday was my day to cook so I found a recipe that called for chicken breasts in a crock pot. I poured a can of cream of chicken coup over it and cooked it for like 5 hours. Opened a can of creamed corn and made some white rice. My husband sat down to eat and he took a few bits then had this strange look on his face. I asked him what was wrong and he said the mean was bland and lacked any flavor. I told him toe soup had sodium in it so why would it be bland. He constantly tells me that I look for the easiest, simplest meals to cook because I really don't like standing in a kitchen stirring a pot or mixing seasonings. Do you think what I cooked was a bland meal? Or should he have just been the good little husband and ate it without comment? I'm 49 and think I'm a descent cook.
Why do (some) married men complain about their wives to other women?
They want other women to agree with their point of view to prove to themselves that they are still desirable to other women. If a guy is having a fight with his wife, and then another woman tells him something like, "Oh, she's being ridiculous, if I had a guy like you I'd never get on your case about something dumb like that!", then he gets an ego boost because he interprets this as the other woman finding him attractive and desirable. In his mind, it proves that his wife is wrong and he's right, because if all these other women sympathize with him then obviously his wife must be wrong and is not justified in being upset. And that's how sharing your relationship problems with others becomes destructive, because if those other women heard the wife's side of the story instead of his, it's entirely possible that they'd agree with her instead. Or they'd think they were both wrong. This sort of thing is precisely why my husband and I literally wrote into our wedding vows that we would keep our relationship quarrels between us and not share them with the outside world (though we said it in a lovely and poetic way, of course).
My boyfriend thinks I like complaining. Is it because I tell him too much?
It's probably because it's always about the same stuff.To most men, there are things we can change and things we can't. We choose to either grin and bear it or walk away from it completely if we can't change it. Either way we don't keep going on about it.My mom likes to endlessly go on about things that she doesn't like. I used to stress it because if a problem is presented to me my goal becomes to fix it. I can't fix many if not all her worries. Had similar problems with my last red headed mistake. She'd bitch, I'd propose solutions and eventually would get yelled because she was just venting, not looking for any solutions.Most guys can't comprehend how one functions that way.
Why would a guy complain about his girlfriend to me?
I wouldn't read too much into it. He probably just needs someone to vent to. The point is, no matter how much they argue and fight, there is something very important you may be overlooking: he hasn't broken up with her. If he was so unhappy, he'd end this dysfunctional cycle of breaking up to make up. He may be getting off on this, you never know. There are all kinds of weird things that people thrive on.Second, he's flirting with you while he's "committed" to another woman. Do you believe he wouldn't do this to you if you were in her shoes? Men flirt with women who are convenient and who allow them to. Be careful not to let flirtation cause you to see handwriting on a wall he isn't the author of. From what I see, this is strictly your penmanship.It sounds to me you like him and want him to see you as more than a coworker. Just because a man confides in you, flirts with you and asks you to hang out, that doesn't mean he's interested in making you his girlfriend. He could be interested in the panties because you're in close proximity. I like to be very upfront with people. Going along with what people want instead of reality doesn't help anyone.Again, please don't read too much into your interaction with him. What you want and what he's looking (or not looking for) for may be two different things. Many women end up getting played when they walk into situations with their eyes wide open. Just listen to him as an outside observer keeping your emotions in check.
My guy friend wont stop complaining about being single?
We've been friends for nearly four years. We text daily, buts since we attend different schools- are unable to hang out. For a while, he's been extremely concerned with not having a girlfriend. He'll ask me questions like "What's wrong with me? Why dont chicks like me?" For a while, he even lied to me and said he was making out with 5 girls a night at parties that didn't even exist. Now, we've moved on and he's telling me that he wants a friend, not some girl for sex, he wants a girl to protect...and that hes a loser and he'll end up with nobody. He has a lot more than what he gives himself credit for. How can i let him know this? He always disagrees.... THANKS!
Who think Survivor Man complains too much?
It's only when he complains about the camera gear....... I mean, I think it's good that he mentions it, just so the home viewer can understand what he is going through, but yes it does get annoying at times. Other than that I really like the show. I think he used too many tools in this last season. In the first season fires got started with a boot lace and some sticks. He literally had NOTHING at all but the clothes on his back. Now, knives, flares, parachute cord, hunting buddies, guns....
Why do women think when a married man complains to them about their wife that it is always true?
You are not wrong at all...I had a married friend ( i thought we were just friends ) and i was very naive and he used to tell me all the time that his wife never had sex with him, she was mean to him, she never cleaned and all sorts of other bad things. Well i actually met his wife and we became friends and absolutely NONE of what he was saying to me was true....whooops!...turns out he was just trying to make me feel sorry for him to get me in bed with him (which never happened) once he realized that i knew what a liar he was, he never talked to me again. I have since seen that happen to so many women.....they think that they are getting into a relationship with a married man who has been "wronged" by a horrible "witch wife" and they want to prove how they can treat him so much better than that....pppffft.....The truth is that the wife has no clue that her man is even making up that stuff about her. Believe me the wife is probably a very supportive hard working woman and does not even know there is a problem in the relationship.
What is the difference between complaint and complain?
Complaining (or to complain) is a verb. When you think verb, think: What is going on? Complaint is the noun form of the same word. When you think noun, think: person, place or thing. Verb "Complain" (w/ tenses): She complained. - past She complains. - present She will complain. - future Noun "Complaint" (a thing) She wrote out a complaint.