My mother inlaw and sister inlaw talk trash behind my back, should i confront them?
Who cares what they say?
Caught my sister talking behind my back.?
So I was sitting in my room, my dad gets a call on his cellphone (he's in the living room.) He turns the tv down so he can hear and also has his phone volume all the way up. I hear my my little sisters voice on the other end (shes about 22) and I thought her an I were like best friends, I love her and my nephew, and she did something I never thought she'd do, she was bad mouthing about me behind my back to my father. It shocked me. I would baby sit my nephew for 8-10 hours on some days for next to nothing. I helped them with any computer trouble, showed her a ton of respect. I don't talk about her behind her back because I have nothing bad to say about her, and even if I did, I would tell a bunch of people, it would be wrong. But hearing her do it to me, made my blood boil. Anyway, what should I do about it? I know if I confront her she's either going to deny it, make it seem like I'm being stupid, or she's just going to break contact with me.
Why does her sister-in-law talk about her behind her back?
My friend's sister-in-law keeps talking so much Sh*t about her when my friend did nothing to her. The sister-in-law keeps spreading rumors like my friend's mom is a "mistress" when she's not, or that my friend is a liar and is anti-social. The thing is my friend doesn't even talk about her sister-in-law behind her back or in front of her yet when she tried to confront the sister-in-law, she would hide out and try to avoid confronting my friend. Why is she backstabbing and spreading rumors about my friend when my friend did nothing wrong and is minding her own business yet her sister-in-law keeps minding her business and spreading rumors about her to all the people in their family? My friend is chill you know. She does her own thing and doesn't back stab or stoop down to her level, but I hate how this b*tc* can just treat my friend like that.
My husband calls his sister 3 times every day. It turns me off him. Is it normal?
The scripture you want to quote and fall back on is, "For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? Sorry, doesn't work in your case. A brother is forever bound to look after his sister until she has a man to take care of her. Strange how women feel a man should be compassionate only to their wife or girl friend but not the members of their own family. My suggestion is you loose the jealousy before you lose your spouse. On an added note: the acceptance of this defined it's extent. In other words, you have NO right to let this bother you if you've allowed it to happen.
I think my 14 y.o. sister is having sex should i tell my mom or talk to her?
I think my sister is having sex... she just turned 14... I was over at my parents house and took a shower and dried my hair in her room, there was a note in her vanity with her friend talking about did she regret it and her friend asked her why they did not use a condom and she was like we did but it broke...so i guess she was worried about being pregnant? And there was another note with one of her guy friends talking about it and the whole note was just terrible and very sexual. I am really concerned about her-my parents are having alot of problems-they have even talked about getting divorced-and maybe she just wants attention or something but i am really concerned about her getting pregnant-our 14 y.o. cousin got pregnant and her baby was born like 5 days after her 15th bday...and my sister has the 16 y.o. guy friend that is bisexual and they talk all the time she has even talked to him from 10 pm to 6 am the next morning. I do not know whether to talk to her or just tell my parents!
Can my older sister take me to the doctor instead of my parents?
I ve tried to talk to my mom about me having a possible anxiety disorder, and she refuses to listen. She won t take me to get a screening for a diagnoses. She did the same thing when my sister opened up to her about feeling depressed, and my sister was only able to get help when she turned 18 and could take herself. My sister is 19 now and I m 15, would she be allowed to take me to be assessed by a doctor?
My friend suddenly stopped talking to me. I've tried talking to her, but she ignores me and talks with my other friends instead. What should I do?
Give the friendship a break for a while. People who value your friendship will take the time to make contact with you - you have shown you value her friendship because you have tried to make contact with her. Now it's time to step back and see if she can show the same appreciation. Use this opportunity to explore new friendships and activities, so you are enjoying yourself rather than sitting around feeling ignored. Avoid giving her opportunities to ignore you, and try to avoid talking about the situation with your mutual friends, in case things get repeated and misinterpreted. If you don't hear from your best friend after a month or so, and you still feel upset and puzzled by this, maybe send her a friendly email saying that you miss chatting to her and you hope that everything is okay. Don't worry too much about why she isn't talking to you. Again if she valued the friendship, she would tell you if you had done something to upset her, so that the two of you could resolve the issue. Maybe she needs some time before she can tell you what's wrong. Maybe she's getting a kick out of ignoring you and playing favorites with your other friends. You don't need to put up with being treated like the runner up in a popularity competition.
Should I snitch on my sister or keep it a secret?
Let me first tell you that you are a great little sister for keeping it a secret so long and it's great that you do care about her. There are two ways you could go about this situation but its up to you which path you take. I believe that you need to video tape or take photos of a party in action and give it to your parents as proof after you tell them what has been happening. Your sister will say that she hates you but she really doesn't; she may even look back upon this and thank you because you have stopped her from being an adult alcoholic (hopefully). You should talk to your sister about the situation and tell her why you told on her (you love her and didnt want her to get hurt) and hopefully shell view you as a great little sister who cares about her well being and who didnt do this because they wanted to get her in trouble. Some people on here said not to tell your parents but I believe that is a big mistake. I cant believe that some people on here said just to let her drink because its normal for a 17 year old; I know that most 17 year olds do it but you need to stop that habit before it controls their life as an adult also. If the parents find out theirselves which they eventually will, they will also blame you for not telling them sooner. Another consequence is that she could die or get terribly ill from drinking too much and then you would have to live with the grief forever because you didnt intervene. Its up to you if you tell your parents or not but I believe you should. Good luck with your decision and I wish your sister the best! Pray to God!