Can you ever completely stop loving someone and have no feelings for them if you did truly love them?
If you truely love someone it will never end may it be in the worst situtions of your life, or the best moments.True love does not have conditions ,restrictions or any limits, its a never ending feeling. It continues also when that relationship does not persist as a relationship and love both are two different things.When you truely love somebody you would neglect there negative aspects. The pain you get out of there presence will be just some temporary negative feelings. When you say true love its when you think that love is unconditional, which also includes not expecting anything in return, Time cannot hinder the feeling of true love, nor situations or places or people or distance. Love is something which is yours and throughly yours its a feeling which completely is personal and stays unaffected by people’s opinions or behaviour or there feelings towards you.If its true love It will never end or Fade, it something which is ever greens and fresh.
Certain group of conservatives: why do you hate Europe, particularly France, so much?
Oh, and it's so funny how if someone is a "dittohead" or a Beck follower who takes personal credit for liberating France well before his birth, he's an automatic socialist Obama supporter and America-hater. I guess being around so many ignorant people makes you forget that there are people with several conservative stances who do have a brain and prefer to use it. So, if one listens to Buchanan or went to college or has European friends, but is still anti abortion, pro-free market, loves the military, believes that the lazy aren't entitled to money supplied by the hard working he's a commie, lib pinko if he's not the cookie-cutter conservative of the Beck variety!
Do You Believe in Social Intervention?
Like authorities recently did in the FLDS case in Texas? Should Psychotic People be identified and forcibly removed from Society to be diagnosed, treated and de-programmed if necessary? According to the following definition? Psychotic: Loss of contact with reality, experiencing hallucinations or delusional beliefs, exhibiting personality changes and disorganized thinking. Exhibiting unusual or bizarre behavior, such as calling hate “love” and telling people they will burn in hell if they do not comply with certain doctrines, Difficulties with normal SOCIAL INTERACTION by accusing others to have said things they never did. Hearing voices and seeing visions. Calling themselves ¨prophets¨ and seers and claiming to be reincarnations of Jesus, Moses or any other prominent historical figure. Thanks for participating
My best friend is ignoring me after I rejected him? :S?
So we've been friends for like 3 years, had sleepover and stuff cause im friends with his whole family The other week he texted me saying his feelings he has for me, I told him "I'll have to think about it, cause I've never thought of you that way." He was okay with that, and then a few days later he says "hey I just want to know if it's worth me trying or...." I said "I'm sorry I think it will be better if we stay friends, I hope it's okay." Now he's been ignoring me, I kept asking him how he was and if he's okay but no reply. We see each other at school but he tries to avoid me. I figured he needed some space, then I called him a few days later and he didnt answer. Then I figured out he deleted me from his phone. What should I do? I feel horrible about it. Should I just stop talking to him since he seems really upset at me, does he hate me? Should I try and talk to him at school or not? Opinions, advice? Thanks x
Why does god love you and hate children in africa?
WOLF, there is no reason to assume that the christian god, nor the allah god, is "hands off." allah talks to his followers, apparently. the christian god has never stopped causing miracles, at least in the eyes of the believers. their gods should be taking care of the sick, not rewarding the soccer moms. ugh! but you're right, it IS up to us to help our fellow humans. but for now this is just one more proof that god is imaginary. and if he isn't imaginary, he's evil.
What happens if you ignore a person with BPD after a discard?
It is perhaps the most difficult part of the mindbending experience for a “normal” partner to process and that is the lack of object constancy part and the emotional memory loss part. By sharing experiences, your heart and mind became connected to your partner and natually you assumed he or she was doing the same. Its the cruelest part of the experience to learn that due to your partners untreated mental illness that was not the case. It was a one-sided love connection that you assumed was two-sided.All the love signs were there. All the soulmate love words were there but there was no real connection. Prior to this experience you probably did not know that such people existed in the world so it never crossed your mind that your partner was this kind of ill.With emotional memory loss, no object constancy, no bonding, no real love and upside-down reality depictions its easy for that untreated BPD person to move rapidly from one partner to the next. For the “normal” partner it is going to take a period for your brain to process what this was, what it wasn’t and to heal from that horrendous psycho-like encounter.Often in the final chapter all kinds of extremely, off-the-charts nasty things are said by the untreated BPD partner cycling to devalue and destroy. In the untreated BPD partners world he or she was probably projecting/gas lighting depicting you as the ill person with BPD. Its going to take some time for you to disengage from that craziness and refind yourself as the good person you were before this hurricane came along. Take a break and begin to rebuild your confidence again. Forgive yourself for not knowing of the existence of such persons.Let your mind heal itself. Hopefully thats what will begin to happen once to stop engaging with that upside-down crazinesses that can seriously harm you. Good luck.