Looking for a spell to make someone propose?
Let me start by saying, there are SO SO many pessimists out there who only have negative crap to say like "If he really loved you it wouldnt matter", "there arent any", "this is ethically wrong", "go to Jesus" blah blah blah...if you're one of them don't bother... What I'm looking for is a spell that will make my guy friend fall in love with me and propose marriage to me. Something I myself can do at home, NOT some "paid spellcasting service"... What is a spell that will do this?
Whys is there a notion that proposing to someone you like is basically a guy's right, and hardly the other way around?
Interesting question.Before I answer your question, allow me to ask you, would you like to be proposed by your girl? Are you sure it won't hurt your male ego( I have nothing against it, but I have seen this)? Are you sure you won't loose interest in her thinking she is so desperate that she is going around doing your job?If answer to my questions is NO, I would like to appreciate your liberal thinking. Otherwise it will answer why there is this notion.I hope I have cleared my point.
How hard is it on people who get told "no" when proposing?
How hard it is will be dependent upon how emotionally attached one is to both their significant other and the actual engagement process going as well as they had hoped for.If someone is truly in love with their partner and feels very strongly about a positive outcome, a “no” would be very disappointing and hurtful.On the other hand, if someone is not as attached to their partner and proposing for the salvation of the relationship, they wouldn’t be as upset.In both situations, time heals all wounds. It may not seems as though that is true but it is.Life deals is difficult cards and we have to accept it and carry on, however difficult it may be.
Can u propose marriage to someone who is in the middle of a divorce. Is it legal to do that?
Technically speaking, although the divorce is still pending for both of you, you are still both legally married. Divorce attorneys usually frown upon dating during the divorce process because having a girlfriend/boyfriend can negatively impact the outcome of divorce proceedings. Generally speaking, it is much safer to wait until after the divorce is finalized to begin a new relationship. It is always difficult to anticipate how a soon to be ex will react to the stress of the divorce, and it is especially difficult to predict how he or she might feel when they find out their other half is dating again. This could affect what was previously an amicable separation leading towards settlement. In addition, post-separation dating could be used as evidence of adultery during the time the parties lived together as husband and wife if the opposing party could prove or suggest that this new relationship is actually a continuance of a relationship which began prior to the separation. In that case, the opposing party could re-file or amend the pleadings to proceed on adultery grounds, which could affect everything from property settlement to alimony. This could also affect you and your new dating interests in states that allow civil suits against “people who interfere with a marriage.” However, if the people you begin dating are genuinely new romantic interests that began after the date of separation, and there is ample proof that the separation was permanent and final, then it is unlikely the opposing party would be able to prove the new relationship led to the breakdown of the marriage, as the marriage was broken prior to the new relationship beginning. It would be beneficial to consult an attorney licensed in your state to see if a clause confirming and acknowledging that no extra-marital affairs contributed to the decision to separate could be inserted into a separation agreement and upheld in court. My concern would be if either your or your girlfriend's ex could later prove that there was an affair going on that the other party was not aware of at the time she signed the agreement, and they could argue that the affair was the motivation for separation, which may be enough for adultery grounds. You might want to check out DadsDivorce.com, even if you are not a father, as they have plenty of resources for men who are facing or wrapping up their divorces.
He won't propose...so should I move with him or try to move on? Please help...really confused!?
It's not silly or stupid at all that your concerned about the commitment thing. My (now fiance) at the time wanted me to live with him and move to another state and all this crap and i was going to. BUT then i realized that i didn't wanna be stuck in that convienent position that your talking about where I play a "pretend house wife" with no real commitment. He even made a comment once that he still can be commited to me without a legal document. We been together for 5 years and have 2 lil girls together. But i refused to be another female crying because my boyfriend wont marry me even tho he treats me like im his pretend wife. So i told him that i refuse to live with him until we're married. It wasn't a way to force him cuz u cant literally force a guy, if he wont do it then he wont do it, but it was a way of keeping my guard up and letting him know i mean buisness and im not here to play games. Sometimes a little motivation is good for men,they move like snails alot of times so we as women have to refuse to settle for less. Not saying that you have to leave him and threaten him into proposing but if u don't want to put yourself on the line like that then you don't have to. Cause he loves you and really wants you as bad as you want him then he's propose and it wont be such a big deal. This is just my own expeirience but my fiance saw that i meant buisness and he proposed and now we're about to get married in 2 weeks. The difference with me though is that because of my new spiritual belief i (and my fiance) no longer beleive in living together BEFORE marriage but thats just me. Don't get caught up with wanting a ring cuz engagement ring is a promise to a commitment but the real commitment is the wedding ring and exchange of vows. I know women who got engaged,moved away with the fiance and STILL aren't married because the guy says "hey we live together,this is enough commitment". People are wrong when they say that marriage isn't nothing and its just a piece of paper cause it's more than that,its a convenant and only married indivduals would understand that.Follow your heart and NEVER EVER settle for less than what you feel you deserve and what you want and you'll be fine.
What does proposing to a girl actually mean?
It means you know that she might say yes or she might say no and you are ready for both answers.It means you are ready to be responsible and loyal towards her if she says yes. It means going against all the odds for her.And most importantly, it means you are mature enough to handle rejection gracefully. It means you will not stalk her or try to harm her anyway just because she said no. It means you know she has every right to deny your proposal.Before proposing a girl to be your partner, be responsible and ask yourself if you are really ready for a relationship.