Why is it hard for others to stay away from people who have bad habits?
What bad habits? Smoking cigarettes? No problem; just hold your breath when you’re around someone like that. Bad habits like stealing and lying? They’re self-destructive; not much you can do for them besides hope they come to their senses.
Why is it so hard to walk away and stay away from someone who is very controlling and verbally abusive? I know my worth and boundaries and he does not value them.
Many reasons:You constantly tell yourself that this is the last time that person insults you and he will change for good eventually.Growing settled with the abuse. As the time has passed, you have grown used to the torment and it is less detrimental now.The feeling of danger and risk of going out of the conventional way and do something you haven’t done before.Being afraid of the repercussions, reaction of the perpetrator when you decide to move on.Telling yourself that the person still loves you and binding yourself to latch onto him.Telling yourself that this is fate and this is how things are destined for you.Sucking up all the bile and staying with him as you don’t want to destroy the things you already have.The consequence of your endurance to such abuse:Living the rest of your life like a lesser human, waiting to be lead, instructed, abused.What you can do:Tell him how you want to be treated and wait to see his progressOr Leave
Why is it so hard to stay away from someone you love? Why do you think of them all the time?
Well, I am not a scientist, but I heard when you’re with someone you love, all kinds of good hormones like serotonin, endorphin, adrenaline gets pumped in your body. It’s like a drug addiction where you want to see them all the time, because the chemicals give you good feelings.Besides, it is quite healthy to want to be with someone you love and to think of them, naturally. If you feel like you want to stay away, then something is really really wrong.
Why Do people DISS credit cards so Hard?
http://www.ewisdom.com/r/index.php?10071 http://www.credit-card-gallery.com/cc.ph... (same card, same link on both of those pages!! ) 1. DO the people that suggest staying away from Credit Cards (Debt) not realize you have to have credit no matter what? I'm doing this because i have to... i.e. buildin good credit to avoid higher loan rates in the future for a house or a new car... 2. well i applied for the card and i got "APPROVED", so thats that right? i'm set, goood to go? that easy huh? once I get the card will only use it to finace this trip gas charges oNLY $800-1200... and once i come back, pay it off right away... or ideally USE it to pay my normal MONTHLY bills/fee's, ect, ect. with the idea in mind to PAY IT OFF MONTHLY and on time and then i'm good, its a WIN/WIN.. i get rewards for the usage,, i build up a good credit history.. i can' fanthom what the problem is? or what the big hub bub or danger of it all is? please feel free to chip in?!! oNe
Is it bad to keep yourself away from people?
Yes yes yes! I did it to myself for 4 months, I completely isolated myself from people and friends, except for school and now I'm stuck with agoraphobia and I have extreme anxiety attacks when I'm around a lot of people and when I go out in public or to far away from where I live. I suggest not to isolate yourself so what happened to me doesn't happen to your because it'll be horrible for you. I think you should go get Professional help, and if you have medication for depression and anxiety they may not be working properly and you might need them adjusted. But quickly get something done, because time flies when you isolate yourself, and it leaves a big impact.
Why do people avoid people who come on hard times?
Thanks for clearing that up. :-) People don't want to know. It's not that they don't care, they just don't want to know. When you meet someone you haven't seen for a long time, try it. When your asked, how are you doing ? Look what happens when you do not answer in a positive way? Most people don't know how fast to be off again. They just want to hear "everything's fine, all's good." I have been noticing this for years and years. It's not something that started in the crisis of 2008. Only your very close circle of friends is interested in how you are doing, the rest of the world does not give a damn. They ask out of politeness, but they really don't want to hear. And if you want to tell, they will start to avoid you. If you let them know, in any way, they will have things to do that don't involve you.Society is losing it's glue is becoming more individualistic, less social. Maybe it is because of the violence there is out there, maybe it is because people having more and more troubles them selves, maybe it is because people feel your more responsible as an individual for your own situation. I don't know. But it's a sad development. Cause for the once avoided, it only get's worse.