Why would a girl want to meet your best guy friend?
I've been friends with this girl for two years now. She had a boyfriend for the longest time. She knows I'm interested in her and have been since we first met. About 6 months ago she broke up with her boyfriend of nine years. Since then, I've been giving her a lot of space (not wanting to be rebound guy), but have always made her aware that I'm here IF she wants to talk etc. A few months ago she invited me over to her mother's house to meet her mother and her best friend. I clicked very well with both the mother and the best friend. She wants to see me again later this month, but she's asked if she could meet my best friend (a guy I've told her lots about).. My question: Ladies, why would you want to meet a guy's best friend? Is there an underlying motive/reason for this and if so what is it? I.E. Is this something that could highly influence my possibilities of a relationship with her? My apologies, understand I'm very new to the dating game. Guys, any similar experiences?
Can a guy and girl go to the movies just as friends?
I have a friend, she is really cool and we are good firends, but not more than that, and we used to hang out alot but than ppl started saying that we were a couple cuz we were always together, and we kinda stoopped hanging out as much as we did but are still good friends, anyway i was thinking of inviting her to go see the new superman movie cuz thats her favorite superhero and she would love to see it, but im not sure how i should ask her without making it seem like im asking her out, i just want to hang out with her, so can we go to the movies as just friends, and how shud i ask her?
What signs show whether a girl sees you as a friend or more than a friend?
if the girl can talk freely about her other guy friends, ur usually just a friend. but, if she likes to flirt, talk, touch, or hug you, it means she either wants to get to kno you better or likes you. if he's just a friend, i would usually talk to him and go to him for help/advice on guys. he helps me with guy stuff, and i help him with girl stuff. if i considered him more than a friend, then i would try to be around him as much as possible (w/o being irritating or anything like that). i don't usually flirt with guy friends at all, and i flirt ALOT wit guys that i want to get to kno more.
If a boy loves a girl, but the girl sees him as a best friend, so what should he do?
I always feel that friendship is one of the gateways to a relationship. Very often, the boundaries fade away effortlessly.It is only fair to both people that he expresses his feelings. If she realizes that her care for him is not purely platonic, win-win for both.If she maintains that she does not see him as a partner, then the situation may turn complex:Girl wants to remain friends, guy still loves her: I request the guy to stay away from her as its not really good friendship when you secretly lust after her.Girl wants to remain friends, guy is capable of transitioning back into a friend: This is mostly a utopic outcome. Its not easy to convert love back into friendship.Girl does not want to remain friends, guy still loves her: Guy must refrain from stalking etc. He will gradually move on.Girl does not want to remain friends, guy promises to go back to being a friend: If guy means it and magically dissolves his love, he could try to convince her. If she is adamant, its best he leaves her alone.I hope my reply doesn't risk sounding like a pseudo-feminist stand.
She says that she sees me as friend?
If she said she see's you as a friend that means she doesn't want to date you and you saying that you love her made her feel really uncomfortable. From now on your relationship will be tough because even though she said she see's you as a friend everything will be awkward between the two of you no matter what. Sorry, but you can't change how she see's you, you're outta luck :( The only advise I have is give her some space (by some I mean a lot) and be a friend to her when she needs you, but only if she needs you, otherwise leave her alone for a bit, let things cool off between you two first.
Girls, do you mind if your friends see you topless?
I use to be real self conscious, but now I don't mind if my female friends or close male friends see me topless. All us girls have basically the same stuff. I use to shy away from tanning topless, swimming topless, or changing clothes in front of my friends, but now it is no big deal. I was just wondering if the average girl is fine with their friends seeing them topless, or if they shy away from it. Also, does it matter whether the friends are male or female?