Why do men leave their wife's for younger women?
I'm sure the answers are different for each man who has chosen to do this. Really statistically there are not that many men who leave their wives for younger women. The reasons are probably: to feel younger to feed the ego because he really cares for the younger woman because she is not so hard to control because it's all about looks and sex and he wants a hot young body he did not have a good marriage and wants a 'do over' because he is not mature enough to sustain a mature relationship he is afraid of death and aging etc. Marriage is hard (and very rewarding as well). it requires work and effort from both people. Marriages and the people involved change A LOT over time - that is what often causes problems. The changes are physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual, etc.. If you don't work to stay together and moving in the same direction you will grow apart. It is easy to grow apart and often hard to accept the changes and go with them.
Why are so many young men frustrated with women?
I am a mature man and I was the same when I was young. But I wasn't frustrated with women at all. I found it extremely frustrating trying to understand what women wanted from a man. One woman would say this and another would want that, and yet, another couldn't make up here mind to become happy. Some women don't want to be happy with a man. They just want to control him or change him into some famous macho movie star. I never pretend to behave like a macho man nor did I ever treat women like dirt. I was a very quiet well spoken young man who didn't play silly games to get my way. Yet, no matter what I had done to get to know someone it never worked out. The more I tried to have a good healthy relationship with a nice women, the more I got resented and berated. That's what made me so frustrated. However, I am a better person for it regardless of whether I had a bad relationship. I now realize that it was the result of lack of social skills, my level of emotional intelligence, and the inability to express myself as a man. Most men are afraid of being intimate with women because of the fear of feeling vulnerable, and not labeled a homosexual, loser, or even a coward. Also, I believe that most young men today don't have good role models anymore. There is no support and guidance in society. There are far too many deadbeats, jerks, and sleezebags who use women as a sex object. Blame all those violent male orientated action movies that depict young men as tough beer drinking louts, who use their fists ( not brains or reason) to fight against authority, or anyone that stands in their way. Some just pick a fight with anyone they perceive to be weak just to prove that they are men. This occurs in most gang related movies.
Why is life so hard being a black man?
Constantly beimg.judged or looked at because of my skin color, constantly being.stereotyped because of my skin color, constantly being over looked by white girls because of my skin color, having to act a certain way around people. Hsving to always be ready to defend against racist ignorant out prejudice comments. I really wonder what my life would be like if ii want black. I try to be positive about it. But It seems to be me against the world. I see Caucasians slinging off the word ****#r on the internet. Or in real life or behing my back like its cool to use. I see these white girls who are beautiful and id like to get to know, but they are either not attracted to my dark skin, or they're racist or they're parents are. That might explain why im still a virgin at 20 and never had a girlfriend. Also, im tired of being judged SIMPLY brcuase of the way that I speak. When it comes to that, im too black for whites and too white for blacks, and that's the stupidest **** ive ever. Im in the army, and I make great money, but even in the servoce I still deal with it. I swear.I would give up all the money in my bank right now just for some happiness. Im just tired of be demonized by people including the media. I try to stay strong, but this is making me furious. I would for once want to achieve all of my desires without being judged by my skin. I would want to be respected, to be in a relationship or sex for once in my life, to not be stereotyped ot judged for my skin color. :C But all I can do is just fight the world...
How can a young man or woman live a 'blameless life' in this present system of things?
. Great question!!! It is very possible to live a blameless life. Although its hard and i personally think so since i am a young woman. You have to have a great relationship with Jehovah and know his rigthtous laws, place them in my heart as well as my mind. DOing this will help me choose daily the things that i must do and the things i have to be aware of and to keep my senses up. The bible is for our benefit, recorded in 2 timothy 3:16 "All Scripture is inspired of God and beneficial for teaching, for reproving, for setting things straight, for disciplining in righteousness" so i take what i learn and think, would this be wise, how is this going to be beneficial, will this be pleasing to Jehovah, would Jesus christ do this? all these questions i think before i make a decition, either a hard important decision or an easy one, either way i want to make sure i please him. and Matt 5:48 we mus first seek the Kingdom. Its really hard for a young person to live blameless but its possible. Nothing is impossible for Jehovah and he is there to hold your hand. :)