What should I do when my brother hits me?
My Indian brother is the same. He was verbally and physically abusive and has slapped, punched , kicked me; called me a 'bitch' and much much worse. I've cut him off from my life and my heart. I no longer speak to him or acknowledge that he is alive and do not consider him my sibling. Your parents are cowardly. The typical Indian parents who favor the son and indirectly shift the responsibility for his violent behavior on to your head. Mine were the same. It's NOT your fault. Your brother has mental issues and he is venting on you, using you as a punching bag. Your parents are NOT protecting you as they should. By blaming you and not rebuking your brother, they are reinforcing your brother's violent behavior. My advice is IGNORE and STAY AWAY from him. DO NOT let him hurt you physically. STOP talking to your brother. PRETEND that he does not exist. Keep your interactions with him minimal. If he tries to start an argument with you DO NOT engage him, ignore him, go to your room and lock the door. Study hard, get a job and move out.
Why is my 18 year old brother so annoying?
I'm really confused about his action too. You just ask him about the same and let him know that it's so annoying. Also get help from the parents to stop him from practicing the same in future as well. Good Luck :)
My older brother is so mean to me!!?
My brother is 18 and I'm 14 and he's so damn mean to me!! I've been studying in a boarding school in a foreign country for 2 years, so we meet only once a year but we communicate over the phone or Facebook. I came back this year for summer vacation and he's been acting really mean to me. If I'm hungry and ask him to get me something to eat from McDonalds or something he says, " OH MY GOD!! SHUT THE F**K UP!! I DON'T HAVE NO DAMN MONEY!" Instead of saying that, he could've said it nicely. And then we went to a wedding and there we met alot of people and he started comparing me with my cousins who are 19, 20, 21 and older. He said that I'm an arrogant girl with an attitude and compared me with them saying that why can't I act like them. I was mad because they are like way older than me and we are obviously different from each other! They're college students and I'm just a middle school girl so why am I being compared to them? And then if I ask him a question he says " That is such a stupid question you dumb blonde!!" And I'm not even BLONDE!! Like wtf is wrong with him? And then if I even try to start a conversation with him, he gets mad and says " Get out of my face" or " What the hell is wrong with you!! It's my personal life!! Why do you care?" and now in a few weeks, I'm going back to school and he says " I can't wait till you leave!!" And then he punches me everyday, beats me up ( no scars or bruises, it just hurts). And if I go on Facebook he says " OMG! You're pissing me off! Why the hell are you always on Facebook?" Like why does he care if I'm on Facebook? I can be on it whenever I want!!Why is he acting like this? Why is he being so mean to me? Please tell me, I'm really mad and upset!!
My older brother keeps on being mean to me?!?
dont let him bother you. ignore him its your brother, he loves you and doesnt mean half the stuff he is saying.
My brother has really really bad anger problems, can someone help my family with that?
he needs to go to rehab to get serious help. I hope someone helps him and by the long paragraph of your question, that means you are ready to help him in any way. He needs to stop getting high and drunk all the time because that makes him swear and go crazy. I am not saying he doesn't have any hope because God can help him and there is hope for everyone. All he needs is a little more attention on his needs and the reason he probably started this was because of pressure.... I hope you find a way to help him :-) May god be with him and your family
My older brother hits me! I mean like bruises me?
Well I haven't had the best year ever but I tried to make it work out. But one thing that is really bothering me is thefact that my 18year old brother hits me (I'm 16) and when I say hit I don't mean like bro sis hitting I mean like he really hurts me. He knows about the past with my ex (he used to hit me to before i left him)and all the pain went through. We were fighting yesterday I knew I should have stopped the fighting because he got anger issues and any little thing can make him mad but he always thinks dat he can do anything to me cuz he's stronger and I wanted to prove dat he couldn't (pretty dumb of me). We r still fighting and I tell him to shut the f up cuzi got no time for him and of course that set him of. He punched me in the face leaving a black eye. He slapped me and pretty muchjust tore me up. I'm not the strongest person but I do have a big mouth. I kno I shouldn't have said dat but I just couldn't let him take advantage of me like dat. My parents kno he hits me but to them its just brother sister hitting so all hey basically do is tell him not to hit me or he will have his consiquensis and they got me a therapist/counselor (he the same guy ) so that's helping a bit but I just had to kno if I should keep cursing him out if when we fight or just let him take advantage of me.
Why is my younger brother suddenly so mean? He's recently taken to verbally abusing me and my sisters. What might be happening?
How old is your brother? It seems to me that he is in his teenage years. Those years can come with frustrations and doubts, troubles that can be real or imagined. He’s maybe frustrated about something. You should try asking what’s troubling him. Assure him that you are ready to listen. At that age, most just want a listening ear, someone who cares.
Liza is now 3 times as old as her brother. Five years ago, the sum of their ages was 18 years. How old will Liza be in 2 years’ time?
First we need to create an ‘X'.For this example. Lisa's brother’s age = 'X'So today Lisa's age = 3x (3 times as old as her brother)Brothers age = xFive years ago, sum of their ages was 18.So Lisa's age was 3x -5Brother's age was x -5Therefore, 3x - 5 + x - 5 = 18So 3x + x = 18 +5 + 54x = 28X = 28/4x = 7Lisa's present age = 3x = 3 x 7 = 21In 2 years time Lisa will be 21+2 = 23
My 18 year old brother smokes and he was smoking for a long time. What do I do?
“My 18 year old brother smokes and he was smoking for a long time. What do I do?”Share the following link with him. That's the best I can do for you. He is an adult, and there's usually no getting through to smokers. They will say it's their body to do with what they want. Their careless behavior also affects those who love them, the ones they leave behind. My husband used the same, stupid, selfish argument.Rebecca Holtz's answer to Why don't Americans smoke? It was a culture shock when I first visited the states that almost nobody smokes except maybe some foreigners, while in Europe and in the Middle East, smokers are everywhere.Too bad you can’t get him to do volunteer work at a cancer center.
What should I do? I am 15 and my 18-year-old brother sexually touches me.
Scream! Tell him no! Threaten him. Fight back. Bite, scratch, poke in eyes, kick in crotch or stomach, punch in the nose, do whatever it takes to save yourself from him.And most important: no matter how he tries to scare you, believe me, he is more scared that you will tell on him, so tell him you will tell somebody he molests you.Even if he threds to kill you, tell him: If you lay a finger on me everyone is gonna find out what a scum you are.If he can do this secretly, he can’t get away with a murder, a molester is too big of a woos to do anything like that.Be brave, be strong, stand up to him and don’t let him do this to you.And don’t forget to go to the police and turn him in. No jerk like that should breathe the air of freedom.