What should I do when I have a crush on my brother's friend? Should I tell him?
Firstly, be sure if this is just a temporary phase or notIf yes, then don't bother telling your brother. Reason being, the guys take the bro codes pretty seriously and a guy's sister is off limits. If it's a Temporary fling. Let it be. Bevause it might end up damaging your brother's friendship. So take time, think about it in amevery way and then come to conclusion.Digging deeper, if it is more than a Temporary phase. Firstly, I'm a little confused that who is 'he' here?Is it your bro (and you wanna share your feelings for his friend) or his Friend (and you wanna take a chance and take it further)In any case, try noticing the friend's actions. Are they any different towards you. Showing you a different kind of affection or not. Or if you get teased a little more than others. Or you get more attention from him and stuff. Also, try making sure that it's Not a brother sister affection. Try seeing if he finds excuses to touch. Or talk to you whenever he is low or any other heart to heart conversation.If it's a yes (for him liking you), make sure it's a little more than a silly crush. And then go ahead and talk to your brother if he has any problems or if he is cool with it? It will make him happy and decrease the awkwardness.Give me a further more details if you more a more informative answer :)Hope this helps,Good luck!
Best friend hooked up with my crush?
I agree with both of the answers above. Your a caring and sensitive friend to consider your friends feelings before your own. But because she is not doing the same for you, I don't think she is worthy of being your friend. You have addressed your concern with her already, but try doing it again, perhaps in a note. I would suggest something like, "_______, I know I have already mentioned this, but I don't like it when you and ________ hook up. I told you at the beggining of the year that I had feelings for him, so I hope you have the heart to think about what I feel. If not, then I don't think I want to be your friend." Continue to make friends and hang out with current friends, because your friend needs to stop thinking about herself. The fact that your crush does not have the same feelings toward you, I would let our friend and your crush continue their realationship and look for new guys to crush on. What is the point of having a friend that is a backstabber, and a crush who doesn't like you back, anyway?
I'm Gay and I Have a Crush On My Best Friend?
He's not gay, my dear. So you really need to practice some self-restraint and squelch your crush. If you pursue him romantically, you stand a good chance of alienating him and even destroying the friendship. You already hinted at liking him, and he answered your inquiry -- to continue pursuing this will at the very least irritate him. Believe me, I know precisely how you feel -- I developed huge crushes on straight boys when I was your age. I know that you're feeling a combination of exhiliration and fear and even desperation -- and I can assure you that you CAN get a grip on yourself. Friendship is one of the most valuable things in life, so please don't do anything to destroy this one. Think of it this way -- if you pursue him romantically and drive him away, you won't be able to be around him even as just a friend; he'll be gone completely, and THAT would cause you even more pain than you're feeling now. Life is all about making decision choices like this one -- where even the right decision will not give full satisfaction, but it's better than the other choice. Trust me, they get easier to endure as you get older. So to answer your final question, "What should I do?" my recommendation is to just ignore the romantic inclinations and just be his friend. I have a hunch he's aware that you're gay and isn't bothered by it -- because he knows that he's already indicated that romance is out of the question, and he's trusting you to respect those set limits. Don't violate that trust or those limits. Believe me, a suitable romantic opportunity will cross your path when you're not expecting it. :-)
My best friend and I have the same crush on the same guy! HELP!! PLLZZ!!!?
hes definately flirting with you, which means he must be somewhat interested in you. being 17, i only flirt with girls who I am interested in or who I might want to be in a relationship with. some girls i dont flirt with at all and they're hot and its just because they're not my type and im not interested. so yeah its a good sign that he likes you.
My "best friend" dating my crush?
ouch... oh my god, i totally know how you feel! can i share my story? here it goes anyway... well, i've had a crush for more than a year.. he was just so cute and whenever he smiles, i always end up in awe.. i stutter and run out of words when i talk to him. then comes a new girl. this is also in college by the way.. but where i come from, in college you spend the same classes with the same class mates evryday, so every day, for evry class i see my crush.. and like i said, a new girl comes in. and we became friends really close friends and before we became friends, i kinda notice my crush trying to be friends with her but it seemed that they were only trying to be friends so i didn't bother. so me and the girl became best friends and i told her bout my crush.. last year, my friend broke up with her bf and my crush started moving in. i got so upset and cried over him coz, i felt my heart broke. i didn't know what to do coz i had no right to cry, after all it was only a crush, but i couldn't help myself but just tell my friend and she said "i'd rather choose you over him, you are my one of my best friends after all" not the exact words but you get my point.. she also mentioned bout h0es over br0s... the great thing is that she kept her word, i kinda felt stupid because i seemed pathetic and desperate but hey i was hurt! lol.. she's now seeing someone else and so am i.. my crush, well, he's crushed, felt kinda bad coz he had his heart broken.. anyways, what i'm saying is that, my friend was really a great friend, she didn't break her promise and she respected my feelings.. maybe you should think twice bout saying that your friend is your best friend... coz honestly, seems like she doesn't care bout how you feel... just saying
My best friend is dating my crush?
babe, the exact same thing has literally just happened to me. This guy who i thought was kind of cute started liking me about a year ago and we became really good friends. But i just really looked at him as a friend. It wasn't until November/December time that i really started to like him, because we kissed at my best friends birthday party (remeber her, she'll be important later) and because i was sort of tipsy, i shrugged it off and went off. So, after that party, we were still close, but my "best friend" started going to see him at lunch and stuff and they started growing pretty close. And they were texting each other all the time and i'm not an idiot, i know when somethings going on. I asked her, and she lied to my face. And then, I asked him on a date, he said yes, but she was texting him the whole way through, even though she encouraged me to go on it in the first place. And a few weeks later, i found out she'd told him she fancied him the same day as our date. Which was like wtf? And she knew i liked him. Anyway, now, they're dating, and to be honest, i get sad either time i see them together, and i can't help myself from being angry at her. But you've got to get on with stuff, I am, you've got to surround yourself with people who love you, and I know its sooo hard, but you've got to keep your mind preoccupied with anything that'll take your mind off the pair of them. Mine and my best friends relationship is no where near as good as it was and she told me how much she didn't want to lose me. But to be honest, you can't get in the way of two people finding happiness, no matter who it hurts. Or just wait for them to break up and claim whats rightfully yours. Lots of love, a fellow girl whose had her heart trampled on xx
My best friend has a crush on my boyfriend?
=S that sucks. At least you can be happy that your boyfriend will never go for her. So theres nothign really in the relationship between you guys that you need to change or worry about. You guys have known each other forever and sound soo perfect for each other. =D As for Christina =P she should grow up! The only advice i can give you is to 1) try to keep them away from each other as to help you not get annoyed but to also help her to stop liking him because she wont see him as much 2) talk to her, even though she wont admit it, try CALMLY to explain that you noticed she's been a little different lately, and that even if she does like him, he is totally off limits because it would ruin your friendship together if she continues trying to almost pursue him 3) try to find her a nice guy that she will really like Other than that, i guess just patience for her to get over him, and try to not pick apart every single action she does around him because so far, it doesn't sound like it's that bad because she's not making a move or anything, but you gotta try to not watch her and analyze what she says or acts when he's around because that's just going to make you more annoyied. Doesnt seem like she has any chance with him so one way or another she will have to get over him. Hopefully it doesn't end up with you guys not being friends anymore though.