Does it sound like my friend with benefits got too comfortable or is starting to get emotionally attached?
What's happened here is what often happens in these FWB type of relationships - someone actually starts to care. This is why FWB doesn't really work most of the time. My personal belief is that people aren't wired to have sex and have it mean nothing. It's a very intimate experience, and it's meant to represent some very powerful emotions. Because of that, it's only natural that someone's going to start feeling some of these emotions when they have regular sex with another person. It's time that you two had a discussion about this. If he has feelings for you and you don't see this going anywhere outside of sex, then it's time to stop doing what you're doing. He's going to end up getting hurt.
How comfortable are girls with their friends seeing their boobs?
All the time.. When your changing clothes getting ready to go somewhere together..when one of you is taking a bath and the other is doing her hair/make up..When your trying on clothes in the dressing room, when your on vacation together, when your dating best friends (thats really a different story though) I've probably seen my bff's breasts almost as much as I have mine.. It's a girl thing..
Even after telling my girl friend that I'm not comfortable with her going out with friends (Boys) daily, she keeps doing it. What should I do?
HOW did I become the dating guru? Lol.Honestly, you need to break up with her. Not because she isn’t respecting your wishes, but because your jealousy may very well end the relationship anyway. Asking someone to dump their friends is a very controlling thing to do, which you’re actually asking her to do if her friends are mostly guys, and you don’t want her hanging out with them. If you don’t like her friends, that’s usually indicative of a mismatch (not always, but often!). But mainly, you want her to change her friends and part of who she is because you’re insecure, and that isn’t fair or realistic.So set her free, and try to work on your confidence so that you don’t feel so threatened by the other guys in your girlfriend’s life.
What should I do if I am not comfortable with one friend within my friend's circle?
Step one: Ask yourself what makes you uncomfortable.If the answer is something that makes everyone uncomfortable, then continue to step two, part a.If the answer is something minute and small that most people aren't bothered by, ask your yourself why you are bothered by this. If when you react to it, you have flashbacks to parts of your life and nightmares or extreme anxiety, you may have PTSD and need to see a therapist. If this is how you feel [possibly minus the PTSD), go to step two, part b. If you think you may have PTSD, go to step two, part c.Step two:Part A: Ask your friends if the thing that makes you uncomfortable makes them uncomfortable. If the answer is a majority yes, ask them if you are can talk to the person about it. Do not just excommunicate them unless the thing they do is extreme. Talk to the person as a group and be neutral.Part B: It's probably something small like chewing loudly or breathing too hard. For this one, when they do the thing, tall them while they're doing it. IE. You're eating and he is chewing loudly so you say in a quiet voice, “___, can you please chew a little bit quieter?” They will likely stop doing it and will catch themselves doing it and try to stop it.Part C: If you think you have PTSD, it would be a good idea to schedule a therapy session. PTSD is caused by trama in the life and has symptoms that are triggered by an event. Some of these symptoms include night terrors, extreme anxiety, and flashbacks. If you have PTSD, it needs to be treated. There is no shame in getting help for your brain, after all, it is the most important organ in our body.
I don't feel comfortable around my lesbian friend...?
if you are really her friend, you will get past it. Of course, there is going to be a little bit of an awkward period for BOTH of you once you learn she is gay. But, think about this......aboslutely NOTHING about her has changed. She still is the same exact person you used to feel comfortable around. If you think about it that way,.....It's you who has changed. Not her.
Why am I quiet or less comfortable around my group of friends together but more comfortable when I'm being with them individually or in small numbers?
Your behavior seems for many “anti-social” behavior but let me break this down for you. You are actually more SOCIABLE than maybe a lot of your friends. What happens is that you don’t enjoy small talk and small talk usually happens in big gatherings like parties where everybody wants to do all except Talk which makes you uncomfortable and maybe wondering why you are feeling alone even tho you are surrounded by a lot of people. In small gatherings you feel more comfortable because you actually can connect with you friends and have real conversations which I feel is what you desire and aim for when it comes to relationships. Be aware that not everybody is this way especially nowadays that small talk is more constant with the text messages and dm’s of instagram. Be aware so you don’t feel frustrated sometimes when this kind of situation encounters.
What does it mean when you are more comfortable around your friends than your family?
It means you are like a lot of people, including myself. Being around friends is what I would describe as a safe zone, just be yourself and that’s fine with everyone involved.When it comes to family, there are rarely any safe zones. Many of them check their manners at the door and say whatever flies out of their mouths. They might criticize your weight, hair, even eyebrows. They don’t forget stupid or humiliating things you have done in the past and have no qualms about bringing them up at the dinner table.So if some people are more comfortable around friends than family, it’s probably because friends tend to be more respectful than family. I realize there are families who are very respectful to one another. I just don’t know if I’ve ever seen that before.
I'm male and I am very comfortable with my female best friend to the point that I can actually touch her chest freely, is this weird?
“Weird” is the wrong point to question.Why is it that you are fondling ANY “friends” sexual organs casually? Do you also touch your male friends genitals casually? If not, why not, in connection with your claim that THIS touching is “because you are so comfortable with a friend”?What is most likely true, is that you are taking these liberties for sexual reasons, and hiding that fact from yourself. There is no reason to casually interact with your female friend like this, ESPECIALLY if you have to ask the question that you have.Back when I was that general age, it was a part of the teenage rebellion against authority/declaration of youthful superiority over the “old guys,” that we were “much more comfortable with our sexuality” that the previous generation, and hence didn’t have to obey notions of personal privacy and respect. We did things somewhat along these lines and played the same mental games with ourselves about it that you are doing, where we alternated between trying to be proud of our social “accomplishments,” but struggled to be certain that we were really all that brilliant after all.Maybe that’s what this is.Figure out why you are ACTUALLY doing this, and then decide if you are really all that proud of yourself or are accomplishing anything after all.
My friend worships satan?
My friend and I hung out 3 days ago. He told me how he worships the devil, and says a prayer that supposidly makes him get in touch with him. I found it kind of interesting, but was having second thoughts about doing it myself. I am a christan, but not a freak about it. I don't brag about the whole life story about god and such, but i do believe in god, and dont feel comfortable doing the whole mythical prayer and stuff. What are your thoughts and be serious.