Why is my friend such a jerk?
She always makes fun of me for everything I do. I bring a manga to school and she grabs it out of my hand and makes fun of me even though almost everyone in the school loves manga and anime. She basically thinks I have no life. I bring my paranormal books to school and she and my other friend makes fun of it (the rest of my friends are fine with me reading it. One enjoys the paranormal, but not as much as me). During one of my classes, they drew a picture of me as an alien and I ripped it out of her notebook and put one of her papers on the ground. (they also made fun of my pencil sharpener because it looked weird. They also made fun of my eraser for being green. Then they called me an alien. They always ask if I'm from Earth.) She then called me violent and said it was a joke. During lunch I asked her why they were doing it, and she said it was because they were bored. She then told me I take everything too seriously. While she wasn't at the table, I checked her notebook since I saw her writing something and laughing a few classes before. I didn't have enough time so I put it under the table. My GOOD FRIEND then told her to apologize since she hurt my feelings. She then said people always side with me because I pretend to be sensitive. My good friend then said that I naturally am sensitive (I've known the nice one since 1st grade). I then said to drop the conversation and my friend (the one who makes fun of me) said thanks. I said its not for her, I'm doing it for the other one (my good friend). I showed her then notebook because I know she needs it for class and then she got mad for me taking her notebook and told me not to steal. Yet she always steals things from friend's things (she looked through my lunchbox once when I was throwing something out.) But she denied that. She also makes fun of my comics. (Yet I made the comics so I could talk to someone who likes the paranormal too.) She told me to please stop writing comics. She said its embarasssing that I make comics. When she reads them, she starts laughing and saying its the worse thing she ever read. Yet most people love my comics. My teacher (language arts) was wondering why I didn't send it to the school newspaper (I was going to, but I forgot the due date and it was too late.) My teacher thought the comic was really cool and he said I could put it in my school portfolio.
Why is my friend such a JERK?!?
Block him out of your life. Don't invite him over, don't hang around him, don't answer his calls, nothing. Make sure your boyfriend understand you want nothing to do with him. Your so called friend has already made you go through enough, there's no need to even continue your friendship. I do want to point out that, within the gay community, hag on its own is rarely used, unless it's fag hag. Which has a completely different meaning - Margaret Cho is probably the most famous fag hag. (Urban dictionary, online, and not a regular dictionary, will give you the more appropriate definition: it's the girl that always hangs around with the gay guy or guys, a gay guy's best friend, of sorts.) For the most part it's used in a loving way, like a kind insult, if you will. It isn't meant hatefully. However, just because it's meant with the best intentions doesn't mean you have to accept it, and if HE can't accept that, then he needs a reality check. Don't give him any warning, or any more chances. If he comes by and insults you, you ask him to stop and he doesn't, or he starts drama with you again, just block him. You don't have time for his bull and you don't need it. Not all gay people are like this - you've seen how he was, and I'm sure it was very sweet loving and caring. This one in particular, has seem to gone sour. He's past throwing away.
Why is my friend such a jerk to me?
I've been best friends with her my whole life. I've literally known her since I was a baby And i'm 15 now. Let's call her Nikki. Nikki has always thought the world revolved around her. She always has to have things her way or else she becomes a complete *****. When it's just me and Nikki hanging out, she's normal. But when she hangs out with other certain people, she totally changes. I'll call one of those people Amy. Whenever Nikki hangs out with Amy and I'm with them, Nikki totally excludes me from everything, won't let me have a say in anything we do. For instance last week we were going to watch a movie, we were about to watch it them Amy came over, once Amy came Nikki totally ignored me the rest of the night! We never ended up watching a movie and they just went on the computer and never talked to me. When I spoke they just ignored me. I asked Nikki if we were going to watch a movie and she said "I never even wanted to watch a movie." even though she was the one who decided to do that -_-. It's been like this forever! Like tomorrow were going to go snowboarding like usual, this time when we go she wants to go with this kid named nick. If he doesn't go, then she refuses to go. She even told me that! How rude is that?! Why doesn't she want to go with just me? That's what we usually do! I have a huge feeling that she likes them more than me, which is the worst thing ever because she has been my best friend for such a long time! I've known her longer than Nick and Amy! I can't just not be friends with her anymore because my parents are really good friends with hers so I always see her a lot! Plus, i'm friends with her brother. And were kinda like a family to each other. What do I do?! I'm I losing my best friend? Why does she treat me like i'm a piece of ****???!!!
What I’ve seen commonly (just my personal observations) is that he got accused of liking you. I’m going to assume that you’re a female, given the term “guy friend”. If his friends were teasing him, he may feel the need to prove them wrong. There are also many personal problems to consider, such as a bad day, or personal problems. I’d suggest confronting him and just straight up asking. Hope this helps. Good luck!~Aurora
Why is my girlfriend such a jerk?
If this behavoir just came out of nowhere and life was good the previous years before that with her then this could mean a couple of things: 1) She feels as if you need her more then she needs you and feels like she can treat you any way she wants. 2) She does not like where this relationship has gone and trying to take the easy road out by you dumping her. Either way it goes, life is to short not to be happy. Confront her about her attitude and if you dont like the results then just let her go. Trust me, there is somebody for everybody in this world so you shouldnt settle due to being scared of being alone.
Since we know literally nothing about you, your best friend, or your relationship with your best friend — except that you think your best friend is a jerk — how do you imagine we could know? That would require us to be psychic.More important question: why are you still best friends with someone you think is a jerk?
There are, I think, a couple of reasons why your friends don’t count you and are being jerky to you.Maybe they think that you are worthless; thus they try to behave you badly and make you get out of their social circle. You know, sometimes people do not directly state their hate toward someone, instead, they act in a way that make you hate them.Maybe you are too kind to them. I have seen people becoming jerk after you treat them very respectfully. Maybe they think you need them or are worthless and constantly seek validation. Set your boundaries and never treat people well if they don’t. I had a friend who was thinking he was better than me and that thought gave away in his behavior. I immediately stopped being friendly to him. Guess what happened? He got nicer to me. Alas, that was late!There could be a lot of reasons. But I’m sure these two I mentioned are the main ones. Those who seek validation often get put down.You need to:tell them that you do not like their behavior and they need to change their behavior. If you matter to them they will change their behavior. Also, expressing your dissatisfaction also makes you more valuable. After all, you are a worthy man and need to have boundaries.Stop associating with them if they continue talking down on you and humiliating you. You need to be surrounded by true people and friends who are honest with you.Treat them in the way they treat you, in case you can’t cut off all friendship ties with them. Every action has a reaction. This should be your policy. Have a policy in life.
Why is my closest friend being such a jerk?
sturdy God, what does he could do, hit you with a stick? AND he's behaving intolerably, is impolite and insulting and demeaning you in front of others and you think of it rather is merely great. you think of it rather is the way pals take care of one yet another. and for chrissakes, your going to offer him each and all the potential by using fact after he has dealt with you abominably, you're questioning of asking him if he desires to be pals???? what's erroneous with you???? Do you lay down on doormats so human beings can wipe their ft on you each and all the time? Do you somewhat think of it rather is how pals act? Kiddo that became tough, yet somebody's have been given to get your interest earlier it rather is merely too late. you're permitting your self to be verbally abused. in fact, it style of feels the greater he abuses you, the greater you wish he would be your buddy. is this the type you are going to pass by life? you want help. you want some relationship counseling. you want some self-appreciate, you may pointers on the thank you to entice obstacles, and you may learn which you do no longer could tolerate abuse. i'm afraid in case you do no longer, your life is going to be an fairly unhappy one. you're making me so unhappy for you and the life you're putting your self up for. you do no longer deserve that life. GL
How can I get my friend to stop being such a jerk and treat me as a friend should?
So my friend/neighbor thinks its fun to make fun of me, humiliate me, insult me, etc., and it has really started to bother me... I've asked her to stop but she just calls me a wimp and makes fun of me some more. She was really nice when I met her and says we're friends and that she's like with all her friends, so I think she just means it all as a joke, but I don't know. I know I shouldn't let this get to me, but she really made everything I don't like about myself blatantly obvious so now I feel terrible and my self esteem is veritably shot. She said I need to be tougher and more assertive and that somehow she is helping, but this can't be the best method... I don't really have a whole lot of friends and most of them will be out of town all throughout the holidays so I'd rather find a way to fix things here than to just walk away and be lonely for the remainder of my break. I must really seem pathetic right now but I have to do something because I hate being bored and alone
It’ll depend on that friendship. It could be a totally natural experience with no deeper meaning than two people sharing an experience. It could be two chill people exploring their sexuality. It could be two people exploring deeper feelings for one another. It could be totally awkward and affect the friendship. It could be boring and not affect the friendship at all.