Is my best friend treating me like her slave?
One of my best friends said that i'm like my other best friend's slave. She says that i drop everything i'm doing just to help my friend. I admit that i do a lot for her, but i mean i thought that's what best friends do for each other. And she's kinda going through some stuff right now. But am i doing too much for her? I don't really understand. I mean yeah if she asks me to walk her to class, i will. If she asks me if she can copy my homework, i will give her my homework to copy. Yeah i admit she's kinda high maintenance but she's my best friend! But then again i'm a pretty nice person... like if a stranger asks me for a dollar, i usually tend to give them a dollar. So does it sound like she's taking advantage of my niceness? Or is it more like i'm one of her best friends, and she can always depend on me? Or maybe she's just depending too much?
Why do my friends treat me like crap?
You are not going to like my answer.Your friends treat you like crap because you allow them to treat you like crap. If you want to end this negative treatment from them, you must cut them completely off.They have proven to you that they aren’t your friends. True friends don’t ignore you. True friends call/text/email/chat with you, include you in activities and hang out with you. They don’t leave you feeling different types of negative emotions.About 6 months ago, I had to end some fake friendships that weren’t real. It really sucked and bothered me at first. However, over time, I healed from the fake friendships. And guess what? I discovered new people that wanted to be friends with me.I learned that if you let go of toxic relationships, you open up your life to fresh relationships with real people. You just need to take a deep breath and end the fake relationships.It doesn’t matter that you don’t make new friends very well. You can still give your best shot and hope for the best. Friendships are out there waiting for you. You just need to be open to trying to make them.Good luck on your friendship journey!
What should I do if my friend treats me like i'm nothing?
First and foremost. Every human being, and I mean every single human being deserves respect. Basic respect. Someone may not like you/be fond of you, but nobody should treat you disrespectfully.Second. People will treat you the way you allow them to. When it comes to friendship, even if you take this advice with a pinch of salt, and account for all those liberties we take with friends occasionally and do/say things in jest, if someone is letting you down repeatedly and not making you feel good about yourself, you should stand up for yourself.Now, coming to your situation. If you are clear that you wanted to genuinely help him, and were honest with him throughout, you should first try to communicate this to him. If you have already done this and he refuses to believe you and/or continues to treat you the way you claim he does, tell him off. Your responsibility as a friend is to help him and support him. If he does not understand that and is persistent in treating you poorly, he is not worth it. He does not deserve a friend like you.I have been in a situation where my friends have not valued me, so I know how it feels (Trust me, I do!). But then, in hindsight, I am glad I am without them. They never deserved me. I was genuine; I was honest. They did not see my worth. Cool.Lastly, I am not trying to make you feel that you should just get over it (apologies if it sounds that way), because it may not be easy (depending on your relationship with this person in question). But trust me, if you know he is not worth it and walk out now, you will be at peace later. Cheers!
Can my friend treat me like a dog?
NO way. friendship is about trust, repect and loyalty. everyone is treated as equals. you havnt explained what this friend does tyo you, but judging you referrred to it as 'treated like a dog' then it doesnt sound good. its not ok, and if this friend continues to treat you badly, tell them you dont like it and your looking for people who respecty you, not people who use u. dont let people drive all over you. everyone deserves to be treated great and if you do the same for others, they will do it back. hope i helped! =)
My friend treats me like crap?
I've been through what you are going through. I think nearly everybody has been through it. There's always a person that's "supposedly" your friend, but you just hate how they treat you and even when you confront them about it they think you are joking. Look. The thing you need to do is put your foot down and say to her.. " I need to talk to you. I am being serious i hate the way you treat me. I feel like **** when you do .... whatever it is that you hate. Tell her straight up that if she does not change you are going to leave her and make sure you mean it. If after all this she still does not change you can leave her without regrets, because you are the one that made the effort. You are probably young and the thought of being alone scares the crap out of you but trust me in the end its better to have maybe even one real friend than a bunch of "friends" that you feel like crap with. Trust me. Maybe this was just a misunderstanding. Really putting your foot down telling her YOU ARE NOT JOKING and confronting her will put all this into perspective, for both of yous. Lol.. you just added more details so.. more advice.. haha If after telling her all this she's still immature stop speaking to her altogether until she really straightens up her act and proves that she's worth being your friend again. Oh and since no-one likes her and you obviously don't care if you're her friend or not then it should be easy for you to get her out of your life. It's good that you aern't just following everyone. Good luck!!
What should I do when my best friend is treating me like a stranger?
This was a lady friend of mine, we attended the same college and everything. We met on Tinder, talked a bit, I followed her snapchat, then we didn't talk again for some months.I hit her up one day and we started talking again, we hung out, played music together, and she let me sleep at her apartment after I got off work. I took her to dinner once, texted her each day after that, drove her around the city a little bit, and even cleaned her apartment one time while she was attending class. We eventually ended up having sex, but I don't think this changed anything with us. She knew I had feelings for her.She took an internship with the college to work as a vet in another state to gain experience, so she was moving after school ended. I was working third shift at the time (12 hours) so in the morning I drove to her apartment and hugged her goodbye.After that day, we stopped texting eachother. I've gone on to try and reach her, texting her here and there to check up on her, to maybe reconnect, to try and talk to her, but she acts as if I'm nobody to her. I left her alone for a little bit because I knew she'd be busy.So my question is, what did I do wrong? Why does she act as if she never knew me? Should I question her about it even though we haven't talked for a month or so? I'm very confused on this topic.
Why do my friends treat me like I'm inferior how can I change this?
They don't treat you like you're inferior, it's you who thinks that they are treating you that way. Change how you think about it.People with a superiority complex will try to make you feel that way; but they don't realize that most people stop being insecure after high school. Just be comfortable with yourself and don't compare to others. I'm not gonna lie, sometimes the inferiority ideas is in your own head. In the past I've had friends admit they were jealous of certain aspects of my appearance, my intelligence and how I gather attention from men easily. It's not something I put effort into, it's just who I am. Yet, they felt inferior when I didn't even purposefully do that. We all have a tendency to think the grass is always greener. Maybe there's something about you makes you unique. Also, if you don't think of yourself and others in terms of inferiority and superiority, you'll be a lot happier and more successful in life :)
My friend treats me like a woman?
My straight guy friend is a nice person. But sometimes I think he doesn't appreciate the fact that I'm a man too. For example, sometimes he carries my bag and books for me when we are going to class. He holds open the door for me, so I can go through first. We both catch the same bus to uni, usually all the seats are taken by the time it reaches me and he then insists on giving up his seat for me. I do admit that I'm not the strongest looking guy in the world, but I'm not fragile... There is more. Every time we go out to eat, he tries to pay for my meal. When we go out late at night, he insists on walking me home. Finally, the most weirdest thing he did was when it was his b-day a few months ago... When everyone was gathered he greeted all the guys with a handshake and all the girls with a kiss on the cheek; when he finally came over to me, he ignored my raised hand and instead leaned in to kiss me on the cheek! He then winked at me and said "Thanks for the birthday present, babe." Everyone saw it and laughed at me! I was so embarrassed. He treated me like this even before I told him I was gay. I don't know why he does this because he said he's straight. I know he doesn't do this to his other guy friends because I actually saw how rough he acts around them. What do you guys think? and what should I do about this?
My friend treats my cousin like crap
wat should i do??? my friend ---not mentioning any names-----is like treating my cousin like crap everytime id be tlkin to him shed like say "oh allies mine not urs stop tlkin to her" it gets me so mad sum times she doesnt want me to spend any time with him he wanted to go ice skating with us but she said no idk y she always acts like this it could be b.c it was her ex bf idk i just wish shed treat him better wat should i do?