Why Is My Guy Friend Avoiding Me?
He likes you girl!! Ask him to go out! Unless you want the man to ask the person out.. In that case, tell him that you have feelings for him. He himself doesn't know how to approach you and say, "Hey, do you want to go to the movies on Saturday" Or something like that without acting like a fool. Look what I found from wiki: Sometimes, it is sort of embarrassing to have a strong attraction when you don't know how to handle it. It seems easier to avoid the person so you don't make a fool of yourself. I can talk to anyone, but if I am really attracted to a girl, I want to hide. I just feel I don't want the person to know in case she rejects me, even if she is showing clear signs of interest. It is also hard for me to talk to them and get to know them. I appear rude and maybe cold, but in fact I really like the person. And if you ask me, another reason he is avoiding you is because if he asks you out, and you reject him, the friendship would be akward or may even disappear. Take it from someone who as been through this. I used to hang out with this boy named Paul thinking we were just friends, and my other friend, Kailee, who is a girl, told me that Paul told her that he liked me for a year, so finally I asked him if it was true, and he said "yes, so what do you say?" Omg I never felt worse in my life when I said, "I only think of you as a friend" Then I stopped talking to him, I never answered my cell phone when he called, maybe at school I'll say a quick Hi to him but that was it. Anyways, good luck.
My best guy friend is avoiding me?
You didn't do anything wrong. As a guy, I found myself in a similar situation - liking my female best friend - except she was taken. I did purposefully make myself more busy to avoid her so that I could forget about my feelings for her and be more detached. It worked. One possible reason for his behavior is that he is experiencing emotions that he is not comfortable with yet - such as depression or anxiety about something - which can cloud our judgement. When I started liking my taken female friend in a romantic way - I became much more isolated, anxious, and sad about the idea of "love". Seeing her only caused more of these emotions to intensify and they felt uncomfortable. It was like being overwhelmed with love and then a great surge of sadness that you she'll never be yours. So sometimes - being busy and avoiding you can help us process these emotions and regain our sense of inner self. There might be other reasons why he is avoiding you - apart from conflicted feelings about you. They could range from personal issues to being busy, etc. So for now - your best bet is to give him his space to deal with his challenge and cheer him on when he needs it. Is it possible that he is attracted to you but is scared to date you for other reasons like low confidence, financial concerns, fear of commitment, depression, etc? This happened with a female friend years ago where we mutually liked each other but I was too trapped in my depression to see that she did like me until it was too late. In the end, we both lost. Well, either way - you did nothing wrong.
My friend avoids me for no reason. I'm missing her but she seems not to be bothered. What shall I do?
Do yourself a favour by going and speaking about your problems to your friend. Put out your issues with her across the table and talk about it. There is nothing better than a good transparent conservation to solve any problem in this world. Explain to her and make her understand that even though she is her best friend, she is not supposed to stop your from talking to others and that by talking to others, you're not avoiding her. Too much possessiveness is not good for anyone.
My friend is ignoring me for no reason?
So we have been friends since 6th grade (in 10th now) but have defiently gotten closer these past two years. We both cheer and hang out with the same group mostly everyday at lunch. I would consider her one of my closer friends. Anyway I have noticed that she constantly excludes me. She will whisper to my other friend when I'm standing right there because she doesn't want me to know what shes saying (even though it isn't about me) or she will come up and be like "Lauren (my other friend) can you come here for second I need to tell you something". She does that with all my other friends except me. She will tell me some things but never as much as anyone else. And she also can act like a complete b**** to me for no reason. Like today for example. Everything was perfectly fine at school and at cheer and tumbling last night but today I had asked my friend lauren to go with me to ask my teacher a question for a the first part of lunch (till 12:30) and she had wanted lauren to go with her to Spanish club at 12:40 and when Lauren told her she had to go with me till 12:30 she just rolled her eyes, said whatever and walked away. Lauren went with her after she went with me so it's not like she got ditched or anything. I have art with her after lunch and she was completely ignoring me and just talking to our other friend in that class. But anyone else she saw she would say hi to and hug or what not. I asked if she was mad and she rolled her eyes and said no in a rude way. She's done this randomly ignore me thing before and it's really starting to annoy me. I haven't done anything to her. And we were fine yesterday. I don't know what else to say or do. I really don't want to lose her as a friend but I just don't know what her issue is and how to handle it?
Why is my guy friend ignoring me?
I've known him for four years now, and I THOUGHT we were pretty good friends. (We talk a lot online, and that's pretty much how our friendship grew.) And when we see each others in the halls, he'd always yell "KIMMY! HEY!" at the top of his lungs. (Quite embarrassing, but hey, you've gotta accept a friend who they are.. heh.) And when I say he always would, I mean it. That's just the way it is with us. Our greetings are pretty enthusiastic. If it's not an obnoxious hello, it's a poke on the shoulder and a friendly smile or a high-five ready hand put so high up that I can't reach it.. But lately I feel like he's been avoiding me? He avoids my gaze in the halls and replies to my messages briefly and coldly. Even yesterday, when I was in the halls, I practically RAN into him and I could tell he was avoiding my gaze and all I got was a "Hey Kim" and then sulked off through the halls too quickly for me to reply back. Super unusual. We've never fought much, and especially not recently. I'm not sure what's going on with him? Does anyone have any (vague) ideas?
How do I deal with a friend (guy) who is ignoring me?
The main thing I would recommend AGAINST, is assuming that your (lost?) friend is just like everyone else, and is behaving as he has because he actively wants to drive you away.Some of us are born with sensitivities that result is us being what’s called “shy,” for want of a better word. Perhaps your friend is very shy. For us shy people to communicate as readily as others, takes a LOT of energy, and can feel exhausting to us.In addition, some of us have poor perception of time going by, and aren’t even aware that we haven’t responded to others in a timely way.Even if that is what is going on with your friend, if you are the kind of person who can’t feel any benefit to doing the work needed to deal with that, it wont matter that you are aware of it. Most people like others to regularly interact with them, and can’t believe that the other person is a real friend, unless they do.We shy people just wont be able to please people like that, so there’s no point to pushing things.In short, you don’t need to DISCARD your friend, because of how he behaves. You just need to be able to accept that this is his normal behavior, and decide whether you want to play a part in his life as he is, or not.
Why did my guy friend stop talking to me?
HiOkay I had a similar incident. I found a guy via a group and common interests. So we start talking. His girlfriend breaks up with him and he gets and internship abroad. A good break for him to recover. Yes with time, I value him more than I knew. I would know of all his dates and he would know all my weird crushes.Two years later, I found someone. I mean I started dating someone. I decided to inform this friend about the fact that I like someone, subtly. Miscommunication happens and he assumes that I am telling him about my feelings for him. And he said that he knew I had such feelings since long ago. That I was just taking long to speak it out in the open.So, it was my fault for slowly revealing the news and I had to break it to him that I never had such feelings. He stopped talking to me. And told me somehow rudely that he is busy and that I should not contact him . You see, it was the time of demonetization. He was a banker and the pressure on his group had increased dramatically in the whole country. So I accepted that he might be busy. Even if not, things had complicated so much that it was okay for him to distance himself.This went for around 3 months until I faced breakup from my first relationship. I broke up and texted him about what I was going through. He replied, after so many weeks. It was a bittersweet moment because I had just broken up but a really important person had just come back in my life.We start to talk again slowly and he helped me pull myself up from depression. With no one else helping me. So one day I asked why has he not expressed earlier if he had such feelings. His reply makes me respect him so much. He said,- that he had such instances when friendships turn to relationships, but that way he had always lost the friends and that he didnt want to risk it with me.If your friend really is in for your more than his feelings, he would come back. If he would have been behaving okay, then I might have had asked you to consider your feelings. But sounds like he went desperate. Right now, you have to save your dignity and wait. If he was true for the friendship, he will be back. Just give some time. And even if you talk, always make it clear that all you need is a friend. Keep it crystal clear before him. Good luck.