Why is my best friend acting like a stranger to me?
My best friend started acting like a stranger for 2 weeks now. We used to hang out alot, and had tons of fun together. But after we came back from a trip (a 4 days 3 nights vacation) she started to act strange, stopped replying my txt and answering my calls. I got nervous, and started to think what have I done wrong? I txt her regarding this, but never get an answer from her, all she told me was she's busy with her life, she has other friends and family to entertain, not just me. So i told her that, it's ok to hang out with friends and family, but why the sudden change of attitude toward me? I've been thinking about this for 2 weeks now. I almost never hear from her in 2 weeks anymore. She's now starting to hang out with her 2 childhood friends. Another friend of mine is organizing a sport event on sunday, she will be attending the event too. Should i join? And should I talk to her since she never reply my txt anymore, no matter how hard i've tried, how deep I've showed my feelings to her toward this friendship, still nothing from her. I'm very disappointed and starting to feel a little depress too...we used to be like sisters...
What should I do when my best friend is treating me like a stranger?
This was a lady friend of mine, we attended the same college and everything. We met on Tinder, talked a bit, I followed her snapchat, then we didn't talk again for some months.I hit her up one day and we started talking again, we hung out, played music together, and she let me sleep at her apartment after I got off work. I took her to dinner once, texted her each day after that, drove her around the city a little bit, and even cleaned her apartment one time while she was attending class. We eventually ended up having sex, but I don't think this changed anything with us. She knew I had feelings for her.She took an internship with the college to work as a vet in another state to gain experience, so she was moving after school ended. I was working third shift at the time (12 hours) so in the morning I drove to her apartment and hugged her goodbye.After that day, we stopped texting eachother. I've gone on to try and reach her, texting her here and there to check up on her, to maybe reconnect, to try and talk to her, but she acts as if I'm nobody to her. I left her alone for a little bit because I knew she'd be busy.So my question is, what did I do wrong? Why does she act as if she never knew me? Should I question her about it even though we haven't talked for a month or so? I'm very confused on this topic.
Friend acting like I don't even exist?
So I've had this pretty weird friendship with this girl. At first she'd look up to me and copy everything I'd do then she began to become competitive with EVERYTHING. Now I realised that she had been deleting me off her friends list and has been kind of distancing herself from me lately. When class is finished she leaves without waiting for me. She never talks to me and if she ever does she speaks as if she's speaking to a complete stranger. I have done nothing to provoke this sort of response from her. She is just acting as if I have never and don't exist in her world. The thing is that I am a part of her friend group and have a good connection with the others in my friend group so her actions are weird and confusing me. I don't know why she is doing these things. I have confronted her about it and she doesn't explain anything. I don't know what this girl wants? Does she want me to leave her friend group because that is selfish and rude because they're my friends too. I have no idea what's going through her mind, does anyone have any idea why she might be doing these things?
I saw the hottest guy EVER today, i tried to talk to him and he COMPLETELY IGNORED ME?
omg i was just at the mall and i saw the most gorgeous face in the world like i cant even explain how perfect he was he was maybe 18 or 19 so hot like model sexy and my friend i was with dared me to talk to him. at first i was scared but then i said okay, so... he was with his friends so we followed them for awhile and then he went into like a sports store by himself so i thought that was the perfect time to approach him, so i went in behind him and he started looking for shoes or something and so i built up my courage and i said hey lookin for new shoes? i tried to sound kinda flirty and he looked at me like i was some kind of FREAK and then just kept browsing for shoes! i just stood there like a fool!!! i wanted to cry!!! it was SO embarasing why did he do that?? was that a stupid thing to say? what should i have said to make him interested? i dont think i'm ugly or anything maybe he thought i was ugly?? is he just a jerk? do all hott guys act like that? is it because he's used to really pretty girls like model pretty? i am seriously freaking out about this i am sooooo embarassed i cant stop playing it back in my mind i wish i could see him again and say something different :/
How should I act with a guy who keeps ignoring me, then he shows up again?
You are not confused, you have already told us the answer. You are frustrated. As you said, he is using you as a second option or backup plan. And as long as you keep letting him, he has no reason to change. Why should he? You always come running when he snaps his fingers, even after he’s ignored you for months.Should he be treating you like that? No. But you can’t control what he does, only what you do. So, stop letting him take advantage of you like that.I know why you’re doing it. You think if you keep showing him how committed you are to him, he’ll realize no one will love him like you can and he’ll fall in love with you and stay with you forever. I’m very sorry to tell you this, but not gonna happen.And the more you let him use/abuse you the way he’s doing, the less he will care for you because he will have no respect for you. You don’t even respect yourself. If you did, you wouldn’t keep going back to him.I cannot stress how strongly I agree with Abida Mian when she objects to one woman’s advice telling you how to “play the game.” Do not behave like that! It’s things like that that make guys think we’re all bitches. Don’t try to deceive. Anybody. This isn’t just about guys.You’ve got to think more of yourself. You are a valuable person and you have got to start seeing yourself that way. I know it’s hard – believe me!, I know that – but in the long run, it is the only way to be happy. Good luck.
Why do some guys act like they like you one day then act normal or ignore you the other day?
Because those kind of kids are not mature enough to engage in a serious relationship.Usually, those are guys that are looking for the thrill of a relationship, but they still don’t have the level of maturity to see one through. They have the tendency to “collect” as many girls as they can, then “select” one from those.And still, it won’t end well.Those are the kind of boys you should stay away from. Chivalry is indeed dead in them and don’t expect a lasting relationship seeing those red flags.
Why would a guy act like he has a crush on you one day, almost ignore you the next, and flip back and forth between those all the time?
In my opinion, when this happens, it is because of one reason or another.This person is playing games with you and is manipulative. They are screwing with your emotions and want some kind of reaction out of you. By being friendly one day and then ignoring you the next, you are left constantly wondering where you stand with this person, meaning that they are always on your mind. This is what they want.OR:This person has a crush on you and they have good intentions. However, because they aren't sure how you feel about them, their interactions with you are a bit all over the place. They might be a shy person and overthink things, especially if they like you. If they’re very friendly to you one day, they might worry that they've come across as too clingy or too desperate. So, the next day they completely back off (which you perceive as them ignoring you, even though they don't mean it).I admit that I have acted this way towards my crush - I'm a very shy person and never want to look too eager or keen if I have romantic feelings for someone. I’ve never intentionally ignored my crush, and if she has ever though this, the truth is that I've simply been too nervous to talk to her, or I've backed off and avoided her because I'm not sure how she feels about me. Pathetic of me, I know!So, ultimately, you need to observe the situation and reflect on the type of person you are dealing with. Reflect on their personality. Are they the type who play mind games? Are they looking for an ego-boost? Or, are they a genuine person with good intentions? If so, perhaps they do not at all mean to ignore you.
My friend sometimes acts like my best friend, and then he also ignores me in front of his other friends. Why is this?
Been there faced that ;) so I will explain from my perspective completely. He (your so called friend) is a loser. Get rid of him or at least limit your relationship with him. He is an opportunist. He doesn't give a shi* about you. He will hang around, eat, read with you but the next moment he will be a complete stranger who treats you like any other tom dick or harry in the crowd. The important question is why the hell you care in first place? Sit back and relax. You have hell lot of stuff to handle. Secondly, Start ignoring him for quite sometime. If he is not anybody like as explained above he will come to you and sort things out..!!