Why is my mom so mean to me?
So sad to hear this. Some moms are jealous of their children because they think the child is better than them or they have a better life than they did. Some moms resent having to take care of their children because they want time to themselves. Others feel bad about themselves so they take it out on their children.Can you ask her, “What am I doing wrong? Why are you so mean to me? What did I do to you? Why did you have me? Can you stop being so mean to me?” Let her know that she is being mean. Sometimes people are mean but don’t realize it.Know that it’s your mom’s issue and you will someday find a spouse who loves and appreciates you. Don’t let her B.S. bring you down.
Why is my mom so mean to me?
i know , its a repost but I need more answers , because no one gave me a really good one ! My mom yells at me all the time over small stuff. Like She told me to open ' that stuff ' and I asked her what it was five times and she told me to figure it out . So I went into my room . And she just starts yelling and cussing at me. She always yells at me and I am miserable. Sometimes she wakes me up at 3 in the morning yelling at me to clean my room. And then whenever we go shopping she always tells me that I need to do some sit ups and that I look horrible.And when she yells she yells for about 5 minutes ! Then she hits me when I don't clean anything right . And one time she burned me with a flat iron. What can I do to make her stop? Why is she so evil I don't want to sound like a b*itchy spoiled brat or anything but there hasn't been a day when she doesn't yell at me at least 15 times ! Btw I am a girl and I am 13 I called social services and they let me lived back with her and then she tried to let me stay there ! -no one in my family believes me and their all on her side -she burned me on purpose and I said that hurt and she said good -I recorded her cussing me out and she kicked me out and made me live with my dad
Why is my mom so mean to only me?
My mom is always so mean to me and not my brother or sister. She has physically and verbally abused me since I was 4 and I'm 14 now. My brother and sister are 12 and 10. It got so bad that I was cutting and burning myself. The school called her in and they told her it was her fault and of course as soon as we both left, she hit me again. Whenever she's in a bad mood, she freaks out at me. My sister has been having bad allergies and me and my sister don't get along and she's been going to the dr. for her allergies and they said that stress might be a cause of her having trouble breathing at night even though shes allergic to mold and dust which is all in her room and the mold is under her carpet from wet towels. My mom said that the stress was my fault and that I cause 2 people sickness in our house. I was also at a gymnastics camp for 2 weeks and i had absolutely no contact with anyone from my family and when my mom and her friend came to pick me up, i ran to give them hus and my mom pushed me away. She has told me she hates me multiple times. Also, on my birthday, she hit me so hard on the head multiple times that i saw lights kind of like strobe lights. I have had bruises from her and have cried myself to sleep so many times. She uses me just to be like "I'm such a great parent that my daughter is the youngest on her gymnastics team" or "she got honor roll all 4 times in 8th grade" etc. She takes advantage of my boyfriends generosity and how he will buy the entire family treats sometimes and she won't offer me or him any of it. Yes, he bought it for you guys, but at least try to be polite. She causes me to have chronic depression and to cut myself a lot and more. I hate my life because of her and my sister. They are soo much alike and it just makes everything I said twice as bad. I know my my sister is like this, because she sees my mom behaving like it, but why my mom? My dad isn't home much so it's not like he can do much. Plus he has hit me too. The school found out and they just made it worse. She's only mean to me. She does nothing to my brother and sister. My brother is a mamas boy and my sister, well, yeaa.
Why is my mom being mean to me for no reason?
So today I woke up around 1:50pm and I didn't know my mom was out so few minutes I heard the door and she came in and she looked at me and she started yelling at me saying oh did I mop the floor and I told her that I forgot(hello I just Finish waking up) and she said hurry up and do it so I got water and the mop so I was about to start and she was like that's not how u do it and I told her I know that and she said "oh imma break your mouth if you keep talking to me like that" few min later I was moping and she was like your so dumb you can't start from there I wonder why you so dumb so I hurried up and moved to the living room so on purpose she made me do the kitchen all over again so then my older brother started talking her and she was all calm and wasn't mean to him and laughing the. So I was in my room and she came In and threw my brush at me and said not to leave it there.so she said that she wanted to do my hair so she started blow drying it and she started pull hard and she said that am the one that be breaking my own hair when I take good care so she started burning and I told her to stop and she said hold the pain so when she was done she asked me which side my bangs go but she didn't say it like that she just said which side and I told her I didn't know what she was saying and shE started screaming and calling m stupid and shE got up and threw the brush at me again and told me to clean up. Why is she so mean but not mean to my older brother when she mad he plays with her and when I try to joke around with her she gets all serious both my brothers play around with her sometimes cause she so mean I don't call her mom just by her first name none of my brothers call her mom cause shE so mean and and when ever I get mad at her and start talking rude to her she threatens me saying that she gonna break my mouth and put me in the hospital cause imma be bleeding she doesn't give us privatcing cause is her house and can do wat ever beside my mom is 34
Why is my mom so mean to me? what can i do about it
im 16 she keeps yelling at me for no reason...she took my cell phone with my alarm on it and she keeps calling me names i have to get up at 630 tomorow its 1130 right now she wont let me go to bed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i had 4 hours of sleep last night 5 hours the night before tht and 4 the night before that cuz she keeps yelling at me when i get home at night im tired!!!!!!!!!!!i want to go to sleep i got work tomorow, i have to hit the gym tomorow...and see my girlfriend i locked my door so she cant get in i dont want to see her fat *** she keeps trying to open it but she wont be able to cuz i did something to it so you cant force it open she keeps telling me to open the door now and i keep asking her why should i?? what can i do about this?!?!?!?!talking to her is useless, she never listens to me and never has and it pisses me off i really want to swing on her...knock her 250 pound fat *** on the ground that would shut her up, ive been tempted to but i cant do that its my mother and the ****** up thing is she treats my sister like a queen..
Why is my mom so mean to me when I'm sick?
She makes me feel even worse! Today I woke up feeling under the weather but tried to persevere.. I ended up feeling worse so I went back to bed for about 4 hours.. when I woke up I felt too ill to get out of bed. Eventually my mom made me get out of bed and I went downstairs and just lay on the couch watching endless movies. At first it only felt like a horrible headcold but a few hours ago I started to feel extra nauseous.. an hour ago I developed a splitting headache. My mom kept trying to make me go get my own food and water and whatever when I was feeling positively horrible. Just now, as we're going to bed, I'm laying here too uncomfortable to sleep. I asked my mom to come in and she told me that if I needed her I could get up and go get her. I just started crying uncontrollably because of how completely ill I feel.. I finally managed to get up and go into her room and she proceded to yell at me and tell me to leave and how busy her day is tomorrow. She thinks I was fine all day until now.... but how would she know that if she completely ignored me the entire day? I'm 16 and I actually do school from home because I get sick too easily and too often. When I get sick I can never tell when my mom's going to be compassionate or not. Sometimes she is and other times she's the way she is now. Last year I had viral meningitis, which is very serious.. one morning she just got up and left and didn't take her phone or leave me a note and was gone the entire day. I was barely capable of doing anything myself at the time. I had to call my dad who was furious with my mom for leaving me like that. My friend's mom (also my mom's best friend), is the kind of person to tell you to get over things and deal with them... but when her kids are sick she's really compassionate and gets them anything they need, even if they're only feeling slightly ill. My dad isn't the kind to be compassionate about this stuff.. and I really need it from my mom. I'm just at such a loss right now.. I feel horrible and can't sleep because I feel too nauseous and my head hurts too much... my mom cares too much about herself to help me. She figures that she can't do anything to fix it so why even bother trying.. but it really helps when someone's there to care about you. Why is she like this? How can I get her to change?
Why is my mom so rude to me?
I'm assuming here that your mom isn't a sociopathic bugnut.Sometimes people react negatively because they are in physical or emotional pain.Sometimes people have had something secretly bad happen and they react to that through the closest people in their lives.…And sometimes people respond rudely because they are in reaction mode.How do you speak to her?Do you smile, say “please" ...and “thank you" or ever acknowledge any of the sacrifices she has made out of love for you?Are you kind, grateful and helpful?It really is true, what you plant you will grow. You're gonna harvest the words and looks you send out.Unfortunately most of us don't look at our behavior realistically. We tend to see ourselves as innocent little goobers with halos on and, well, that's generally just not the truth.Unless a person is mentally unstable, it almost always takes two to create a problem, because when two people are involved, there are two sides to any issue.She could be reflecting some of the behavior you are exhibiting toward her.Try changing things up! Shock the shite out of her.Make it a week- long experiment if you like. No matter what Mom does, no matter what she says or how she says it, speak to and behave toward her exactly, and I mean exactly the way you would like her to speak to you.If her tone changes, you'll know where it started and more importantly, you'll discover you have the power within you to make it stop.Short answer? Be the mirror you want to see.
Why is my mom being so freaking mean to me?
What your mother is doing is verbal and emotional abuse. Verbal and emotional abuse is defined as belittling or shaming a child by; Name-calling Making negative comparisons to others Telling the child he or she is “no good," "worthless," "a Mistake." Blaming the child that everything is his or her fault. The effects of verbal & emotional abuse; Low self-esteem Depression and anxiety Aggressive behavior/anger issues Relationship difficulties Alienation and withdrawal Personality disorders Clinginess, neediness Flashbacks and nightmares Crying Even if you were being naughty and had an attitude, NO parent has the right to tell their child, they are a "piece shi*t", "a bit*h" "your a horrible kid", that "they never wanted you" or they "hated having you" etc, that is emotional abuse. Nor should they make comparisons of other siblings, or yell and scream at you. Please contact the youth support service, or kids/teen help line for support and help. I am not sure where you are, but I assume your in USA, the link below has a phone number you can ring it you can.
Why is my mom so mean to me sometimes?
At times my mother could be very nasty towards me. We could be sitting in front of the TV, or quietly enjoying a cup of tea, and I would ask her something quite harmless, and she would viciously hiss a short snappy answer at me. For example, I asked her one day if she could show me how to thread her sewing machine. I needed to sew a quick straight stitch. And I have to admit that I was quite worried about the way she answered my question, as I had never seen that side of her before. To my innocent question my mother viciously hissed back… “Boys don’t sew.” I left it at that, but I have never forgotten it.Now that I am much more mature, I seriously think my mother was suffering from some sort of a severe hormonal imbalance.However, to you I would say… You will be old enough to go-it-yourself one of these days, and you will be able to choose how much time you want to spend with someone who can sometimes be so mean to you!!!Good luck