Why is my mom always mad at me?
I am so sorry that you have to go through this. My mom acts the same way but worse. She always curses at me for the smallest things and she doesn't seem to care about how i'm feeling. Just today, she asked me to open a can of beans and cook them. so I asked where is the can opener and she said, S *I T, I don't know look for it! And im like, gosh, all I asked is where is the can opener. She makes me feel like I'm this horrible person, when I know I deserve so much better than how I am getting treated. I hate that we don't have a tight bond... that's my mother. it should be happy times... not confusing and hurtful. I don't know why you mom or my mom pushes anger out on us... it sucks.. but all I can do Is pray that God mend our relationship and to help us not fight or argue all the time. A lot of times I just cry to myself and write down how i'm feeling. And you have to encourage yourself because if you don't you will always feel down... Also, don't rebel or be disrespectful. Remember that is still your mother and you have to show respect. If anything don't say anything and just do what she says to avoid arguments. And pray for better days.. I hope everything works out well with you. God bless you sweetheart.
Why did my mom get mad that I cut myself?
I cut myself and my mom saw. They weren't extremely deep. I just used a pair of scissors and she saw and said I would get in big trouble if I ever did it again. That makes me want to cut myself even more!!! Why did she get mad? I thought your parents we supposed to be sad when they found out you were cutting yourself. Not be pissed! I just really don't understand it. Please help.
Why does my mother get mad at me?
You may believe it may be “little" but to mom it just means that she wants you to be an independent thinker, to a degree, and wants you to get it right the first time she tells you so that she doesnt need to remind you again.Mom means well! Its just another thing on her “to do list" that she wants you to be responsible for, so that she doesnt need to keep reminding you about. It is also one less thing for her to remind you about when she has a million other things to do.She depends on you and this is one way, a very big way, to show her that you are there to help her and make things easier for her.Believe me, she will be very grateful for any little help you can give to her and to the family.All she wants is to keep things in order because if mommy is also working, she is more than likely tired and she really will appreciate it when you support her in that way.I know it seems like its such a big responsibility for you and that you are “just a kid" but this is also part of life, pitching in, and helping out the family, most especially your mom!It may be the littliest thing in your eyes, but it is a big deal.Think of it this way, its lessons learnes now to help you and make you the responsible adult you need to be when you are all grown up and have your own family.So, help out as much as you can and try to see it from her perspective as to why you believe she gets mad over the “littleliest" things.Its all good, and its all love, and its all about training you into that responsible and helpful adult you are meant to be!
Why is my mom mad at me for being sick?
I recently cough the flu (probably swine flu, that's what my doctor says) i have a 102 degree fever, a horrible headache, soreness, and a deep chest cough. Ive gotten somewhat behind in school and today while i was out i did a page and a half essay and 2 days of language arts homework, but she still got mad at me because im not doing enough. Shes really nice normally though, but shes just mad at me now why? and no stupid answers like "its that time of the month"
Why is my mom mad about me doing my taxes?
My mom wants my tax and since I have a 1 year old son she wants everything done together under here I am thinking she's trying to do...I told her I already filed mine and she complained why I told her I know how to do it and done it free and she says I'm not suppose to do my own tax?? Is she trying to get more money from me? Btw I'm 22
Why does my Mom get mad at me so easily?
It happens almost every day for years. I am a 14 year old girl who makes her mother mad for the small things. Today I came home from playing basketball with friends and I went to grab some food and milk. The milk smelled disgusting and when I told my mom, she said to taste it. I didnt want to, so I told her I didnt want to drink bad milk. She kept saying to drink it, I kept refusing. She started yelling at me. I spilled like two drops of milk on the counter and went to get paper towels. My mom started calling me lazy and careless. i cleaned it up walked to the table and she said: You can't do anything right. I broke down inside. I hated it when she said things like that. So I sat there eating trying to hold back tears as my mom lectured me about how I am lazy and how I dont care about her and how I always want things my way. Now before you think the wrong thing, my mom isnt a bad person. Shes a very caring and loving mother, but when she gets mad, her words hurt bad. My mom only gets really mad at me if I dont do what she wants. If I dont wear the shoes she wanted me to wear, i get a lecture and maybe a grounding for a day. If I dont wash a dirty dish, I get the your lazy and careless, and maybe a grounding for a week. If I dont do chores or I wait to be told, I get a big.lecture, the hurtful words, and a grounding for a week. It may seem stupid, but Im a sensitive person. This has been going on for years. Sometimes she asks me, is there something wrong with you? Maybe she is right. I think that I am the reason to my moms anger. I am the reason why she is so tired every day, why she yells at me all the time. When she says I am lazy, careless, not smart, and greedy, its like I get a scar on my brain. She has convinced me into thinking that I am some sorr of monster. I used to think I could change. But Now I feel stupid for telling myself that lie. I feel like nothing will ever happen. Ive prayed to God many times. He has reached out, but I must have ignored his call.
My mom is really mad at me.. for no reason.. why?
ok, im 13... yeah im kinda young.. compared to old ppl. lol. but my mom is really mad at me. she wont talk to me or look at me. i didnt do anythin but we havent talked since 2 days ago and im getting pretty sad. almost depressed. and if we do talk she just yells at me. but i didnt even do anything. she never listens when im trying to tell her something. she doesnt care if im sad or stuff because its just a 'teen' thing. she gets an attitude for no reason and then laughs when i get mad. i tried to ask for therapy and guess what she said.. "shut up".. yeah. she told me to shut up because i asked for therapy. and all this stuff was on a good day before she got mad at me. its so not fun.. i actually cried for a few hours because its like she disowned me. um.. these thingies might help out: she's divorcing my dad she's turning 46 she's really easily to make angry the internets isnt working.. we have wireless... we take it from the street. lol. im on my phone durr. she has one of those fake online relationship thingies.. with a guy in canada, phillipines, and somewhere else im considered a problem child. umm.. idk what that means tho. lol my teachers are tellin her i need therapy and that i cut myself. i am such a good liar because i gave a bs story about me and my friend having 'scratch fights' and my mom believed me. i lost my turtle the night she stopped talking to me but i found him like 10 minutes later. so like srsly... whats the deal? its cuz shes old right? or.. thats just proof she doesnt want me to live with her anymore. she always says im just like my dad and im a slob and stuff like that. and she srsly expects me not to be hurt.. thats so bs. but its been like that for like 3 years so i should be used to it. but umm... help plz. its bothering me. and say ask her cuz she'll get super mad.
What do I do when my mom ignores me because she's mad at me?
My mom used to give the silent treatment when ever she would get angry, hurt, sad, etc. which thanks to my dad was more often than not. It used to hurt me because sometimes she would stop talking to me when she was mad at others. Either way it's not healthy and just know that it's her way of coping and no reflection on you. You have every right to tell her that it's not a healthy way of dealing with being upset. Talking and communicating are better. That being said sometimes a time out is necessary but it shouldn't be for long periods of time. It's only until ‘logical’ brain activity can be active again and emotions have settled. After that if she still refuses to speak with you or anyone else then maybe she's struggling with letting things go, depression, or she's got something else going on. Just don't take on her emotions or ways of dealing. If you're upset with someone learn to speak your mind with positive intention (not trying to hurt others). Tell people if they've hurt you because then situations can be dealt with. Be willing to be wrong sometimes. Things in life don't always go our way but if we openly talk about it were better able to work through it or get what we really want.