My older sister is rude and mean?
My sister was awful to me too when I was smaller. As I got some experience and learned how to deal with her, I got her to back off. Start with not letting her know she can get to you. Don't get mad...just plot and get even. It seems that bigger sibling always pick on littler ones. I found that later in life I can deal with most anyone. I've learned to play a better game so I come out on top. Don't stand up and confront...you will lose. Learn to play a better game so that you control her instead of her controlling you. She doesn't have the right to boss you around but she's bigger and has more experience. Next time just lock the door so she can't get in. That will make her very mad and you won't be mad at all. Put the remote where she can't get it or sit on it. Plug yourself in so you can't hear her. There are a ton of ways to make her mad instead of her making you mad. But never let her know that she can push your buttons and make you mad. Never show it. That will infuriate her. Ah the games that siblings play. . .
Why are older sisters so mean?
Older sisters are designed that way. Can't be helped until you are both over 30 or 40 or 50, depending on the individuals.
Why is my older sister so rude all the time?
She's constantly just a snappy b**** to everyone, me In particular! We're on vacation and she's literally ruining it for all of us! Because she's just always so mean. Like she my dad and my brother went to go do something and my dad asked if he could borrow my sweater and then I told him he could but don't hurt it, I asked nicely and politely. And then my sister !*tches at me and says, "not like it's a nice sweater anyways!" And she said it in a very rude tone. Or like in the car I was trying to tell my mom something about the plane we flew up on (I love aviation by the way) and my sister is all like "shut up no one cares!" She does this type of thing all the time but she's a lot worse on vacations. Idk what her problem is she's 23 too. I try to be nice to her but she just calls me stupid and ugly and gay and stuff like that. She also thinks she's funny with her big mouth too she thinks the world revolves around her.
Why is my sister so mean?
I have no idea how to handle it. I'll be nice- she'll be mean. When I decide to stand up for myself, she gets meaner. What's her problem, is it me? That'd be stupid because I did nothing to her. Does she think she can control because I'm younger? Please tell me because I must be missing something. It really bugs me. She's always putting me down. I just don't get it, it really depresses me how mean she is. Help!
Why Is My Sister So Rude And Weird?
She's 16 but acts like she's 11. She makes my mom sleep in her room because she's scared (probably anxiety) but she's also a brat about it because she makes our mom do it EVERY DAY, my mom actually had to get a makeshift bed because of my sister. My sister has absolutely no friends and spends her days studying or doing hand crafts. She's also really rude. She went inside my room yesterday and asked if my charger was hers, I said no but she took it anyways. Then today, when I try to get my charger back, she says it's HER charger when it's actually mine. Then she proceeds to call me "selfish" and "violent." She also brags. We're in this school organization called key club and she told my parents that she has 15 points and then she made her voice reall sarcastic and said I have 0. Then I get annoyed at her and she then tells me "I probably have the most points currently." Why is she sooo annoying?
Why is my sister so rude and mean to me?
Usually when someone picks on someone, its because they are feeling inadequate themselves and it makes them feel "superior" by trying to bring others down, in this case she is choosing you as her target. Also, the other thing, is she is looking for your attention, she wants you to respond to her when she insults you, this way it gives her the power over you, its what bullies do. I get you want to be close with your sister, but you need to begin the process of realizing that there likely never will be a relationship between you! I can already tell you are beginning that journey, the first step is anger/rage, the second step of it is blaming yourself, the third step is grieving the loss of the "relationship" and the fourth and final step is acceptance that its over and that its not your fault. I've been where you are- I have two sisters, and we were close growing up, and then when i was in college they both moved to another city (they live there together) where they met their husbands etc, and the 4 of them have this "group" that I am not apart of. At first I was in denial, I thought everything was good, and wasn't aware of how tight they were, that was the very beginning of my journey. Then came the 2nd stage which was anger, I would lash out at both of them over it constantly which would lead to fights, partly because they lack self awarness and partly because of how poorly I chose to hand the situation, this phase lasted the longest to be honest. Then came the "grieving" stage, I had learned that the relationship was over, and it felt like a death, this stage didn't last overly long. I have since accepted that we are no longer close and that I don't fit in with their gang, I'm not angry with them and I know I have done nothing wrong, the only reason I choose to keep a limited contact with them is because of my nieces and nephews, other than that we have no links and we live our seperate lives.