Why is my sister so rude to me?
Well I'm 15 and my sister is 11. She never treats me like an older sister though. She always hurts my feelings and sometimes I end up weeping. Whenever we hang out to together she always say something offensive that will hurt my feelings. She doesn't seem like a 11 year old to me though. She acts like a *********. and never apologizes for the mistakes she performed. I remember one time we were playing basketball and I was complimenting her and she tells me to stop pretending to be nice and then I was talking and she was like "ur making me lose." She always cuss at me and when I'm mad we start fighting and she scratches me with her nails so I kick her and she tells my parents and cries and make alot of things up. My parents just tells me that she's immature and I'm older so I should accept her foolishness. But I definately disagree because I find her a very cold-blooded and evil sister. She pretends to be nice and calm around others and yells and treats me poorly when no one's around. I remember one time we were playing pool and I accidently hit her finger with the ball, I apologized, but she threw the ball hard and it bruised my fingers and I started to cry and she treated like nothing happened. I'm crying while typing this and today I was whispering to someone and she told my mom that I was gossiping and everyone heard what she said. I was embarassed and started crying then she said she can do watever she wants. And whenever I accidently touched her with my hands or feets she does the same thing back to me hardly and says ur so dirty. I'm a normal person and I have hygiene. Why would she say that to me? Why does she treat me like that? I'm so sad(-_-)
Why is my sister being so rude?
When I was very small, I lived with my Sister and my grandmother. On a side note, my sister is 6 years elder than me. So she takes up the role of my mother, in her absence.After coming from school, we used to fight on who gets the remote control for the television. He who has the remote control is entitled to watch whatever shit you like on the television. This was an unsaid rule.This used to be a regular fight which involved martial arts and kung fu( none of us were trained).All of a sudden the fight changed with a war with weapons. My sister started beating me black and blue with whatever would come onto her hand. I was unable to resist even though I tried with all my might.My grandmother pleaded her to stop and asled her why she was doing it. She said,My friend told me that I should beat her at this age below her knees so that she grows up as a good girl. And I am like her mother, I have the right to beat her.Beating is something common in homes in India, well in the earlier times. We were even beaten at school for making mistakes. Now people, not even parents, dare to beat the kids. IT IS ILLEGAL.You should talk to your sister to know why she is rude. There would be some stupid reason like my sister's. Till date I can remember the hardship I faced.And my dear sister, you and your friends were wrong. You beating did not help me be good, rather rebellious and more fear of failure.
My dad favors my younger sister?
Someone is always the favorite. I think you should stress the behavior of your lil sis to your mom and let her deal with it. Next time your sis has a fit regarding your dad then just mind your business.In a few years he will be yelling at her.
I do not get along with my younger sister at all. I am always nice to her, but she still says mean things to me. What do I do?
You get along great with your sister by always being nice to her—the problem is her not you. What you need to do here is to ignore her for an x-amount of time because she is displaying jealousy of you to you. Only answer her when she approaches you with a question to you. Otherwise, you need to leave her alone to her own demise, this will force her to think—about you! Her own self-sabotaging thoughts about you will either worsen and cause her to feel abandoned by you or if she’s a thinker she’ll know you’ve had enough of her nonsense and this may or may not straighten her out. The idea is to let her come to you and this will be an indication of self-healing on her part. When she does come to you—it’s up to you to let her know you love her as your younger sister and you only want to help her in life. Let her know right then and there that she can come to you for advice any time she needs to. But, you need to have open ears for her and not say a word until she is finished talking. Then ask her if she’d like to hear what you have to say in reply. Sister rivalry is normal and many times caused by parental favoring of a child which other siblings feel and know. If this is your case it’s important to let your sister know you’re on her side. She is an angry young person for a reason—make it your reason to find out what that is. Then she’ll be freed of that particular anger causing her behavioral problems. My older sister was always jealous of me for her own reasons when she has her own artistic abilities as well. Jealousy is the thief of happiness which plagues us all from time to time. Jealousies has always been a detriment to me in regards to nasty undeserved inflictions against my good natured person. Certainly, I spew doo and dung flung at not-so-innocent people but I speak truth and truth isn’t always pretty. People prove themselves not so good through harmful inflictions upon others but like everyone else we’re all hurting from our own detriments in life. So, it’s best to “Say what you mean, mean what you say, but don’t be mean when you say it”
Why is my sister so rude and disrespectful?
You said it yourself, she's disrespectful because your parents allow it.
How to deal with disrespectful, rude and stubborn younger sister?
Ok so it may sound a little petty but I'm 19 and my sister is 14 and she Hates me even though I do a lot for her and care a great deal (drive her and friends around, cook for, lend money, lend clothes, give her gifts and ask if i can take her out anywhere on my free days!) and I'll I get back from her is disrespect, rudeness and basically get told off by her for not doing things right ! Ridiculous I understand she is just becoming a teenager but I am all but nice to her ! It is actually beginning to get to me emotionally as she ish little sister I just want to love and protect her! Worst part is my parents think she is a little angel with A grades ! Any advice of how to deal with her ?
Am I being rude to my sister?
Your behaviour had very little to do with your sister. BUT, you will develop a hateful, unfriendly and unhealthy relationship towards yourself and others. Soon, you'll left wondering why you don't have many friends, or why you are being critical of other people or why you think other people hates you. Before you know it, you'll have very dry skin, pimples every where, dry hair, gray hair, always frowning, no friends, starts collecting cats, hoards of cats, you go to the store with your clothes full of cat hair. have you seen these kind of people? The cat lady syndrome? Then you die alone! Seriously.But it's not too late. You still have time. Start with a smile in your head, now project it outward, now on the mirrow, make friends with your sister. Oh, you know what? Flirting is part of socializing, there is absolutely nothing wrong with it. In college (or elementary, or retirement homes) when people smile at you, you need to smile back and move on.... If you look at them wrong, you'll be that crazy bitch, same when you reach adult hood.So you wanna hoard 16 or 121 cats it always starts with 1 angry girl and 1 cat, then 3 cats... You wanna die with 121 cats? You've seen these people in the news right? Or you wanna be a nice flirty person that always have a nice pleasant beautiful smiling face? With lots of friends?No offense to people with lots of cats, but c'mon... You get it by now right? Count your cats people. If you have more than one, you know what to do...So wadaya think?
How do you deal with rude and disrespectful younger siblings?
It all depends on where in life you stand at this moment. If you consider yourself mature then it's as easy as not giving in to her insults(or whatever she does).You must understand that people that hurt other people verbally are usually hurting on the inside or mad at life. Chances are she might be mad, sad, jealous or stressed out. Unfortunately there are people who vent their frustrations with others by being mean.As long as youre not paying attention to her disrespects she will start seeing that it has no power over you.The moment you give in she wins.Having said that dont repay her with same coin. Meaning do not act like her or disrespect her as well. She will just continue the cycle.
Should I tolerate my younger brother’s being an ignorant, rude asshole to me?
Bro or Sis I don’t know which but, where have you been all my life?!I assume you are now noticing a pattern in his behaviour and is confronting him because your authority might be challenged. Or not.Anyway, my brother acts the same way:When I tell him something, he says,”Did I ask YOU SOMETHING?”Tries to send me away when I get near.Goes out of his way to inconvenicence me.“and glares at me for tiny actions”, which I assume is in a contemptuous manner but, You didn’t know the glares meant that but, now you do.“never answers when I talk to him”,and expects you to answer him or else.You don’t know how excited I am to meet you, I though I was the only person in the world with as Asshole-Brother affliction.Okay. I am so Psyched to meet someone like you!!!*Deep breaths*Where were we? Oh, yes about the brother, yeah?Well what I did was, I played hard to get. I no longer provided him the satisfaction of me trying to communicate with him. I became like a stranger.And what do you know, he couldn’t bear that! Hah, the tables have turned!Now he wanted MY company.But as soon as I reverted back to my old-self, he would too. So I maintained a persona, one of indifference, mind you, only to my brother and I treated everyone else the same. This made him feel that my advances were priced and now he was learning how valuable it was.I know, I know, it’s not a permanent solution but, It worked out for me and your brother being an asshole is not his fault. It’s just the way he functions if that makes sense. How your parent are like also reflects upon him.“Those who are constantly angry at others, secretly desires to be loved”, I don’t know who said this but, I’m sure it was a psychologist.Keep in mind even though your brother is an asshole, he is still your brother. And that is not an euphimism for go easy on him, NO MERCY!!Just kidding, I have just shared a tiny bit of my experience with my brother, It is now upto you to follow your own path.Nice to meet you, again.Well, until I write again I guess. Thanks for reading.