Why is she so shy to me?
My girlfriend is really chatitive to her friends but isn't really talkative around me that much. I think she's shy but we barely talk I need help on trying to talk to my shy gf. we've only been going out for a couple of days.
Very shy and i cant talk NEED HELP?
ok so this girls is really shy, and so am I. heres the problem because shes used to having guys approach her and talk to her so she can mess around with them, the thing is im really shy and im known for "not talking." My mind simply can't think of anything to say and she said i make her uncomfortable by not talking and so she is quiet with me, but I really dont think of anything to say. She told me I seem too serious and I overreact because she was carrying a lighter. well most people think im funny and patient, smoking is just one of those things i dont tolerate and it wasnt that big of a deal because i kno she doesnt smoke she just thinks their cute idk lol. i let it go. stil the serious thing, i cant get over being shy, so i can show her the fun side of me everyone else gets to see. i need to fix this because shes my homecoming date, we have an akward feeling between us and I really need to get over it. I didnt think she saw me as the serious type, i thought she could tell i was shy
Why is my girlfriend so shy?
We have been going out for three weeks but I always have to be the first to get something going. Like when she is cold she just shivers and holds herself and then I hug her and hold her up against me. And today when we were walking together it was pooring rain and we had no coats or umbrella and when we were crossing the street, as she stepped up onto the sidewalk she tripped and I broke her fall, pulled her up and kissed her and she blushes a lot. Why is she shy all the time?
He's too quiet, too shy, only around me! Help?
He is intimidated by you. Ask him questions that require more than a yes or no answer. When he answers, ask him to tell you more about it or ask another question. Before you know it, he will be comfortable talking with you.
My girlfriend is shy in bed? HELP?!!!?
It's a little worrying that you are having full sex without oral or digital sex beforehand. What you need to do is take a step back. She has a problem with sex. That isn't unique. What she doesn't need is a boyfriend who pushes her into doing things she isn't comfortable with or makes her feel like she is frigid and bad in bed. Here is a suggestion. Next time you have sex *do not* penetrate. Foreplay only- kissing, hugging, touching her gently, attempting oral sex (she may not be comfortable with this if she is very shy)- give her the option of leaving her knickers on, and touching her through them instead. Even if she asks you to/ suggests you have full sex, decline. If she wants to touch you with her hands let her, but stay away from the idea of oral sex (which she is probably scared of.) Do this on a few occasions. No full sex, just getting used to knowing what she likes, what makes her feel good, and enjoying the experience. Wait until she really wants to try again. Btw if she is complaining about it being sore then she probably isn't lubricated enough- meaning she isn't feeling enough pleasure. Even if after making her feel good, she is still dry consider using flavoured lube of some sort. Good luck
Im too shy to hug my girlfriend, help!!?
kiss her first, then you wont be shy to hug her. Or just do it, be a man, a goodbye hug seem appropriate
I like this girl, but I think I'm very ugly and shy. What can I do to help myself gain the confidence to approach her?
Dear Shy boy,The first time I read your question, I went, “Awww… This is actually so sweet!” :DYour tale seems to me like an old-world story that celebrates the affection and attraction of a by-gone era. And yeah, I love that!So, I think I need to give you some tidbits on acing this ‘exam.’Dude, to begin with, it’s good news that you’ve started speaking to each other. Yeah, I know that she initiated it, but it is certainly a great news! Rejoice.Now, you mentioned that you’re a shy boy, so let me tell you a tiny secret: Girls like shy boys. Shhhh.. It’s the truth.Since she was the one who started the conversation, I am believing that she’s an extrovert or maybe not as much introverted as you are. Well, now that adds to your advantage. Most extroverted girls (including me) love introverted, shy guys who are reserved and able listeners. So, rejoice again.Coming to your insecurity that you find yourself to be Ugly — Bro, don’t underestimate yourself!Golden Words: Girls aren’t as much into looks as boys. Period.We’re a lot forgiving in the looks department if you impress us with your intelligence, loyalty and chivalry.So, don’t lose heart. Keep meeting and talking to her and maintain a good social rapport. With time, I’m sure, you guys will exchange numbers, and that would enable more communication between you too. Smile!Yeah, okay, I confess this: Maybe it won’t be a single day or week’s work to become good friends with her, but it will certainly happen over time. Just stay put and be the cute, sweet and adorable person that you are. Cheers!Let me know if you need some more help. I’d be very happy to aid you.By the way, You look awesome. Trust me! :)
Why is a shy girl so anxious around me, and how do I make her feel comfortable?
Shy people are those of us who have a hard time expressing themselves because they are afraid that you won’t like them over what they say. They think they’ll say the wrong thing or blurt something out rudely. Most of the time when someone is being really, really quiet, they’re worried about you discerning something that they’re thinking but not ready to say.I don’t know if this will work for you, but it did for my brother. If you call her up on the phone, you might have an easier time connecting with her. Ask her if she’s OK with you calling her. My very shy brother married a very shy woman and they have 3 kids. It started with a horribly uncomfortable date and moved to a very comfortable series of phone calls, followed by a very nice set of dates and an eventual marriage. The phone calls allowed them to talk about things that were less comfortable in person.
Help please, im 15 very shy never had a girlfriend!!?
Please help me I am a very shy person and im so shy (scared) of girls, I don't know what to do, all my friends at least hang out with girl, but I can't. When ever I get next to a girl and talk to her, my eyes get all teary I get shy. Please teach me some tricks how to deal with shyness, and please no answers like don't worry ur still young. Its just sooo embarassing, every time my friends call me to go chill, I have to make up an excuse and not go, even though I really want to.
I'm too shy around my girlfriend..HELP!?
For real, just tell her what you think. Who knows, she may say the same thing. If you can talk without a problem, then what exactly are you being shy about? If you want to make "contact" I'd suggest trying somewhere private so that you two won't be intimadated by the surrounding environment. A place like the park should do fine. Once there, maintain that conversation (this is key) and make subtle contact, something like placing her hands in yours, or play with her hair (if she has any) while maintaining your conversation. Really your problem (I think) is that you just want to develop the relationship. That comes from conversation, but also from the type of conversation. Anyone can talk about anything under the sun, but you want to direct your conversation towards getting to know her. Questions about her motivations, ambitions, and desires are a good way to get her to open up. Once she "feels" like you are sincere and is comfortable around you then it should progress just fine. Remember, you are the older person, so she may look to you to dictate how the relationship will progress. Just keep talking to her about this and soon enough, you'll be happily ever after (for two months, you know how you High Schoolers do!)