I am in love with myself, very much in love...?
i keep telling myself i love me everyday, kissing myself in the mirror, and saying: you are beautiful. i love other people but i love me better. if i am going through my day and i remember that i have not told myself i love her, i stop what i am doing go to the mirror i say, l love you. makes me feel good. sometimes when i meet people the first thing they say to me is, you love yourself right. i would reply very much. i started loving myself the day i read the book, The Laws Of Attraction by Jack Canfield. that book taught me alot. in that book you have duties to do, write down somethings about you,positive affirmations and repeat them to yourself in the mirror every morning... i read that book years ago... i gather this self love that make me really happy. i do get sad at times, i'm just like anybody else. the thing is, when i look at my pictures, i'm thinking positive things about me and wish the girl in the picture could come out, and yeah i would date her. but she's already here with me. i think like that sometimes. IT IS IMPORTANT TO TELL THE BEAUTIFUL YOU, THAT YOU LOVE HER, CAUSE THAT SELF IS WHAT YOU SLEEP WITH EVERY NIGHT AND WAKE UP WITH EVERY MORNING. "ONE LIFE TO LIVE." WHAT DO YOU ALL THINK?
He keeps telling me that I don't even love myself when we fight. Does he love me?
When he says that (repeatedly), he’s trying to break your self-esteem and confidence. Someone who does that does not love you. Even if were true that you didn’t love yourself, if he loved you, he would be doing either of these two things:Separate from you so that you can take the time to take care of yourself. By giving you space, he would be giving you the freedom to focus on yourself without having to worry about not giving him enough attention.Giving you as much love, support and patience as he could so that you could start to love yourself the way that he supposedly loves you.Neither of those ways include constantly arguing with you and putting you down. When we are angry, it’s common to say harsh things out of anger, but this sounds like this happens often. Sooner or later, cracks in your relationship are going to get too big to be repairable.The next time he says it, you should ask him, “Then why aren’t you helping me to love myself? Why are you always putting me down? If I don’t love myself, then I can’t love you, so why would you want to be with someone who doesn’t love themselves? Why are you still here with me? ”
Why do I keep telling him that you don't love me when he tells me I love you?
Well, life isn’t a movie . You doubt because you don’t feel the feeling you would feel if he loved you the way you know love to feel. You’re missing that inner certainty. When it happens, if it ever happens, you will know it’s there . When someone you want commits to you you will feel it inside yourself. This man hasn’t committed to you. And a person who hasn’t committed probably isn’t going to commit. You can give them years of your time, but in truth they’re probably never going to commit to another human. It’s sad I know. We get to wanting these ones who really don’t want anyone. And it can ruin us for better things. There is no way I don’t think to win the people who lack the need for other people. They’re beautiful usually, but not as beautiful as someone desirable who actually chooses you. If you like and respect yourself and enjoy being alive you will be alright having total faith that people like this will find you.
Why can't I seem to Love Myself?
I'm 25 and STILL I feel like I suffer from not caring for myself much...and also having guilt/anxiety about any progress or accomplishments I may make in my life for myself. Basically I don't feel like I deserve much, if anything at all, ever. I tolerate anything and everything thrown at me, alone, because I never feel like anyone really cares to help me with my problems, plus I don't want to burden anyone. I also have a problem with never wanting to be me. I would always want to be someone else, even growing up, I have always wanted to be another girl, not myself. I always wanted to be the prettier, smarter, faster(sports) girl. I never feel like I have much to bring to the table, in life in general, and especially in relationships and employment. I basically have never wanted to be me. I have struggled all of my life to try and make myself the best version of myself....meaning physically, academically..etc. I try to be perfect. I keep a perfect looking spotless apartment, I keep a perfect job record, finances, relationships..etc. But I feel like I don't even know why I do these things. I have no definition of me...I ask myself everyday these days... "who the hell am I"? I don't know who I am, other then I try to lead this perfect life so other people will like this perfect me. Back to my question.....I don't know how to love myself. I really don't. Sometimes I even put off doctors appointments for a very long time... because I can do anything and everything (move the world!) for OTHER PEOPLE and their problems, but when it comes to taking care of ME, I put myself last. All of my wants/dreams/desires go out the window when I involve myself with any man. I feel pathetic and low, that I am unable to be selfish and get what I want out of life. I feel like I will be forever disappointed because of my own lack of motivation for myself, or love for myself. I love others but never myself.
I hate myself for loving her. Do I have any right?
When I was 13, I raped a girl about 10. I turned myself in, and did my time. Now I'm 19 and I've stupidly fallen in love with that same girl. She knows it's me, and gets sad whenever she sees me. I disgust myself. I want to make it more than up to her, but I fricken love her! How the heck am I giong to work this out? Especially since I want to hold her, and she doesn't like me.
Why would your twin flame tell you to love yourself?
Because your twin loves you very, very much! They truly want you to find happiness and to ultimately fulfill your mission together.I told this to my twin and gave him some reading material I thought might resonate with him (the only time I ever gave him any subtle TF guidance after he ran). I told him I was going to try to learn to love myself too. We will never have a chance at a successful union without mastering this step.Self love is the lynchpin of the whole twin flame experience (or any healthy love relationship). Having a twin is a safe way to love yourself because they are you! It seems easier to pour our love on them rather than ourselves, but we must, must learn to turn that love back to ourselves as well.Only after we have achieved unconditional, judgement-free self love will we be able to authentically and truly love another person — and finally the whole world— without viewing them through the warped prism of our insecurity and self doubt, which hinders generosity/peace/freedom and eventually harms all relationships.I assure you, it was a gesture of pure love for you and belief in you. Shed all the false shame that you have collected over your lifetime and what you will be left with is the infinite love of self that God had for you when He created you. When you both do this you will be vibrating at your highest, purest state of being— and ready for a happy and meaningful reunion.All the best to you and your twin! ❤️