How do I handle my girlfriend texting a another guy?
Well I would get rid of her. Its obvious shes not 100% into you if she texting another guy. Eventually the lack of trust will come into play making you question her where abouts, cyber stalking her social media pages looking for hints and clues.This is not the way a relationship that has true meaning works. When two people are together they don't have friends of the opposite sex that are not friends with both of you.My ex boyfriend would always talk to a girl that was friends with him before we met. It angered me, he cherished her more than he did me. One day she complained to my boy friend about how her boyfriend was not happy about her talking to my boyfriend on a daily basis. I felt the same way as her boyfriend did but neither her or my boyfriend saw any problems with it. I'm sure if the tables were turned they would.I eventually told him to tell her “Im all yours now my girlfriend left me” her relashionship had headed south and her boyfriend left her, not sure if my ex got together with her after I was out of the picture or not and I really didn't care. I'm sure the fun was taken out after they both got dumbed.None the less I was reading what they were doing as “having their cake and eating it to”. In the end myself and her ex boyfriend walked away being the more mature ones.So you see nothing good comes out of staying with someone who has no respect for you and has the audasity to sit and text another guy pretty much right under your nose. If she hasn't cheated on you already I'm pretty sure she will eventually. Get rid of her before she does and while your dignity is still intact.
Is it possible to find true love at 14?
Of course it is. At this time of your life you feel this guy is just perfect. Just remember that you are both young and have a lot of learning and development to do. Like most people what both of you want out of life and a relationship will change. Basically what I am saying is : Take it slow young lady. Do not try and grow up too fast. Enjoy the moment for what it is and keep it simple. Keep focused on your long term goals like getting a good education, and developing yourself as a person.