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Why Is This Girl So Confusing

Why are girls so confusing?

Ever since the second grade I've liked one girl. I'm a senior in high school now and I like her even more. However, I have never gone out with her. I did once try to ask her out but she said she had other plans. Did that means she wasn't interested? Who knows. The only thing I know is that I like a girl who can't like my back. She knew I liked her since second grade. First time I saw her, I went right up to her and told her so. Ever since then i've liked her. I feel sad sometimes when I think about this because the only girl I have ever liked won't like me for some unknown reason. I don't know why she doesn't like me. I'm skinny, nice, smart, athletic, and I think im good looking. The only thing I'm not is a jerk. And for some odd reason, she only dates guys who are mean to her and are jerks. Should I become a jerk just so she might like me? I'm confused because that is not how I am. When ever you are in a relationship, I was told to be yourself and be honest. How can I be myself when she can't like me for me.

I just need to know what to do. Should I keep on asking her out or what? That seems really weird to me. I don't want to push her away. However, I want to find a way to go out with her or hangout or something without making it awkward for her to say no. Also, she already has given me her number and I have text-ed her. Is the next step to call her? Should I try to ask her out after calling her a lot? What happens if I say the wrong thing when I'm talking to her and the phone call goes all silent? I don't want to embarass her and I don't want to creep her out.

As you can tell, I'm lost, and I have absolultely no idea what to do. I just need some advice or opinions on what should happen next. I can't just forget about her. That is physically impossible to do because I have liked her for so long. It would be like taking my own heart away from me. It would kill me not to like her. I know that sounds extreme but its just this insane feeling I have about her. Maybe its love. However, I really doubt that. Lust is probably a better word to describe that, however, love is how I feel.

Thank you for reading and good luck . I'm sorry for all the rambling.

Why are girls confusing?

You can make an argument for evolution's role in anything, especially when it comes to sexual relationships. Women are confusing to men, and men confusing to women, because this throws potential mates off, skewing apparent flaws to make them seem like socially or otherwise created problems. Mystery is a strong enforcer of love, then, because it allows for emotional and physical copulation before a mate can decide that his or her mate is actually a poor choice. I'm not saying that confusing or mysterious people are poor choices as mates, but their mystery is an evolutionary adaption allowing them greater success in mating despite their flaws. In short, mystery (confusing-ness) masks evolutionary disadvantage.

Why are girls so confusing?

hi so im 16 and i texted my ex 2 days ago saying i miss her and she said me too and i responded back but she hasnt replied also this other girl i literally was cuddling with all camping trip was kind of being a flirt too my friends but not as much as too me please help do i forget about both or..?

Why are girls so confusing these days?

I don't want any of those things and I'm in my mid 20's, so maybe you need to change your perspective a bit. Generalizations often do more harm than good. And no, it doesn't have to do with their menstrual cycle, and I hope to God you have never asked a woman that, because that in and of itself would be a reason for her to not like you. Just keep looking, you will find the girl that is right for you. Good luck!

Why are shy girls so confusing?

Ive been talking to this girl for a little more than a month now and shes shy. She has opened up to me alot but i she is still not fully open wen it comes to conversation. We have interesting conversations in person and she is flirty with me. Ex she'll tease me wen i tease her, we were walking to class i was behind her and she tried to close the door on me, all my jokes are funny to her and its the flirty is obvious in the texts she sends me. The problem is i asked her to the movies twice in person and she said yes but wen i text her to set it up, at the last moment she'll say shes busy. Apparently she has a wedding soon. She said itll be ideal if we go after the wedding. Someone please help me out with why this girl is so confusing?!?!

Why are girls sooooo confusing?

One day, they seem interested in you, they are grabbing your hand as you walk away, they are hugging you, all when you barely know them.

the next, they don't seem interested as much and they are still talking to you, but not as much as before at all.

or girl 2, they write on your papers and stuff, and tell jokes, and then the next day they completely ignore you and say nothing to you?

Why do guys say girls are confusing?

Human women are hardwired by evolution for something called "sexual crypsis," which means, roughly, "hidden fertility" or "reluctance to expose sexual receptiveness." Whereas men are generally straightforward in sexual matters, women are more convoluted and deceptive: women have to balance both looking attractive and  controlling their attractiveness.The reason for this is that, biologically, making babies is a cheap process for men and an expensive process for women. Having a baby with a substandard man is a biological and social disaster for women, in that it is a hugely expensive waste of her finite and ever-fading reproductive resources. That is why women seem confusing to guys - women, because of their hard-wiring,  deliberately act confusing to protect reproductive resources.  Men do not instinctively grasp the reproductive issues faced by women, and women feel safer when those issues are obscured. If a man were to figure out how women can be manipulated, he would know how to exploit her sexuality in ways that would hurt her offsprings' viability. Sexual crypsis is why feminists insist that women can dress however they want (to maximize men's confusion and minimize men's control), but men must only wear clothing approved by feminists (to maximize women's control over men and minimize men's influence over women's feelings). Philae researcher criticized for shirt covered in scantily clad women

Why are pisces girls so confusing?

I mean not to be a jerk but i've met this pisces girl in a Halloween party. I really liked her she seemed so Beautiful and funny and really interesting, we talked almost all night at that party and after i went home she text me in the morning. I was so glad that we text all day and we kept texting each other for a couple of weeks. Then she stopped texting me and i figured why. So i text her back then she didn't answer me then a month later she text me back. I was like i thought she forgot about me, we text eachother for a week then again she stopped texting me again. Im just confused how she would just not answer my texts i really liked her i still do.

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