What is happening with me?
well basically at some point of life,everyone suffers from this its just a feeling which mainly comes when you have lost someone you love or things what you wanted to achieve or have planned for are going the wrong way. But its the time when you have to be with yourself yeah you would find it difficult to express to your friends and they would also might not be able to understand what you mean coz you also dont know whats happening . but belive me its just a state of mind and no one can help you from recovering from it except you.Best way to come up from this,try something new go out, listen music,dance, eat, watch comedy shows , go for a date ,watch motivational lectures by some famous people, try to talk with your friends and relatives and if there is something thats holding you from doing all this ,something thats holding you from living your life just leave it forget it and remember its your only chance its your time you will never get it again yoy will always regret for not spending it the right way, think about what you have you have not lost everything, you might be having many things that other people just dream for. So wake up shake up and live and try some meditation too it might also help to come up with all the mixed feeling you are having coz its just a harmonal locha in your brain which only you can settle with your will . all the best :)
Why do all the bad things happen to me?
I used to ask this question almost every day.. and ended up with frustration.But then one day I met a kid, I was lost in my thoughts sitting at window seat in DTC bus.That kid came and said “ didi shoe polish karwa lo" ( Can I polish your shoes), I thought he was begging. I simply ignored.He got out of the bus from front door and I saw him carrying a small school bag and that polish rack.And we were waiting for green signal and was stuck in a traffic jam.He sat on foot path under tree shadow and opened his school bag and took books out of it and started writing.I was shocked, I watched this type of scene in Bhagbaan movie, I got out of the bus and tried to talk, he was studying GK(general knowledge).I asked in which class do you study. He said I study on my own. I said GOVT is providing free books and meals ypu can join GOVT school. He said if I will join school I will get food but my mother and younger sisters won't get.I am the only son and its my responsibility to make them happy as I will be the man of the house. I laughed as he was only 8yrs old. And he was talking like 20yrs old guy. But at the same time I overwhelmed.I offered him 100bucks, he denied.“ Didi, I dont beg, I do my Job and earn money".I asked him how much do u earn?He said 50–60. But oneday I earned 70. I bought chocolates for my younger sisters.I learnt a lesson. DONT SAY Y BAD THINGS HAPPEN TO ME?Either try to solve your problem, if you can't do anything to solve it, THEN STOP WORRYING.Everything happens for a reason.Good Luck :-)
Why does this happen on Instagram?
Ok so I have 1,406 followers on Instagram and 3 people just followed me so I was expecting the number to increase a little but that didn’t happen, it just stayed at 1,406. No matter how many times I refresh, it will just stay at 1,406. This has been happening a lot that’s why its taking me longer to get to the amount of followers I want. Why does this happen?
My life just continues to suck... Why is this happening to me? What did I do to deserve this?
I am a 17-year-old girl and I’m a senior in high school. My life just continues to get worse and worse everyday and honestly I’m just ready to end it all... I’ve been dealing with depression for 2 years now... Last year it was really bad that I had to be admitted to a hospital because my mom and everyone around me was worried about me. I suffer from depression and anxiety. Also, A couple months ago school had started and I was somewhat started to feel a little better, Everything was going well for about a week until one day I was at work and I kept having to inhale in people’s cigarette smoke and then I started feeling all sick and dizzy and my heart started racing so I had to go home early. And to this day, I have left heart pain, and shortness of breath and fatigue and almost all the symptoms for a heart attack everyday. It really upsets me because I was already dealing with servere depression and anxiety and now I have to deal with physical pain as well. I wondee why this is all happening to me and what I did to deserve any of this. All I try is to be happy and get better but life keeps trying me and making things worse for me and it’s making me want to commit suicide. As far as going to the doctor about my symptoms, I went plenty of times and they couldn’t find anything wrong with me, They told me that I could have GERD and gave me some medicine for it but it doesn’t do much for me. I keep thinking that it could possibly be a heart problem.
Why is it that every time something good happens to me, something bad happens immediately after?
One thing that comes to mind is a pattern of self sabotage, the next time something good happens start keeping a diary. At the end of each week go back and read your comments and see of you can detect so,e thinking that seems counter to what you might normally do in situations.Also remember humans think about situations in relative terms, perhaps,what you are calling something bad is just a normal happening but juxtapositioned next to the high feeling of the good event it feels worse by comparison.These are just ideas for you to test of course, but we can be pretty confident that this is an internally generated perception as it is unlikely that you have been the victim of so many coincidences. Not impossible but unlikely.Good luck on breaking this cycle as it would be a shame to have every positive event followed by a feeling of dread.
Why, why this happens to me always, is it curse?
Hello there. Dear, you're not the only person out of 7 billion people around this world. This even happened to me too. So you're not the only one. One of example that just happened to me earlier (until now), I just got healed from sick and now I am alone, have no friends in school. It was a long story, it was because a 'ex-friend' of mine fought with me and told everyone to stay away from me. Ugh, that jerk. I have many more problems after I had a happy time too! Life has ups and downs. A life without problem is just like death. When you die you have no problems or bad things. Don't feel that you are cursed whatsoever, this is what we called as life. Just always believe God that everything will be okay and better when the time comes. You just have to wait! God bless (:
Why something bad happens to me every time i try to do something good?
i do not know what is wrong in my life. every time i try to be good i get screwed up. today, i put two of my cars for sale. i am hoping to make a profit on one of them, maybe about $1000. i said i would do something good with that money, i thought i would buy i nice washer machine to my mom who does laundry by hand and she is over 70. today, my two cars were towed and i had to pay $700. this kind of things happen to me all the time. i am tired. i cant figure out what is going on. i am a good guy. am i supposed to be a as******, selfish or bad person to do well? please help me figure out what happens.
Why does the opposite always happen to me?
It's all just coincidence. There's no link between what you're thinking and the real world. If you start to obsess about this idea of things turning out the opposite of how you imagine, you'll start to notice that happening more. Even though those things will happen regardless of what you think. Part of it may also be self-fulfilling. It's like when you've just bought, say, a BMW, and then you start to notice how many BMWs there are on the road.