Why has my friend just stopped talking to me?
my boyfriend has two best friends, and when we first got together I didn t care for them. A year and some months pass, and I got close with one of them, we can call him A,, in a strictly friend way, then we just drifted because I didn t think the way he played girls was right. He has his other friend, we can call him B. We got close too, now almost 2 years into my relationship, being very similar. He always asked me for advice, he d talk to me when he was feeling down, and he d try to cheer me up when I was down. Both friendships were exactly that - friendships. We often all hung out, my boyfriend and them and a couple of my friends. I even tried hooking him up with my best friend, but they weren t compatible, complete opposites. We d often (we being me, my boyfriend and both A and B) would have long group chats/texts, hangout, go out, and we just really all got along well (So I thought). A & I are closer now, we get along well because we share the same interests of tattoos and butts lol. Well, B has been very short with me, and ignoring me completely sometimes it s really hurting me because I thought we were close. We d talk about tons of stuff, pretty much talk 24/7 when we weren t working. Currently he is talking to two girls, which I don t care because he can do what he wants, I honestly just want my friend back. I know it s nothing to do with my boyfriend, because he s very happy his friends and I get along so well. Why has my friend stopped talking to me?
Why did my friend stop talking to me?
I have a friend that I made at work. I am a man and my friend is a woman. She no longer works for the company, but we used to talk to each other a lot outside of work like on the phone and online. We weren't going out with each other. We were just friends. She used to call me up at home just to say hi. A couple of months ago, she stopped calling me and only talked to me at work. Then left the company and we really don't talk to each other anymore and I haven't seen her for a while. I do miss her. Interestingly, she pretty much stopped calling me and messaging me online when she got herself a boyfriend. Hmmm? What do you make of that?
My friends stopped talking to me, what do I do?
YOU ARE NOT IN THE WRONG. I am also about to be a sophomore and something kind of like this had happened to me and my tight knit group of friends. There were 8 of us, we were really close at one time, until i decided to cut most of them off, all for different reasons. One was a cumpulsive liar, one started rumors about the other girls in our group, a few were straight up two faced and would constantly talk about me. I just recently had to leave one of my closest friends b/c she would push me to drink/smoke when i didn't want to. Now i only talk to one girl from the remaining group, and she is my best friend. I am like you in the sense where i have not hung out with anybody this summer. it really sucks, but its hard to reach out to other kids in my town because everyboy has their own group. Ignoring you is a sheer sign theyre avoiding you. They're shitty friends if they dont want to hang out, cut them off and try to find better friends, at least thats what i'm trying to do.
My friend stopped talking to me?
Well in 9th grade I had this friend. She was really nice and gave good advice. Then one day she just stopped talking to me, for no reason. I know I didn't do anything to her. It's like she has an attitude or something. Then I was like well forget u then. I have other friends.
Why would a "friend" stop talking to you?
If you cannot pin down an event that caused the rift, it's usually their problem. Even if their problem is that they don't have the patience for your problems or time to dedicate to the friendship...One thing to ask yourself is how would you like yourself as a friend? Are you adding value or are you always talking about your problems? Now, there are those real problems and then there are those manufactured problems. I'm talking more about the later.I have had two friends chose to discontinue the relationship without any explanation over the past few years. It is emotionally confusing, I know. One of my friends just stopped. Nothing. She just stopped communicating with me and didn't join mutual friends in an outing to see me. I had to let it go. Although our friendship had value, I was pretty dang certain that I had done nothing to incur her distance or prompt this behavior. Confused as I was, I had to decide that my value as a friend meant that it was not up to me to chase her down or try to get a reason for her actions. We had a great time through the years of our friendship, created some lasting memories, and just like high school the time has passed.Another friend, and looking back on it she was more of a "friend", did not show up for me during the two weeks when my husband was in a coma and after he died. She'd talk a good game but was just so "busy". I do understand that death is difficult for people but it is especially difficult for the people who are losing a loved one. In her behavior, I was able to see clearly that we had very different understanding what friendship means. This one hurt. A lot. But in the end, it's all for the best because I feel so clear and respectful of my true friendships and my ability to be a friend. Ya just gotta let some people go. (and the drama along with it)
My best guy friend stopped talking to me?
From what i know, once a guy gets a girlfriend, she's the one who's supposed to be the best friend, the priority when it comes to friends, etc. I understand how you feel as once, one of my guy friends start dating, the friendship drifts away. I'm pretty sure he wants to avoid confrontation or the chances of his girl friend getting jealous. I don't think its you, cause he still emails you or whatever when he gets the chance. If he didn't wanna talk to you or something, he'd just ignore you at all costs. Guys act on gut feelings like that. But what it looks like to me, honestly, is that you might be putting a lot of thought into his matter (concerning the fact you typed quite a bit), because you still might have some feelings for him.
My friend suddenly stopped talking to me. What should I do?
It happens all the time with everyone at some point or the other. I have had friends, female friends, girlfriends do that to me in the past. All you can do is try to get in touch with them a few times and if they don’t respond after a few attempts ( Let’s say 6), you need to let them go and live your life. If they are not replying after repeated attempts you made to talk to them, that means, they are ignoring you for dead sure.!In these cases, you don’t have to feel bad, but good that YOU tried your best to get in touch with the person. You were the BIGGER man/woman who swallowed the insults and non-acknowledgement and still made an effort. If the friendship broke, it is not your fault anymore because you were the one who tried to stay in touch and tried to communicate. It is on the person who is ignoring to talk to you now, you did your best. Forget this person and move on. Keep your doors open for them to walk back in your life, remember, there is a difference between you and this ignoring person, let the difference remain, Stay CLASSY, but remind them of their behavior when they come back in your life.There are many, many people out there of all kinds of age, sex, race, nationalities and background that you can befriend . All you have to do is be a good, honest person with pure intentions, you be humble and the world will salute you!Good luck.
Why has my friend randomly stopped talking to me?
This has happened to me as well. I’m going to be blunt with the reasons.Their phone could be dead and they don’t have a charger.They could have lost their phone.They could be on vacation without service and have forgotten to tell you.They may not feel like talking/They might be in a rough place.They may be mad at you.Feel free to ask them about it. There’s no harm in doing that. :)
Many of my friends suddenly stopped talking to me. What could this mean?
It could be that you are evolving and your friends are not.Sometimes a friendship is a vessel that carries you through a period of time in your life, but not your entire life.Like the friend that you confided in during junior high PE class, or the guy from your basketball team that you talked to girls about, they served a role in the narrative, but weren't featured co-stars.The Mayflower got the settlers to the USA, but it was what the settlers did after that that mattered most. It wouldn't have been possible without that trusty ship, but no one was hanging around on the boat once they got on land.Maybe you've arrived at a place where they weren't meant to go.Whether this is due to a new relationship, a new job, or new interests - sometimes friendships will fade away.For me, it was a career move. I had to (sticking with the metaphor) “burn the boats” since I had this nasty habit of being a career flake and giving preferential treatment to my closest friends.I decided enough was enough.My friends responded as expected: “what happened to you?”, “did you disown us?”, and “did you join a cult or something?”But what I knew, and what I think is important to understand is that the best friendships can sustain these changes.There can be lulls, even long gaps, in communication with no permanent damage. The best friendships, the ones that are built to last, will survive regardless of your interests, your relationship status, or your geographic location.
My best friend randomly stopped talking to me. Why is this?
Something is clearly going on with your friend. It could be so many different things. But here is the bottom line: It is not just you with whom this is happening. It happens with a multitude of other people in her life. So you did not do anything wrong, and it is not about you. Your friend is unfortunately making some very poor decisions in her life, and you cannot control what she does. In instances like this, I find the Serenity Prayer to be helpful in soothing myself and moving forward:“God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.”You cannot change your friend, Only she can change herself. The only thing you have control over is what you do from this point forward:.. 1) Either reach out to her periodically, or stop trying to contact her. She will either respond or continue to ignore you. If she responds, ask her why she stopped all contact with you and let her know how hurtful this was for you. She will either change or she won’t. And you always have the option of continuing in this relationship or not. If it’s too hurtful for you to continue holding on, then let go and move forward with your life. Being rejected and abandoned feels rotten, but it happens to the best of us. Take care of yourself and rejoice in the other wonderful people in your life with whom you share love and happiness.