Why is it that no matter how hard I try, I still fail?
This question reminds me of a conversation between Bruce Wayne and Alfred from Batman Begins which goes something like this:Alfred to Bruce : “Why do we fall sir? So that we can learn to pick ourselves Up.”Lesson learnt : It's good to fail as long as you are ready to learn and rise again.Having said that, it's not always good to keep trying to succeed at something for infinite number of times when every time the the approach and the outcome are the same and the lesson learnt is NIL.So if you are failing at something consistently even after working hard then change your approach towards solving the problem. Get help from your peers if required.Problem cannot be solved with the same mindset that we created them with.
I can't get good grades no matter how hard I try?
Go to tutoring.
Nothing I do is ever good enough for my parents, no matter how hard I try. Help?
Ok, so I'm currently 13. I'm generally a happy person, but every time I get near my parents, they'll criticize me. It's not like I'm a bad student. I mainly get A-B for all my subjects, only ever C for swimming because I started getting lessons last term. I try my hardest all the time, stay up late for assignments, study for tests beforehand, never really cram, unless we're having multiple tests the next day. I do all my homework to a good standard, never had a 'chat' with the teacher. However, it's never good enough for my mum and dad. Did I mention they are Asian? Chinese, both of them. I'm not talking about "Oh, you failed a test, we're going to ground you for a week.", I'm talking about "You're grade went down in maths from an A to a B, you can't use the computer at all for anything other than homework, and we'll watch you while you do it, until you get back to an A." Also, what really annoys me out of my mind is that my parents never seem to realize when i improve, like if i get an A last term, and get a B this term, I get lectured, yelled at, and pretty much mega-grounded till next term's report comes back with an A. If I get a B last time, but I get an A this time, they won't say anything at all; no "You've improved." or "We're proud of you." not even a well done. I just get lectured for the B that I received. ======================================... If you didn't want to read my wall of text, you can just read this bit: ======================================... I try my hardest, am a good student, don't get in trouble, but my parents never seem to be satisfied. I can get all As and one B and they'll yell, lecture and ground me over that one B. I'm really cracking under all the stress of trying to keep all my As and push my Bs up to As. Please help me. I can't feel proud of anything I've done, because i can never manage straight As. How do I make my parents feel proud?
Can't get over this girl no matter how hard I try?
Me and this one girl were very in love for 3 months but never got into a relationship due to the fact her fiance barley broke up with her the week before we met. She said it was to soon for us so I understood the situation. I did everything I could to win this girls heart. But i noticed she started clubbing and talking to other guys so we got into an argument. We started talking a month later and she seemed like she missed me. She told me I was the sweetest guy she ever met and I wasn't going to lose my chance with her. We continued to be friends for months, we spent christmas eve together and it kind of felt she was falling for me again but still she would go out alot which would really piss me off. Until one day she told me we were never going to be nothing other than friends and she had been talking to other guys. I told her then we should just move on and never talk again, she got really mad and told me was so immature. Now we haven't talked for months but she usually comes back to me and I don't know why she does that, I don't understand why she won't leave me alone. I really love her but I'd rather forget about her forever because she really broke my heart. I date other girls and and try to hangout with them but anything I do I can't forget about her and I'm really scared if she starts talking to me again because I know I want to be with her but she'll just end up breaking my heart again. I have never had a problem like this with any other girl.
If every one was equal, would anyone try to achieve
Hopefully we Will get throug to these liberals ! Keep telling them the truth, thats all we can do !