Why do Black people have a bad attitude?
Yes, I know what many are going to say: Every race have people with attitude. And its true, we all can have an attitude sometimes but that's when we have problems, we are irritated ETC Now It seems like Black people have a bad attitude all the time, They always have something to complain about or something to say. But they always have an attitude. Why are they like that?
Why do most ppl have such a bad attitude?
People are people, but then remember it is these same people that pay you Thar wonderful salary. While people can be real sh. heads, it is part of what you were hired to handle. I think sometimes the sales force adds to the problem. I remember all the times sales people left me to twist my thumbs while they took the time to finish their talk or cup of coffee. I for one no longer accept this & walk out. If they then run up to me as I leave it is too late, I explain I am going across the street. Try putting up with crappy sales people at several stores, by the time you get to the next one you are ready to bite. On the other hand to watch some loud mouth make a a double s out of himself & when the sales girs turn to you with a smile on their face can make a person's day. No job is easy. REmember you are the one. WE can't function without. Always consider the source. Make sure you do not turn things aroud when you are the shopper; I have seen this happen! WE each have a little corner of this world & decide what we will do with it, but most of all how we act towards others is our choice. Like to sign this as someone who could use more practise.
Why do people have to have an attitude?
I understand your point... but it's all in how you react. People with an attitude don't phase me one bit. I never get riled up. If someone is being rude, I just say, "Excuse me, but please choose a different tone to take with me. You're current tone is hostile." If it doesn't work, I either ignore it or walk away. In high school, I got up and walked out of class. A teacher was getting riled up, so I said to him, "Excuse me, but your attitude is becoming abusive." This made him more angry, so I got up and walked to the principals office and said, "Good afternoon, I'm pretty sure I will have detention, so I thought I'd come in and tell you about it and sign up for it now so I don't miss any of my next class." I did not get detention. There are people like me who like to wind people up. I am always polite. I am always truthful. I am never rude and abrasive. I just have absolutely no problem calling peopel on their attitude. Sometimes they get embarrassed, angry, shy, sad, laugh, etc. It's always entertaining to watch. Thankfully, my husband has learned when I am just trying to wind him up.
How do I deal with people of bad attitude?
We all have habits, some habits are good or some habits are bad.4 Ways to deal with other's people bad habits1.Look In The Mirror - take time to analyze what habits you may have. You may be surprised to learn that you have same bad habits you are trying to address in someone else.2. Be Kind And Thoughtful - make it your mission to be positively constructive. don't destroy or rip apart someone when you address there bad habits. You want be honest, and you want to be Kind. Address other as you would want to be addressed.3. Offer To Help - overcoming a bad habits is not easy. A little help can go way long way in eliminating long held patterns in our life. Ask if you can remind the person whenever you seem them falling into there old habits. If the person is respective, you can ask them how they are doing when it comes to breaking their bad habits,4. Remove Yourself From The Situations - if the bad habits is irritating you so much and the person doesn't seem respective to change. You may need to remove yourself from the situation.
Why do people have attitude for no reason?
Your attitude grows through the way you think. Most people think in the wrong way. And lots of people think they are stuck in the past. So they copy what they learned in the past, especially in their early childhood. The way your parents think and behave as well as other family members, teachers, neighbors, etc. influences all of us.Most people live in the “victim mode”, they blame others, circumstances, the government, etc. for the way they feel.Most people are not aware of the way they think and behave. They all do what they think is the best way to live a good life. Even if that is behaving with an attitude that is not accepted in society. Like the ones with attitude problems.An attitude problem is a subconscious process, that is why you are not aware of it. Our conscious mind has no clue it is directed by the subconscious mind. A lot of people don’t realize this and don’t realize they can stop living on the “victim auto pilot”.You can change the way your subconscious mind rules, but only if you become aware (when you wake up and realize you’re not a victim) and are willing to learn and are willing to change something about it!What you yourself experience in others in my humble opinion is a mirror. Others mirror feelings and emotions to you, that gives you a beautiful chance to do something about yourself and grow, instead of being annoyed and/or irritated, angry etc. about the way others express themselves. An “attitude issue” in others might in this case be an invitation to become more aware of your own attitude.We can all improve and grow into more loving and caring people that take over control and say bye bye to feeling a helpless victim.Whatever happened in the lives of others is something that is in the past. We can all change the way we handle it and deal with it, but only if we are aware of it. These people with an attitude are not aware of this. You can’t change them. You can only change yourself and the way you live your life and treat others.
Why do people have a bad attitude, ego, and are arrogant?
Well it all comes down to how the person thinks about stuff( himself, the world etc.)When people have ego or arrogance most of the time they (like to) think their better than others in someway probably due to insecurities & past experiences. However there are cases where a person is delusional about stuff which is a disorder but most of the time its just insecurities and stuff.Bad attitudes on the other hand have lots of csuses it can be how a person is raised, the people he grew up with or past experience. Some people choose to have bad attitudes to shield themselves cause they were hurt in the past and they build these walls to keep other people off as the saying goes "hurt people, hurt people"
Why do most people have a bad attitude on yahoo answers?
Because a lot of us have been treated unfairly here and the yahoo staff is totally unresponsive to our needs. I call this place YaHELL.
Do YOU have a bad attitude?
No, I get aggravated but I'm not a grouch. Some people are blunt for good reasons, like telling someone who needs the criticism how it is, when no one else wants to do it. People who care about what others think of them like to put on a nice persona so leave the critiquing to those who won't care about the back lash they get from people who think they are being rude. There's a difference between being blunt and straight forward than just being a complete jerk. Krazy Libra