Why are people so sensitive?
Either they or many other people they know seem to careabout the most trivial thingsok?Also issues with products, the fact that organically also have gmo, the fact that gmo has caused more allergies, the fact that beauty products aren't all natural and that whether you believe in global warming or not, you better know pollution is fucking real or you may be a nitwitmore people having sex and babies, germs everywhere, issues with cleanliness, more babies with disease and disorders,if you believe making one meme on the internet can get you killed, well in reality it shouldn't but there are crazy sensitive fuckers out there (could be issues form childhood or abuse or issues with relationships and circumstances)those are the physical and mental aspectsalso, some dumbasses believe one ignorant statement makes the whole person ignorant (which is the cause of bullying and internet trolls) they are biased only searching for confirmation bias and are making stereotypes and don't realize they are judging people
Why are some people over sensitive?
I find that some (not all) hypersensitive people lack coping skills, (never learned to detach or how to process rejection) and have a belief that the amount of sensitivity they demonstrate (like worry, anxiety) is some offer of “proof” (or validates to themselves) as to “how much they care”.They also tend to suffer from massive insecurity that often result from a dysfunctional home environment and being exposed to constant chaos/drama (like living with an alcoholic or addict) that erodes their confidence and often causes co-dependence which is also a relationship disorder..They look to others for their needs to be met and to “bring” happiness to them, not realizing it’s an inside job.These behaviors can be unlearned…but it takes much time and effort not to mention willingness on their behalf. I personally limit my involvement with such people..because they tend to drain me emotionally . Too much sugar is more harmful than a vitamin deficiency.
Why are LGBT people so sensitive?
We can't say anything remotely bad about them. We have to carefully word our thoughts, or else, we're deemed bigots! So sad that we are silenced to the extent where we literally CAN'T SAY ANYTHING!! We used to be able to say "f a g".......now it's a term gays and lesbians have decided to claim as a slur.......we can't use d y k e anymore......and now transgenders have stolen the word "tranny" to become 'transmissions in motor vehivles?!?! first gays cry about not being able to get married.......now we business-minding heterosexuals have to endure the everyday battle of transgenders wanting to use OUR RESTROOMS?!?!?! OMG SERIOUSLY! Like let us hetoersexuals live our lives and raise our families.....the whole world doesnt revolve around you.
Why am I so emotionally sensitive?
Maybe you could go to a therapist. It has worked for me. Just to vent to someone you dont know and they wouldn't judge you and give advice if you want it. It may take a few to find the right one for you. I personally went through 5 of them but my sixth one was wonders. They studied mental healthness and etc in school so they should know some exercises to help build up self-esteem. Self injury, I know and completely understand that (used to do it) For it, you have to try to find something to do instead of that. Turn the music loud, whether speaker or headphones and if its speakers just scream the lyrics, or scream into your pillow. You know what I mean. It does relieve some of the anger and pressure inside you and if ya do it good enough, you'll be thinking about your throat getting sore instead of thinking of your feelings lol. If you have something you really enjoy doing, maybe that could help. I draw. Maybe go out for a walk, just get out of the house, get away from whatever you use to hurt yourself with. Tell a friend you REALLY need to talk or just need them to be there. You CAN get pass this. I used to be really sensitive. Once I started getting not so depressed, I could tell myself, "It was just a joke, whatever" or "You know what, I dont even like that person so why SHOULD I care what THEY think??? F*ck them!!" I try to get myself in a "f*ck everybody, I dont give a sh*t about you" mood when somebody affects me emotionally. I really recommend maybe trying to find a good therapist or just someone you can talk to really. I hope some of this helped you because I do honestly know where you come from. And if you'd like, email me if you want to talk, I'd really like to try to help you and will help as much as possible. :) unwrittenlies@yahoo.com
I am a very sensitive person, small things bother me a lot. And then my mind keeps thinking about those petty issues for days. I want to be a stronger person who doesn't get affected by irrelevant things. What should I do?
I don’t know if anyone already has told this, but what I am about to tell works like a charm for me. I was also a very sensitive person and now I’m proud to say I came out of the sensitive circle.All I did was started forgetting, yes you read that right, I started to FORGET things. We forget a lot of things in our day to day life. Why not apply this to our problem and come out of it?But this came with a bane for me, I started to forget almost everything. I needed more practice to stream what kind of thoughts to be forgotten.I come from a lower middle class family where securing a job after degree was the top priority in order to help the family. But to my fate, I lost three golden opportunities from world class companies because I was sensitive and whined about the lost opportunities and did not concentrate on another. This bothered me a lot and that is when I decided to change myself into a stronger person than I was.How did I just like that forget things? My single shot on helping my family was taken away and how did I just like that forget? I’m a movie addict and watch a lot of movies, tv series and such.This may sound lame to some, even my own family thought I lost my mind as when I had to concentrate on getting a job than watching movies in my computer. But it helped me ease my mind and let things go. I watched comedy movies, laughed my heart out and stayed out of reality for a while. I came out fresh after a months time, and started looking for a job again and got one.What I’m trying to tell is being sensitive about things and thinking about it not only is a waste of time and energy but also an anchor pulling you down from moving forward.Everything is in our own mind, contemplating, confusing and achieving is all in our hands. Pick out what you want.Enjoy this life carefree. Y.O.L.O !Cheers.
How can I be less sensitive emotionally?
I get offended easily and I always think that things are my fault when something goes wrong. When someone says I don't care to me about something I really do care about, it makes me want to cry. Sure, they might just be a mean person, but still. I honestly don't take any type of criticism well. Not even constructive criticism. I always think that people are yelling at me when they raise their tone of voice. I tend to bottle my feelings up a lot and I don't really have a way of getting them out. I have depression and I might be bipolar. Idk. But I think that I need help not being so sensitive about things. If people were nicer, that would help a lot more. Some things just make me want to cry like a baby they offend me so bad. Please help? How can I change? Thanks so much! Oh, and sometimes I think I'm just too nice to people... If that helps.