Should I trust my sister?
Ask yourself whether she's actually what u can call "a sister"? I'm sorry but the answer is no! I think you can make her think differently by displaying how much you love her (even if its just for the objective of stopping her hatred/ jealousy towards you), gift her little things often with sentimental notes declaring how much you love and trust her, talk to her very often about things she likes, you can cry and tell her about some things that are disturbing you (if u HAVE to, u can fake it, anything imaginary can be the supposed problem), you can also pay her compliments about her looks and all that stuff, that way you can make her feel guilty about what she's doing and you can make your way to her good books.. Nevertheless, do not trust her in sensitive matters!
She lied to me. Should I trust her?
Treat her like a friend or move on?Why don’t you do both?Treat her like a friend and move on!Because let’s be fair, she didn’t lie to you. She just hid something from you and not just you, she hid it from other friends as well. And not just her, your friend didn’t tell you about it either. And it’s their decision to make. We don’t know anything of their relationship.In fact she told you the truth to avoid any further misunderstanding.So now you have 1 important thing to do which is moving on. Whether you want to remain friends with her or not, depends on how comfortable you are with this friendship. Based on this event, she seems trustworthy to me at least.
How should I trust women?
Trust is always a risk. This is a harsh truth but it’s better to understand this now than have it pushed into your face later. It doesn’t really matter who you are or who the other person is, what the laws and customs are, or anything else. Whenever you place your trust in another human being for any reason you run the risk of them not living up to their promises because all people are fallible, every one of us.What’s called faithfulness in marriage is supposedly best supported in restrictive cultures that place great merit on it and provide for negative feedback from friends, family, and neighbors. Marrying and living within such a culture is no guarantee of course, and you must also consider your own situation- how likely are *you* to stray? Such cultures also place many other restrictions on both women and men that you may find onerous- the punishments for straying can range from public shaming to public stoning or you having to kill her. Do you really want to live like that?Barring that, you must consider your ability to forgive. Personally, I was a bachelor until I was 40, and then I met the woman I’m still married to after more than twenty years. Before we were married I told her that I would not stray from her, and that I could forgive one instance of her straying, but not two. Within a month of our marriage she slept with her ex-husband once and immediately came to me in tears and told me about it, what a huge mistake it was, and that she didn’t want us to break up. I forgave her as I had promised and she hasn’t strayed since- as a keen observer of behaviors, I would know.Also, I should mention that she considers me to be a better man than her ex, comparable to her first husband (who died). Women don’t stray from their husbands for the same reasons men stray from their wives, you see. If you’re clearly a better man than the others she might run into, you’re locked in. Can you be the man a woman won’t even think of straying from? For that matter, can you look at other women and truly believe that you’re with a better woman? That matters as much as trusting her.
If I can't trust my girlfriend, what should I do?
I faced the same situation sometime back but I developed trust over time. I would say it's okay if you don't trust her but don't let her know that you have trust issues and don't tell your mutual friends about it.if you think she is a pretty and you can't find someone better than her and you are insecure then DON'T GET SERIOUS ABOUT her , NO I AM NOT ASKING YOU TO BREAK UP RATHER PRETEND THAT YOU ARE LIKE A NORMAL BOYFRIEND BUT KEEP IN MIND TO NOT FALL FOR HER UNTIL YOU START TRUSTING HER AND YOU ARE SURE THAT SHE IS SERIOUS ABOUT YOU( and you are not her time pass boyfriend)Trust me , If you fall for her and then things go the wrong way it will be very hard for you to cope up with Break up.
Should I trust my girlfriend with her ex?
My girlfriend of one month, we have spent tons of time together. She asked me if it was okay to stay in contact with her ex to support him after an accident he had like 6 months ago. She was in love with him and said she was no longer. She had a semi long distance relationship with him, there are tons of sexual innuendos on her facebook page from him in the past year. She says they have never had sex, and she has only had one sexual partner before. I brought up how I didn't believe her, and she got upset and we talked alot about it. Saying how I need to trust her and not accuse her of things if we are going to have a good relationship. I just want to trust her, I don't care if she has had sex with 10 guys but I wan't to know she isn't lying to me. I am wiery! Should I be worried about her staying in contact with him? What should I do, she knows I am not okay with her talking with him, but I eventually said she could. Do you think she lied about her sexual past? Thanks
Is my girlfriend a cheat or can I trust her?
Dude it is easy to advise but hard to act on it. I think it is happening to you the first time. That is why you are ignoring the red flags and hoping that every thing will be alright. This is what will happen to you:She will string you along and you will keep on suppressing your gut feeling, thinking may be its you who is having negative thoughts. But once your girl finds a better man (she is already searching) , SHE WILL LEAVE YOU. You will keep on chasing her until one day she cuts off all communication. You will lose all of your self-respect and confidence. But if you are a man with a lot of self respect, you will cut off communication before she does, and she will try to have you both as long as she can, her lover and you.Once she leaves you, you will come to know the truth. You will get what we call experience. And then from that moment on you will never let any one do this to you again.But if you really want an advice, here is what you should do:Be tough. Define your boundaries. If you do not like what she is doing, you warn her once or max twice. If she resists, leave her and find someone else or find something real to do. If she comes back apologizing, do not forgive her straight away, keep ignoring her. If she keeps on apologizing every day for three days and you feel that she really loves you and made a mistake, you can forgive her.If she is just seeking attention, she will try to apologize but it would be a half apology and you will be able to feel it. Do not fall into her trap and do not forgive her the first time she comes back. This is what most females do when they are testing men, and believe me women are better than men when it comes to relationships.
How can i prove to my girlfriend that i trust her?
So i have trust issues cuz i've been screwed over by so many friends and girlfriends. So if a guy hits on her i get really jealous and she notices and gets so sad and it bothers me cuz she says i don't trust her. i do trust her but idk how much i'm not going to tell her that i don't trust her though. can you think of anything i can do? i really think this problem is going to mess our relationship up.
My girlfriend lied to me. Do I trust her?
My girlfriend and I got into an argument one day and I went home when her friends arrived at her house. After thinking about what I said and how much I really love her, I couldn't go to sleep with things the way they were. She told me she told her friends to go home after I had left and that she was at home. So I decided to surprise her by going back to her house and apologizing with some flowers. I parked outside her house, got my flowers and leaned against my truck waiting for her to come out. I called her on her phone and she said she was busy baking with her mother right now and to call back in 10 minutes. As I was waiting, leaning against my truck, I see a car come down the street and stop right there about 30 yards away. I couldn't see who it was because of the headlights. The car then pulled closer and my girlfriend got out and her friends ran inside her house got their stuff and then left. She tried to walk up to me as if nothing had happened. She lied to me about where she was and what she was doing. I know she was just with friends, but what if next time it's another guy? Why does she not understand the severity of lying to me about what she was doing, who she was with, and where she was? Can I trust her ever again?