Why does he keep flirting with me if he says he just wants to be friends ?
He is a type we call “a player”. What he is trying to do now is see if you would be willing to be his side piece and a provider of “friends with benefits.” He has no true interest in you, otherwise YOU would be the girlfriend that he buys gifts for, takes out, and worries about. Make sure you understand this game he is playing. Don’t get caught up. Tell him to stop disrespecting you like he’s been doing, and that you used to think much more highly of him but now he has shown himself to be ratchet and trifling. Make sure he knows you are judging him, and that he has come out on the bottom end.
Why does he flirt then ignore me?
I knew this guy for almost a year but now i'm starting to like him. We are both in 10th grade. He is so confusing tho. One day we are in class, major flirting and hugging. then the next day he totally ignores me. This usually happens when hes with his friends And this keeps happening over and over again. but its only been a month of school. A couple of days ago when we we're hugging he was about to kiss me but the bell rung so he didn't. Does he actually like me or is he just playing with me? And why does he ignore me sometimes?
He doesn't like me but flirts with me?
so, my guy friend and me had since the summer until like october or so, and then it kinda started to fade away a little, why? i don't know. i just know i still like him, and he knows it, i've told him numerous times. but, the thing is, i've heard from his best friend that he doesn't like me like "that" anymore, and that kinda crushed my heart, and he said he told him about a month ago that he doesn't like me anymore. but, my crush still always flirts with me. he'll playfully hit me, tease me, bump into me, make fun of me (kiddingly) smile when he talks to me, and just always flirt with me. and i know it's not just how he talks to girls he's friends with, because with other girls, he just acts like a friend around them, plus last year, we were really close friends, and he NEVER acted like he does now around me. and all my friends notice how he flirts with me, but its making me so mad, because him flirting with me makes it harder for me to get over him. but i don't get it, if he doesn't like me, then why does he still flirt with me?
Why does a guy ignore me one minute and then flirt with me the next?
There is a big chance that he is playing it “Hot n cold” with you. The meaning of being hot and cold with someone is to be flirty around someone for a day or so (heavily) and then to totally cool off the next being very distant, ignoring you, mean, etc. or suddenly to shut you off from himself. All this behavior is to play with your mind, mess with your emotions, etc. and make you wonder why he did this and chase him more than he does to you. Usually guys who do this are playing mind games with you and aren’t as interested as you think they are to you. These kind of people like attention, but don’t like commitment. They let you chase them but when you stop, they flirt with you again and then shut you off and then run away from you as you chase him again once more. These guys aren’t even worth your time. They think that playing mind games with a lady is a way to get her attracted to him, but that’s not likely the case. It is very annoying, a very immature game, and a big turn off to all woman who know these types of games that some guys use on girls.One thing I would suggest you to do is to run away from this guy. He is trying to mess with your mind, and I’m sure you don’t want that. Find a guy that is genuine with you and his feelings. Find a guy that is willing to admit that he likes you instead of playing dumb games. Guys that don’t play those kind of silly games are the ones that are worth your time.Goodluck!P.S: There is a song related to this by Katy Perry if you know her.Katy Perry - Hot N Cold (Official)
This guy stopped flirting with me?
If he has been flirting with you all this time and he does not feel you are being receptive to his advances most likely he will back off or just give up. Guys dont like rejection and if has been trying to flirt with you and be with you he was hoping you would show some interest otherwise he is freaking out inside and feeling like a loser. Know what I mean? The best thing you could do in that case is come out of your shell a little bit and return the flirtation. Smile at him, touch him in some small way. That will melt a guy if he really likes you, Also,, if he has been flirting and not getting a response he expects and he happens to see a pic of some dude, most likely he will think you are dating him and back off. Moreover, If you like him then you need to flirt back,,. and feel things out so to speak, Unfortunatly games are part of being single and thats the bad part about it all, Good luck to you and I hope I helped.
He said he doesn't like me but he still flirts. I get it, but my friends think he likes me?
So i like this guy. We go to high school together for the performing arts. All of our other friends go to their zoned schools, so we've become very close friends. When he was at the movies his "friend" texted me from his phone saying it'd be cute if me and him h/u(the kiss kind) and stuff. When he "found out" he said he didn't like me like that. I was perfectly okay with it. But he still flirts none stop, and he told me he loved me "as a joke". Usually at lunch a few juniors come over and he talks to them, but today he ignored them and stuff for me. We always sit next to eachother, and we text a lot. Everyday he flirts more and more. And everyday we text more and more. He said he doesn't like me and told one of my closest friends he only like me as a friend, but he doesn't stop flirting and such. What do you think!?
Why does my crush act like he likes me but then flirts with a different girl?
You’re not his girlfriendYou’re not exclusiveYou haven’t shown your interest by asking him outAnd he hasn’t shown interest by asking you outLike does not mean he will date a girlSo he’ll flirt with other girls until he either find his balls to ask a girl out or a girl makes it easy for him to do so. A guy and girl can be attracted to many girls and so they be checking out different girls.As for a guy liking a girl…..it doesn’t mean he will date the girl. It’s like a girl….giving a phone number to a guy….means nothing until something happens i.e. dating etc.If you like him, then show interest which means you need to show vulnerability or another girl will be dating him -and - if that happens, don’t worry. When young, guys and girls move from one guy to another like rabbits :)Yes, rejection can happen but that’s life.You’ll learn early enough if you don’t go for what you want, whether it happens or not, you’ll just be an….observer.