My best friend makes me cry, what should I do?
Lately, my best friend has been hanging with this girl "Sydney" and it bugs me because she ignores my text and my real words. Sydney is a good friend of mine too, but we don't hang out every chance we get. So I was talking to "Karina" my so what called best friend in school and she just brings out this angry attitude and says, "Shut up you aren't the boss of me" when I was giving her nail advice. And I think it is childish she acts like that. What got me upset is later on that day I deleted something on a game and she got angry at me and it wasn't even hers! I told her the guy told me to delete it but she didn't believe me. Karina asked the person and he has a thing for ruining my friendship and said I was lying. I told her I was being honest, but she believe some random person we don't even know in real life over me. She started texting me saying how I'm such a "Great Friend" (she was being sarcastic) and calling me a liar. I started telling her I was being honest and saying she was hurting my feelings for not believing me. She just started me ruder and it started to make me cry. What should I do? I don't want to leave her because then I'll be lonely. Am I over reacting? I'm just devastated because she won't believe me. Please help me.
Have you ever seen your best friend cry?
Well not really in person to tell you the truth, it was when I was away for 3 months and then she started missing me
My best friend makes me cry...?
I know this is going to sound really dramatic and stupid, but I'm gonna say it anyways. So I have this friend "max" who I've had a crush on for over a year. So anyways, I also have my best friend "kate" anyways so I kinda brought them together and ever since Kate has met max, she has been going totally boy crazy over him. She always talked about "OMG max is soooooo cute OMG he hugged me today you should've seen how long he hugged me!!" And I just tried to ignore it. This went on for a few months then I finally told her I liked him and she was like "k" and then she continued to act that way towards him!!! He really couldn't care less about it. She would touch him every chance she got. It killed me because whenever I was talking to him one on one, she would come in and totally throw me out of the conversation and I was left alone while she would go flirt with him. I finally broke down and told her that it bothered me and she didn't even care! She just continued to act that way. She always brags to me about him. I've literally cried over this before. Multiple times. I don't know what to do. What should I do? Am I overreacting?
How do you make your ex-best friend cry?
She is being a really BIG biotch to me and I wanna get her back. She almost made me cry so I wanna make her cry. I'm not trying to be immature but I'm REALLY sad and it just seems right to get her back. Please help. I have blackmail on her but idk.
If my best friend is crying, should I hug her?
It entirely depends on the depth of the bond you guys share with each other. Since she’s your best friend , and i assume so are you , you both do not hide stuff from each other. Now when you call her your best friend , you pledge to do every possible thing to make her smile and end her sorrows. Hug,Holding hands, Back tap , Shoulder grip etc. are physical gestures which trigger an aura of comfort in the mind of the receiver with reference to the the person who is providing the physical input.If she’s crying , she’s in a vulnerable state and she really could use some comfort , be it in any form i.e. from listening patiently to her endless rants to wiping her tears or from scolding her on a bad decision to talking to her regarding the issue. If this involves a hug which can make her feel better and as long as your intentions are clean , GO FOR IT !!!
Is this normal for me to cry, when I miss my best friend soo much?
me and my best friend been upset to each other for couple of months now...I apologies to her...we are giving each other some space....I miss my best friend and her daughter alot...I have been dreaming about them alot..at begining I didnt have dream about them and now I do...I sometimes when I say Many, I end up saying Mandy...or when I talk to my other friend I say my best friends name instead of my other friends name...what can I do? does the dream mean that I will hear from them sometimes? She is my best friend of 5yrs and she is like a sister to me...I care soo much about them and I did something wrong and I regret it for what I did and dont want to lose her...Is it normal for me to cry everytime I think about them and I miss them alot? I pray and focus each day and hoping she will speak to me again....we are 25yrs old..
If my best friend is crying, should I hug him?
Try giving his arm or shoulder a squeeze - or gently stroke his arm. See how he reacts.If he seems ok with this, you could give just a brief hug and then go back to keeping a comforting hand on his arm. If he turns towards you during or after the hug, I feel that would indicate he’d like more.It’s nice that you are sensitive to what would actually help your friend - he is lucky to have you : )
I made my BEST GUY FRIEND CRY!!!??? Help!!!?
He really hurt me because he is back with his ex girlfriend...in ohio and he went out with her a day after a talked to me...and we have liked eachother for a few months and he just went to visit his family and friends in ohio and he left last sunday and i talked to him last saturday and he went out with his ex on monday so it took him a day to get over me...and he was going to call me when he got there and i finally talked to him yesterday and he told my friend that he had a gf and my friend was freaking out because he and i were going to go out when school started (9th) and just yesterday he told me that he just wants to be friends...and he acted like it wasn't even a big deal and i should be just fine...so he called me today and i told him how much he hurt me and i told him that i don't want to be as close of friends as we were and he couldn't live with that he started saying how much he needs me as a best friend and other stuff like that...and he ended up bawling his eyes out..cont
Why doesn't my best friend comfort me when I'm crying but says “I'll always be there for you”? But then says that she doesn't want to be in the drama that she made worse.
Crying makes many people feel uncomfortable and frustrated. When your friend doesn’t pat you on the head and say, “There, there, it’s alright”, that doesn’t mean she isn’t sympathetic. It may just mean that she doesn’t know what you want from her.Saying that they will “always be there for you” probably means that they are willing to help you resolve whatever the problem is. But, if you’re expecting a gush of sympathy and pity, that may not be something they’re comfortable with. Your friend may think crying over something isn’t a very effective way to solve a problem, so they may not have much patience for your tears and self-pity. They may want you to be more proactive and figure out what can be done.Your friend’s comment that they don’t want to be involved in the drama isn’t surprising. Most people really try to avoid other people’s drama-rama. This is especially true if they feel that you haven’t taken any steps to fix the problem. You said your friend made things worse, but that may have not been deliberate. They may have been trying to help and it didn’t work out as they hoped.My take away from this is that your friend probably knows that you blame them, in part, for what’s going on. They may wonder why you’d expect them to get further involved, if the end result is that you place the fault on them. They are probably frustrated that you can’t seem to solve the problem. And, they may see your crying as an attempt, by you, to manipulate them. They may have no interest in “comforting” someone they think is engaging in immature behavior.Your friend is not responsible for your happiness, you are.