Why do people get married so young?
Am I the out of touch one? I don't want to get married until I'm at least 30, but I met some of my old friends and their marriage shocks me. I never thought some of my class mates would get married so young. Why would people get married so young when the divorce rate is 1 out of every 2? And not just the couple's who have kids on the way either... I mean is it me, or does it sound like I just not felt that strongly about someone yet?
An excuse to leave a friends house when bored?
If you have young siblings, tell her you need to babysit them for your parents. If you have a job, tell her you need to get to work. Or just tell her the truth, that you've seen a lot of her over the weekend and would like to go home for some alone time.
Ex bf, "friends with benefits" hasn't called in 3 days?
Call and check on him at around March 30 when he may be lonely if he's your poison. Try to have someone else you can casually date by then so he doesn't feel pressured. After he found out that you didn't cheat, but told you that you will never be together again, that means he didn't toss you due to the cheating. You freaked him out when you told him you always will love him. Have "fun" if that is really what you want to do--but at 21 you can get a sugar daddy to spoil you and dote over you. Don't ever drool over guys. It's not worth it. Guys love confident self-loving girls. I'm 31 and WISH I knew at 21 what I know now!
Why doesn't my husband introduce me to friends and co workers when we are out in public?
My husband used to do the same thing. He thinks that because I'm an adult, I should be able to introduce myself. I pointed out to him that it's impolite, and he still didn't get it. I kept pointing out, and he's gotten better, but he still gets engrossed in a conversation with a coworker and I'm standing there smiling like a monkey, not knowing who on earth this person is. Consider the passive/aggressive approach. Next time the opportunity arises, wait until you have something to contibute to the conversation, then after you make your contribution, say "I'm Mary, Jim's wife, by the way. Apparently my husband has forgotten his manners". Or the humerous approach "My husband apparently thinks I work for the CIA and he can't reveal my true identity! "I'm Jim's wife, Mary." Or the "embarrass the crap out of him" approach: I'm Mary, by the way. I've told Jim a thousand times how rude it is to not introduce me, but I guess he's never going to learn any manners." Or the "you asked for it, you deserve it" approach: "I'm Mary, Jim's mistress. If you see his wife, don't tell her I was here". Maybe if you explain to him that its not just uncomfortable for you, it's uncomfortable for his friends to not know who this person standing next to him is, or if they figure out that you're his wife, to not know your name.
Why is everyone rushing into relationships? ?
I'm sixteen and all my friends are losing their virginity. Yeah- we're teens and that is when most lose it, but damn. I have a friend that is always teasing me because i'm like the only girl in our group that is still a virgin. It is a n n o y i n g. I am not a whore. I prefer to find someone that i love before having sex, damn. I am only sixteen. I don't date the football team and their brother's either. I am single until i find someone who is kinda perfect in my eyes cause i'm not looking for a week long relationship that is a waste of my time, i'm looking for a companion. blah blah blah Either i'm wrong, or my friends or right. --i'm a shallow tease, or my friends are sluts-- haha no, but honestly,... i wish this friend of mine would leave me alone ]=< any opinions? [= thanks guys