What is the worst thing someone has done that broke you?
When I was in junior college, I had a great group of friends (or so I thought). Only one in our group was married, and I was very close to David and his wife.One weekend while she was out of town the group was hanging out at David’s house, swimming in the pool and drinking. No harm in it, we were planning to sleep there. I went to bed in the guest room, and woke up with David on top of me. His hands in my pants and stuffing his tongue in my mouth.I managed to get away without anything else happening; I still don’t understand how without waking up anybody else in the house. The next morning David showed up at my house; I refused to open the door and told him to go away and never come near me again.I did not go to the police, because back in the 80s blaming the woman was still quite common and after all I had been drinking.I did not realize that my disappearance in the middle of the night did not go unnoticed. I found out later when my other friends asked where I was, David told them that I left after I threw myself at him and he turned me down. He claimed that when he went to bed, I was in his bed naked waiting for him.With the exception of two people in the group, they believed him. I thought and treated these people like they were my family. The fact that they thought I could do that, when I was still a virgin and they knew that totally destroyed me.I became very nervous and jumpy, scared of my own shadow after that. It took several years, and a black belt in Karate before I found my way out of the shadows.Interesting enough, almost 10 years later, (by then I was in the military and living in Japan) I ran into David again. He had also joined the Navy, and lust my luck he was stationed on the same base. He was with his wife, and when he saw me he actually had the nerve to approach me. He told me that he thought we should let bygones by bygones, and be friends again. I stood there for almost a minute just staring at him; inside I was shaking like a leaf. I took a deep breath, and told him that if he ever, EVER came near me again I would beat the crap out of him.I never saw him again, but I felt much better after that.