What does it mean to change your life?
Changing your life means changing your mindsets.There are many things we have no control over in life. Yet a lot of us [falsely] believe we do. I can’t control what other people think, do or say, death, natural disasters, what family I was born into. I could go on, but I think you get my point.You know what I can change? I can change how I look at things, my perspective.Beliefs about ourselves are typically formed through our past experience and the conclusions we make about ourselves during those experiences, good or bad. But who’s to say one belief about ourself is more true than another?The direction of our lives always follows what we believe. So, if you want to change your life, change your beliefs. If you don’t know what you believe, well, look at your life. If you believe you don’t have what it takes to become a business owner, you will most likely never own a business. If you believe nobody likes you, well, that’s probably what you’re experiencing. Like a ‘self-fulfilling prophecy.’We need to have a foundation on who we believe we are, because if my identity changes based on what I do, I’m constantly going to be hustling for my worth based on my performance + what people think of me.See, the key is to adopt the mindset of a child again. Children aren’t afraid of the ‘what ifs’ in life; that’s probably not even a thought in their mind. Even when children fail, they don’t beat themselves up over it, they try something new. They continue to move forward.If we could just take a step back and realize that we don’t need to prove self worth, we would open ourselves up to take way more risk, experience new things and follow that dream that has always been inside of us. We would save ourselves a ton of worry, stress, anxiety and competition. Because if my identity doesn’t waver based on what I do and other people’s judgements of me, there is so much more freedom for exploration and discovery.So, back to the question “ What does it mean to change your life?” To me, it means living from a place of confidence, that my identity has zero strings attached. Once we can learn to accept ourselves for who we really are, our lives will begin to transform. We’ll actually start living.
What does it mean when someone has impacted your life?
It means they have made a significant difference for you personally. For example, I might say that my parents have impacted my life tremendously as they have instilled in me the values that I now have.
I feel like my life has no meaning?
I feel so down, like my life has no meaning. I try to do nice things and I've done a lot of great things this year (although some really bad stuff happened as well) but I feel like it all doesn't matter because my life is useless anyway. It's not going anywhere and I'm afraid that any changes in the future will only be negative. I feel like I have nothing to offer to the world and the world has nothing to offer me. What can I do to make myself feel better?
What does it mean to see someone who is alive to be dead in dreams?
I am answering this question on the bases of the knowledge gained from the many old people's sayings so I will be just conveying whatever I heard from them and it depends on you if you want to believe or not it's up to you only.According to many people with whom I came into interaction with this kind of discussions almost every one of them told that if one had seen the death of someone who is alive than it is considered as a good sign.Some of them claimed that it extends the life of that particular person. Some people say that it's going to be the beginning of good times of that person all his/her problems or struggles are going to end & it's starting time of gaining all results, fruits or profit of hard times.I hope I answered this question well up to the extent of my knowledge.@Milind Audichya (मिलिंद औदिच्य)
What is the meaning behind the number 22?
For the past few years i have been having a lot of trouble decoding the meaning of the number 22 in my life. I feel like it is an omen of some sort when i comes up or a warning to me. For example there have been numerous occasions where the number will come up around someone i meet and the i always find that i should have stayed away from them! Or if im making a decision about something and that number comes up it always means stay away and i always wish i would have listened - these experiences are much to pronounced to be ignored. What should i make of this?
What is the meaning of I am very set in my ways?
is this positive or negative and does this work in relationships. I've overheard a lot of men use this term so I thought I would ask to see what others believe it means and if anyone has been with anyone like that. thanks
What does it mean to take things in stride?
It basically means to relax and not try to MAKE things happen, but to let them happen organically. When you take things in your stride you move with the ebbs and flows of life and build on your knowledge and skills in the process. You don’t overreact; you consider things logically and from all angles before considering a response, action or reaction.Many people believe that the most successful people just “take things in their stride”, slowly gathering skills, information and developing coping mechanisms and informed opinions to use for their betterment, and very often for the betterment of others.It’s basically people saying, “yeah, this person’s got it all figured out, they’re not gong to do anything stupid anytime soon”.
What to do when you OFFEND people without meaning to?
Many people in my life are extremely sensitive and I feel like I have to walk on egg shells around them. I often say things that make them upset *without* even meaning to! And I have a TERRIBLE time even understanding why they got upset. For example; if one of them asks me what I'm having for dinner, I could say "I don't know, we'll see when that time gets here" -- they get all upset and think that I was being rude! But this is not rude in any way! I dont want to keep offending them without meaning to, but I feel so cramped that every little thing I say and do makes them upset. What the heck can someone do in a situation like this? :(