Why would my ex kiss me?
It's very simple sweetie, she still feels for you. Being friends after being together is realllllllllllly hard. The feelings are still there and it's hard to get out of habits like calling each other names like hun or babe. Maybe take a little break from seeing her. Obviously there's some type of hope in her that you guys may get back together. You need to make things as clear as possible for her. Whatever you do, don't have sex. That will make it sooooo much worse. Hope it helps!
Why did my ex unblock me again?
I am assuming that you have been doing no contact with your ex and he/she has unblocked you.QuestionsHow do you know that your ex has unblocked you?Has your ex contacted you after being unblocked ?Now, the question you must be wondering why? It's funny how human beings are because we always want what we can't have. Your ex unblocked you because they are wondering what have you been up too. As human beings, we always want to know what is our significant other is doing right now. They might be wondering are we doing well or feeling terrible after the break up. Most people would immediately try to contact our ex and try to rekindle the past( reminder: please don't do it). When they unblock you, it doesn't mean they want to get back to you. Time has passed and he/she wants to remove some of the barriers. Worst case scenario they have moved on and your presence doesn't effect them emotionally. That's the worst feeling of having an ex being indifferent and having no feelings towards you.What you should do?Changing your mindset - look at it this way, they have finally broke some wall barrier and it shouldn't affect you in any way. Have a mindset of having a whatsoever attitude and don't give a damn. This is important because they can block you again and you will go through a roller coaster of emotions again of why did they block you.Going no contact - maintain no contact with your ex until they reach out to you via personal message/ direct message. If you broke up with your ex, do the honor of reaching out to them in a calmly manner. If they like/ comment your social media. It doesn't mean anything and you shouldn't react to it.If they reached out to you - do not bring up any issues of the break up from the past. Treat your ex like you are meeting a new person for the very first time. Keep the conversation short, light , with some humor and make plans to meet up with your ex. Try to make her smile and bring he/she emotional state like how you meet before. That's was the main reasons why they had fallen in love with you. Hope this helped you.
Why would my ex be mad if i got a tattoo?
Because it's an outward symbol that you're moving on (without him) Why would you 'care' what your ex thinks ??
Why would my ex contact me out of the blue?
Maybe because they want to talk to you, get back together, vent out, even booty call! There can be zillion reasons for contact but you can only get to know it by interacting with them if you want, ignore if you want peace and calmness.You two must have spend some time together, must have gone through ups and downs so usually during low times we tend to contact those people with whom we were comfortable to have some support. That can be good or bad which can be either way depending upon person to person.Some people just want to have a conversation for the old times sake, nothing more but they don’t realise or take in account for other person’s feelings or state of mind, which can be selfish.It is important not to suppress your feelings altogether and it is equally important to avoid terrible arguments or expressions of outrage, so if you expect an unnecessary session of scrimmage, then its better not to answer or dial an ex’s number.If your ex is trying to rekindle the died romance then its totally upto you according to your circumstances, I would just say one thing - “Reconciliation is a two-way street”.We don’t chase the person instead all we are doing is chasing the memories and only emptiness is there to claim, which hurts more. After breakup people change, some in a drastic way but in heart we want to relive those moments with that same person, do all those things which we may or may not do today.We can’t control other’s actions but we surely can restrain ourselves from doing something which we would regret later on, so if an ex is contacting then its highly recommended to avoid, because if you are in a fragile state of mind then all it takes a call to make to it worst.
Why does my ex still wear the watch i got him?
He has other watches, and everytime people i know have seen him they've told me he wore the watch i got him I don't think it's because he still likes me because he was the one that ended it. Although i'm in a new relationship so could jealousy be the reason? I'm just so confused, i'd never wear the necklace he got me
Why would your ex ask you how is your love life going?
There could be several reasons for this and without knowing your ex's personality or what caused the breakup, I can't really say which of these applies, but here are some possible reasons: 1. Good guy reason - he may legitimately think that the other guy is good for you. He may be happy that you have moved on and wants to vouch for the guy. 2. Guilty reason - if he broke up with you and you are still talking/trying to be friends, then he may be feeling some guilt about the breakup. He may be encouraging you to date the other guy so he knows your happier thus relieving his guilt. 3. Lingering feelings/Keeping options open reason - your ex may know the other guy well enough to know it's not going to work out so he's encouraging you to go for it. He would do this for one of 2 reasons, first, because he may still have some feelings and isn't sure he wants to let you go, or second, to keep you as an "option" if his current life doesn't go as planned. 4. Bad guy reason - similar to the above but for a different reason, he may know that the other guy is not good for you and just doesn't want to see you happy. There are plenty of other reasons, but again, without knowing him, it will be impossible for anyone here to tell you why he's doing what he's doing. I know from personal experience that it's generally not a good idea to remain on speaking terms with exes. Feelings for each other ususally don't get turned off and I have a feeling that you probably still have some feelings (bad or good) about your ex which is why you are asking this question to begin with. It's really hard for exes to be "just friends" unless they were really good friends before they started dating.
Why would an ex want your attention but ignore you?
When “Ex’s” do this, it usually means they are experiencing internal conflict in regards to leaving you. Them seeking your attention, regardless if it is positive or negative, is due in part to the immaturity resulting from said internal conflict. My advice, ignore them! Focus on yourself or someone else (if you are at that stage). Immaturity is a contagious disease and misery loves company.
Why would my ex boyfriend ask my friend how I'm doing?
Because you are apart of his soul. You were intimate. You shared the deepest part of each other with the promise it would work. You tried. That’s all anyone can ask, but the obstacle course of desires and pragmatics left you walking on different paths. It doesn’t mean he wants to get back together. You want that. Unless, the person who left makes a grand gesture, assume that the break is now status quo. People have to change a lot if the outcome would ever be different. Relationships have to be comfortable to survive. You can’t be someone you are not and neither can they.
Why is my ex blocking me and unblocking me? Why does he continue to play this game?
There are dozens of possible motivations and reasons for this behaviour, and without being him (and I wouldn’t even count on that— some people have a habit of hiding behind denial about their own motives, so even they can’t recognize them), it’s hard to say why your ex is doing this.One thing we do know is that breakups seldom bring out the best in people.I’ve seen people do this blocking/unblocking behaviour because they wanted to make sure they stayed on their ex’s mind, and this is a very calculated and fairly reliable way to do that.I’ve seen people do it because they’re genuinely conflicted. Reading their recent partner’s social media posts sometimes feels too painful, but then they start pining for even a passive digital connection, so they go back and forth.And these are merely two of many possibilities.There’s one thing most-to-all of these motivations have in common: they’re all signs that there are toxic bonds between you and your ex (on his side at least, though in my experience, they often exist on both sides of a collapsed dynamic).You might think of this as a sign that it is really not healthy to be in each other’s lives right now.I wish you the best of luck as you try to heal from this relationship. May your future growth astound you.