Who would marry me?
With the world's population heading to 7B! Chances are high that someone somewhere will of course be interested in you, these are some of the tips to consider:Expand your social network, start visiting places where you are likely to meet people you'd like to associate with, the places can be churches, clubs, etc, just make sure you hand with nice people and don't look too much desperate and hungry for marriage, play a little bit hard to get.Attend some social events and gatherings, like weddings, it is likely that single people attending a wedding will likely be interested to get married at some point, exchange contacts.Networking, network, your network is your networth, it is likely that someone will be interested in you.Online dating, do not be afraid of doing it, just ensure that the first date is in a public place and early enough to allow each of you go home before dark, try as much as you can not to kiss on the first date.There are many other ways that Quota community will help you on…be interactive.
Would you marry the same person again?
Without a doubt! Whether it is in this life or any other.You might find my answer banal but I feel that my husband is my soul mate and I would give everything to marry him again.We had a love affair for around 8 years and have been married for 7 years. Our love for each other has just grown with every passing day. We respect each other’s space and take care of each other and our families. My husband works in the hospitality industry and has long working hours. He gets a day off on a weekday and I have my weekends off. We do not get much time with each other, but we go out of our ways to spend time with each other. We love talking to each other, share our work stories and give and take each other’s advices. He is my best friend.We have had our share of problems. We have been through layoffs, family’s health issues, etc. We have been unsuccessful in having a baby so far and are going through a tough time (never imagined how emotionally stressful this process can be) but these challenges have only brought us closer. Sometimes, we think that it might be ‘just us two’ for a long time but never does this thought makes any of us sad. We feel that we are so blessed to have found each other that we cannot afford to feel sad for anything.And moreover, in my 32 years of life, I have not found anyone who I could imagine spending my life with.I have found something real - the love that makes everything hopeful. I do not want to ever let it go.
If no woman wants to marry me, then does it mean that I am completely useless worthless man?
Do not make marriage the Sun of your life. There are many other sides to life. Marrying is not a compulsion, I don’t know when we Indians will understand this. We human beings do seek companionship, but it may not necessarily come from a life partner. Your passion can be your companion too. Moreover, here, in your case, ‘women not wanting to marry you’ is not the major issue, the problem here is the way you are thinking about yourself. Just because a few women do not want to marry you does not mean you are a worthless man. Please, do not think like that first of all.Respect yourself and change the way you think about yourself. Love yourself and everything will start falling into place. You must be happy you are not getting wed-locked with a woman you are not meant to be with. Gather yourself, find something else to do and one day you will find the right person. Give life some time.You are a man and there are a lot of things you can do other than setting marriage as the criteria of your abilities.