If 7th house lord in 1st house marriage will be inter caste? how to analyse that marriage will be intercaste?
Sree vasuastr...is right in its simple terms Never the less in short & as illustrative To cite : just as example , Jupiter and Venus: In female chart Jupiter represent husband and in male chart Venus represent wife. . Fifth House: Fifth house represent our mentality and love affairs. . Seventh house: Seventh house shows one’s married life. . Ninth House: Ninth house represent religion and luck. This is what you would see to judge “religion” in this context. . Saturn, Rahu and Ketu: These three planets indicate the separating influence in the chart. They represent the foreign element that we should be looking for. Based on the above, : For males, Venus should be afflicted by Saturn, Rahu or Ketu. In charts of females, Jupiter should come under separating influence of Saturn, Rahu or Ketu. : Fifth or seventh house should be afflicted by Saturn. Saturn in fifth house has a special influence and significance on inter religion marriages because from the fifth house, Saturn’s 3rd drishti would be automatically be on the seventh house. : Ninth house and its lord should be affected by Trik bhavas and their lords. Since one is going “against” his/her religion, there should be some bad effect seen on the ninth house. Additionally, ninth house should be afflicted by Rahu/Ketu. : Seventh house and its lord should be connected with a debilitated planet or Rahu/Ketu. According to Jaimini System, the planet having lowest longitude in a birth chart is called Dara-karak graha (planet representing wife). This planet should be afflicted by Rahu/Ketu or Saturn. 8 th house plays a major role in unconventional marraige. if 8 th is afflicted by malefics (not only rahu but malefics as per lagna and natural both) and does not get any beneficial effect, its dispositor is afflicted also or holds in his sign any planet which is related with rahu then also this occurs. Again we should not forget 7 th house, his lord and aspects of all kinds on him. The navamsa here again gains a very major role. If navamsa also has rahu in the 7th or afflicted with rahu or a malefic then also it gets blemished and gives intercast marraige. etc, etc,
How to convince parents for intercaste marriage ?
Actually I am in very deep love with a girl of other caste,she also loves me a lot. actually her parents are not ready at any cost, bcoz problem of intercaste is there, my parents will agree but no one on helping me at this point. what to do I am helpless. No relative is helping neither mine nor her. please help.
What do people think about inter-caste marriage?
1. If you want to convince your family of an intercaste marriage, please take help here: 5 Tips to Handle Intercaste Relationships. Having said that...2. Castes are man-made divisions with no (bio)logical basis at all. Hence..3. Intercaste marriages, at a fundamental level, are exactly like all other marriages. 4. In fact the more intercaste marriages take place the more it benefits the society because...5. Children of intercaste marriages are bound to grow up with an open and tolerant outlook.6. However in India intercaste marriages usually suffer heavily from obtrusive opposition from the families (at best, and whole communities at worst) of the couple. 7. If you're in mortal danger from your family, please contact Love Commandos - an Indian voluntary organization providing support, shelter and legal assistance to intercaste couples fearing retaliation from families.
How should I convince my parents for an intercaste marriage?
Inter caste marriages are a big thing in India. You can never be sure how exactly will your parents react to it. Most parents are conservative in this area and it is little use worrying about what will happen and how will you do it.You are not ready right now. You have a career to focus on. Make yourself strong mentally and emotionally. There will come a time when you will realize that your parents are only doing this because of their own fears and that is nothing to do with you. That it is their responsibility to deal with their fears, not yours.Refuse to marry someone else when the time comes. You will have to patient as it may take time. You will also have to recognize emotional blackmail and avoid it from disturbing you. For that you have to focus on your career as well as strengthening your relationship right now. Only when these factors are in place will you be at least eligible to marry, let alone convince your parents.You can also use lines like these."I thought you always wanted to see me happy. Are you sure that i will be happy with the one you choose for me?" " My partner is the only person in my life that i have the chance to choose. Please let me make that choice with your love and blessings"" I will always support you and will not leave at any cost since you are important to me, but my significant other is important to me too. Don't force me to make a choice between the people i love.""I am not asking for your approval on my partner, only your support to let me be with her.""Will that society come to save me if i am unhappy in my marriage?""Since you won't agree for divorce if i am unhappy, why don't you let me marry the one i love in the first place? "There are many more lines which you can make up but it all boils down to the fact that making a choice of partner is your right. Don't give it away at any cost, not even for the people you love the most in this world. If they truly love you, they will support you, no matter what.Thank you for the A2A.
How do I convince my girlfriend's parents for an intercaste marriage? I convinced my parents after fighting for 1 year. Now her parents are saying no and are forcing her to marry another guy. She loves me but doesn’t want to go against her father.
Convince your girlfriend that her parents don’t need any convincing. You are both adults and can decide whom to spend your life with.Your girlfriend’s parents can say no all they want but the point to note is she values her parents approval than you, the love of her life. Instead of standing up for you, she is playing victim to her parents’ emotional blackmail. This will not change after you get married.Why would you want to marry someone who can’t fight for you? What is she afraid of? What is the worst that can happen?They won’t attend the wedding. Won’t pay for the wedding. Will not offer help when she gets pregnant.If that happens, IT IS NOT THE END OF THE WORLD. Irrespective of what our culture and movies have brainwashed us to believe, it is perfectly fine to have low contact relationships with one’s parents after one grows up.Moreover, your gf’s parents are not your problem. You don’t have to convince them or plead to them. That is your gf’s job.In case your gf understands the above argument and is willing to put you on top of her list of priorities, here’s what she can do:Your gf needs to change her emotional tone in dealing with her parents. she should inform her parents of her decision to marry you and give them the option of either supporting her and being part of your lives OR being butthurt and cut off from your lives.There are only 2 options. There is no middle ground. Her parents cant legally force her to do anything. Involve the authorities if you must.
My parents are not agreeing to my intercaste marriage. What can I do?
Isn't it great when someone else feels your pain? I personally know at least half a dozen couples who are/were in similar relationship as you. I'll suggest them the same which I advised them.Tell your parents openly that if you love someone else, it doesn't mean that you love them less. They've taught you the meaning of love and passion. How can loving be bad if you learnt if from them?Society will always say something or the other. Even if I marry a girl of your choice, someone will be saying one thing or the other.If you don't agree to me marrying this girl/boy, I won't. I respect your decision and truly believe that you have my goodwill at heart. But in that case, please understand with clarity that I won't marry anyone else. I won't be able to commit or justify my relationship with anyone else and there is no reason why they should be cheated out of an honest relationship.My culture and my religion starts and ends with you. Never have you taught me discrimination. Then why do you think that her caste is more important than what she actually is? Do you mean to say that just because of my caste, I am inferior or superior to someone?These points of debates should be carried out with utmost calm mind, I'll suggest when you are having intricate discussions with your parents.
What are the problems faced by women in inter-caste marriages? My parents are not allowing me for an inter-caste marriage. Am I self centered if I want this?
I have seen lots of successful inter-caste marriages and unsuccessful arranged marriages.Anyone on this Earth is human first and than he/she is Hindu or Muslim or whatever label you wanna stick.You are doing right thing. There is nothing wrong in it. Do not afraid of doing what is right.You can convince them by giving them examples of other successful intercaste marriages. You will find lots of stories online if you search.If your parents do not allow then ask them to give some reasons why not inter-cast. I am sure they will be convinces if you argue properly and politely.NO, YOU ARE NOT SELF CENTERED.
What does Islam say about intercaste marriage?
Marry whoever you want to marry. Don't let these narrow-minded, intolerant people stand in the way of your happiness. They only want you to marry a Muslim so that you can breed more Muslims. That's what this rule comes down to...same as the rules for Christians marrying only Christians or Jews marrying only Jews.