My friend said that I'm socially awkward?
I have always had a problem with friends who say things like this. You mention she is saying these things "out of her good heart," but I question her lack of tact. There are some things one simply does not say to another person. To label you "socially awkward" is ONE person's opinion. Saying something weird or feeling weird in certain social settings is part of the human experience. EVERYone says goofy things and feels out-of-place at various times. You are not unusual --- is what I am trying to say to you. I am sorry you went through that time of depression. That has got to be difficult! Still, you sound as though you addressed it and came to terms with it. [I hope you sought medical care (meds & counseling) during that time period.] School is a weird time! Are you in high school? Please, know that it is a struggle for MANY people. You are transitioning from your late teens into young adulthood, and that is an enormous challenge for ALL people. Again, you are not unusual. Please, do not allow one friend to label you in this manner. One or even a few flubs or goofs do NOT make you "socially awkward." And please, do not label yourself either! You are not a weirdo! I have a feeling you are very intelligent, and I bet some of what you are experiencing is simply "growing pains." Cut yourself some slack and relax! I wish you well.
Why Am I So Awkward Around My Best friends?
SORRY FOR MAKING THIS LONG! I REALLY NEED HELP. 16/f .. I've been called an awkward person in general whenever I'm around people i don't really know.. But for some reason, i feel really awkward around my best friends. I think its because whenever they tell stories, everyone laughs except me cause i didn't find it funny.. then when i tell stories its like "cool story bro.. :| " They even make fun of my stories.. and not in a good way. I'm always the joke killer too. And apparently i always sound sarcastic.. Also whenever i try to make a joke like "YA MAN! IM SOOO PRETTY !!!!!!!!!!" like as a joke, my friends are always like "shut the hell up.. you know you're gorgeous.. its not even funny to joke like that" But when my other friend does it, everyone's like "HAHAHAH GOOD ONE!!!!!!!!!" .. i dunno. i just wanna feel accepted. I'm just so awkward. And i suck at telling stories I always mess up and stutter and can't pronounce words right.. Its even come to the point where i feel like my presence is not needed in our group... I love them and all, they're a great bunch of girls but they always make me feel like I'm retarded. I'm constantly referred to as "that one friend that's brunette that should've been born a blonde" (NO OFFENSE TO ANYONE) Please.. how can i make things less awkward? I'm just trying to be funny.. Its not my fault, i can't make myself less attractive just to get someone to laugh.
Why do my friends say I'm awkward?
They could mean that you don't talk very much or you're very quiet, so moments they may have with you may be awkward. Meaning, it could be socially uncomfortable to be around you. You could try opening up more to people, telling jokes and finding subjects and things to talk about ... keep your conversations flowing. Try not to have awkward pauses or quiet moments, and if that were to happen, try to bring something up or, if you can, excuse yourself and leave
Why do people think I'm awkward?
When people say you are awkward what they are saying is that you tend to act differently than the majority would act in a given situation. For example, odd body movements during conversation, laughi at inappropriate times, off the cuff responses, or the inability to seem relaxed in a non stressful situation. If this is something you would like to improve start being mindful of how those around you are behaving in comparison to yourself. Or just say fuck it and be yourself.
What Do You Think Of Socially Awkward People?
Hey - you have taken the first step to not being a Socially Awkward Person!! Whoo Hoo! Having been one - I UNDERSTAND. But I got some great advice. The most poignant advice was that being shy was being SELFISH! Gee - I didn't want to be selfish! I was just feeling that whatever I had to offer wasn't enough - or wasn't welcome. But I was wrong. Everyone has something to offer of their brand of humanity. There is a place for each of us. The first step is empathy. Understanding what another person is going through. Next is to understand that what you are going through, is not very different from anyone else. That is the BIG breakthrough. Certain people may have "all that", but in reality, it is all an illusion. They still suffer from "lack of acceptance" and even in some cases the suffer from not measuring up to what acceptance they have! Some of the most successful people have mentioned how they do not feel worthy of the acceptance they have received. But sometimes that is how all of us feel about the love they have in their life. But really - love is there for each of us. Acceptance is there for all of us. It it just a matter of us recognizing where the love is. So - what is your next step? Step out of the box you have put yourself in. Experience life without any expectations for once. What if you did say "Hi!" first, to the people you meet. Guess what - they might be surprised - but they will also be delighted. Keep doing it and you will find yourself in more situations then you have been in the past. Now you are going to see, first hand, how people interact with each other. Be the observer, but also you need to be the PARTICIPANT! This is how it is for each of us. We take one day at a time, and in particularly sensitive moments, one second at a time. But the number one goal - SHOW UP. At least be there to experience life, first hand. That is your obligation to your SELF. It came into this life, as a unique soul, and you have that obligation to be sure your SOUL is present in this life, as a loving, caring individual. Peace be with you.
Why am i socially awkward around my friends all of a sudden?
How old are you? I think this is common in teen agers or pre teens, as they become more self conscious and worried about what others think about them. I wouldn't worry that it's just you either, don't put yourself down like that. My advice would be to just be yourself and don't worry too much about others. Maybe you need to find some new hobbies or sports to share with your friends, or maybe it turns out that you just don't have a lot in common with your friends and you need to join a club or group an meet new friends who share your interests and passions. I sometimes feel like this with friends that I see all the time. Sometimes we've just run out of things to talk about. The following web site has some good advice too.
Told my friend I have feelings for her, now it's awkward?
I recently developed feelings for one of my best friends. I'm 15, she's 16, I'm a sophomore, she's a junior. I told her flat out almost immediately because I didn't want to be tempted to take advantage of my closeness with her (we used to pretend-flirt and cuddle all the time), and I told her that preserving our friendship is more important to me than starting a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship with her. So we agreed that it wouldn't come between us and we wouldn't let it get awkward, but it has. We still joke around sometimes when we have classes together, but not as much as we used to. There's a rift between us that wasn't there before. Part of it is I feel like I need to give her some space, but she doesnt bring up any of our inside jokes anymore and I don't think she trusts me like she used to. Why is it so awkward now, and will the awkwardness go away? How can I make it go away faster? I don't really want to be frank with her about it, so how should I act around her? A girl's opinion would be nice here. Thanks:)