Can a girl tell honestly about her past physical relationships to her future husband?
It is not easy, especially if its an arranged marriage where you donot fully know your spouse. Strategy my wife used is to reveal things in instalments. I got to know something was there between her n her ex when he wrote messages on her fb page and when I found her testimonials on him in Orkut page. When asked she initially denied it and said he is just friend. Later revealed that he proposed her during first year but she said hey both were best friends. Later she said due to his repeated requests she accepted his love but nothing physical. Later she revealed that they used to meet in parks where he used kiss her lips and that's all. Fe months later she said one fine day he suddenly grabbed her breasts and pressed them in passion, once only. But later she agreed that he used to enjoy her breasts in parks and she used to give him handjobs. Finally she revealed they made love in her home when they met for combined studies. In the end I got to know they mated ffor abou 68-70 times . But by the time I got to know this we are 3 yrs in marriage and blessed with kid. I started lovingher ignoring her past.
Would it be disrespectful for my husband to tell me another woman is pretty?
Everyone is different so this is going to be a very case by case kind of question however to make it more general let’s talk about what’s most important in a relationship and that is Communication. Say it with me Com-mun-ication. Now you might be thinking what does a Simpsons character know about love and you’d be right absolutely nothing, I can’t feel it. I am imaginary, however I do know how important communication is. If I had communicated to Homer Simpson how much I loathed him instead of being passive aggressive I may not have had such a tragic ending to my cartoon career, but I digress.Only you can decide how it makes you feel. If it makes your personally uncomfortable then if he cares about you enough he would understand that you don’t like it and should refrain from doing so. It really depends on your relationship and also how you personally feel about it. If you know it would put you into a “jealous rage,” best tell him not to do it and he should be able to respect your wishes. However there are also people who that kind of a comment doesn’t bother them at all and if your one of those people then there is no issue. Truly what it comes down to is communication; specifically communicating how you feel about a given situation to your significant other.I’d say to all boyfriends that it’s better not to do that, they should be making their signicant other feel special not less special.
Why do men and some women, seem to condone and accept a married or committed man viewing pornography?
I am not married. But I have to say, I agree with you. Coming to this answer board, and reading some of these answers, I come away thinking marriage is all about cheating, lying, porn and threesomes...the "whatever feels good at the moment" attitude makes me sick. And people wonder why the divorce rate is so high. I am not trying to be some "holy roller" or anything like that, but honestly, if you marry someone, do you not promise to "Forsake all others"???? Do people even know WHAT THIS MEANS???? It doesn't just mean keeping your dick in your pants!!!! Geez, screwed up society.................
Can someone help clear up my confusion about penis size and women's size preferences?
The average penis size is somewhere around 5.5 inches, yet it seems that most women find that 7 inches or more is ideal. Everyone tells me that the vagina is only 4 inches deep and that the g-spot is 2 inches past the entrance. Conversely, I'm also told that large penises can poke the cervix and cause vaginal tears, which would seem to be very painful. However, when most women talk about penis size, they say things like "the bigger the better" and that if all things were equal, they'd choose a well-endowed guy over an average bloke. So what is the truth? As a man with a small to average sized penis, I'm very confused.
Who can tell me why abortion should be legal?
These are all old arguements. A fetus is not a human being. That's why it has a BEATING HEART 18 days after fertilization, and BRAIN WAVES 6 weeks after fertilization. Abortions cannot even be performed until after 6 weeks. So this fetus, with a heart that beats the same as any human being and brain waves that support brain activity (yes, even-- gasp! thinking) just as every human on this planet... well, it's just a tissue. No value. No purpose. 'It' should be given no chance at life. Even if this 'fetus' that miraculously becomes a human being (just like magic!) after it leaves it's mother were given the chance at life, it might as well be dead anyway, since it could be born into poverty. One less human being overpopulating this planet. Good riddance. So... tell me, all you intelligent people out there, who is the one forcing their views on others? Oh, and by the way, if you've done all your 'research', have you bothered to 'research' how abortions are performed?