Do woman reach a certain age, when they are more Horny??
I dont know if Im at my peak or what... but lately Ive been HORNIER than a devil. I have a friend but he lives 400 mi away and have not been with anyone else (although I fantasize) and although he is 10yrs old.. it is usually a satisfying visit. Im very picky and cautious and cant be with just anyone... so I am suffering tremendously!! ugh!!!... oh yeah guess what ( I am a consultant, so I have the TOYS, just prefer not to use them) So should I get a "Friend with Benefits or what" ??? Any woman that have gone through this???
Men in their 30s, 40s, or 50s, how would you react if a reasonably attractive woman approached you in public and asked if she could buy you a coffee? Would you think her to be too forward, be offended, or accept the offer?
Katherine Waff Morris requested my answer to this question and I think it's an interesting one.If I were single, of course the ego part of my masculine brain may be tempted by the offer, but I would certainly ask the reason for the invitation before making my decision. Is it a sales pitch? A religious pitch? A mistaken identity? Or did they perhaps find me attractive or interesting and wanted to get to know me better? If I were not in a hurry to be somewhere I may very well spend a few minutes engaged in pleasant conversation over a latte or cappuccino.As I am not single, again my heterosexual male ego would be highly flattered, but unless it was for a professional reason; I would politely decline and inform the lady in question of my reasons. If we suppose that it was because the lady found me attractive and this was her motivation, one could still argue that I had no such intent so where's the harm?For me the harm would be “How would I feel if my wife received the same offer for the same reasons from a man (or woman)?” Probably not too happy. I trust my wife and she trusts me, but why even put one’s self into a potentially compromising position regardless of intent?I know that the “coffee” would be just that. I know that I would be under no obligation to tell my wife, but out of respect and honesty I would. I would feel too guilty not to. Even though I had done nothing morally wrong, we all know that I should “know better". An analogy would be the “foot massage" conversation in Pulp Fiction. Everyone knows it was no reason for Marsellus Wallace to throw Antoine off the balcony…..but everyone understood why!Would I be offended? No. Of course not. I would be flattered that someone considered me worthwhile to make the offer.Would I be shocked that a woman made the first step? No, of course not! This is 2018, not 1818.Now, if she offered both my wife and I out for a coffee………..?
What is to be done if a woman is seen in public with her skirt stained with menstrual blood?
I have faced similar situation in my 2nd year MBA days. It was during a class presentation. I was always a last-bencher in my class, and my friend, with whom this happened was sitting just in front of me.She was wearing a yellow kurti(top), and just when she got up to give her presentation, I noticed blood stains on the chair she was sitting on. I wanted to shout, but somehow kept calm because the class was very silent and lousy. Immediately I saw her from backside, and her yellow kurti was stained in blood. By the time I comprehend what has just happened, she was already in the front giving her presentation. I sat crossing my fingers thinking what would happen if she turns back. Fortunately she never turned her back while speaking to the class.In the mean time I put my handkerchief on the chair so as to hide the blood stains. Once her part in the presentation was over, I told her to look her phone, where I messaged her to come to last row from the sideways, hiding her back from everybody as she was bleeding. After reading my text, she was fully embarrassed and couldn't look into my eyes. When she came to the last row I gave her my sweater to tie around her waist. She went to the professor and asked her for leave.While leaving she saw my handkerchief on the chair and started thanking me. I told her to go to the hostel first and give me a thank you treat in the evening to which she happily agreed.Later, the burden of treat fell on me because I got my job call letter on the same day. And we have met and spoken several times after that but never any awkward point has come in our conversation.The point is, as one of guy friend told me once - menstruation in women is as normal and natural as nightfall in men. We make these things a big hoopla because of our myopic vision and knowledge. Let us not overthink about such trivial things. We have bigger concerns in life such as job, career, money, relationship, family and what not.
My GF says she loves me but acts differently. Could it be our age difference?
I'm early 20s, she's mid 30s and fairly new to America. We've been together for a year now and at first I thought she acted the way she does because she didn't know how serious I was about our relationship, but here we are a whole year later {(living together 7 months) working together 3} and she's still up to no good... She's sooooo friendly and fiirty with other men whether I'm around or now and even though we've talked and argued about it many times she always says "I understand I won't do it anymore" yet she continues... She's super fury jealous if I even look in another woman's direction, but she thinks it's ok to laugh and lean on other guys and make naughty jokes.. All day everyday she preaches why and how much she loves me but she has so many other men in her life.. Her phone gets more attention than I do ... Love or nah?
Granddaughter is 3. Has alopecia areata. Any suggestions/information?
A couple of years ago, I had a bout with Alopecia Areata. It was the worst months of my life. Unfortunately, there is not a whole lot known about it other than that it is an autoimmune disorder (meaning that the immune system is out of whack and thinks that the hair follicles are something to be gotten rid of like a virus). I am now in remission and have been for 2.5 years (knock on wood). The course of treatment that I had was injections of steroids into the bald spots and a topical steroid treatment called Clobetasol. During the last 4 months or so of my bout with it, I also used a shampoo called Folicure (can be found at beauty supply stores or Sally Jensen Beauty Supply to be specific). I continue to use the shampoo every couple of weeks or so just to make myself feel like I am doing something that could possibly prevent it from coming back.
How would you react if a 14 year old boy pinched your butt?
I'm a woman in her mid 30s, single and have no kids of my own. I'm told I look very "hot", and "beautiful" especially my butt, and I often wear my black spandex to show it off. I rarely wear something long enough to cover it. As a liberated woman, I feel no shame in dressing like this, and ignore the prudes and fashion police who say this is "wrong". However, a few days ago as I was walking back home after taking something to the dry-cleaners, I felt my butt being pinched. I turned around and saw this boy(he told me later he was 14) who took off like the wind and I started to chase after him. I'm a fast runner so I eventually caught up with him about 4 blocks away, and gave him this lecture about why what he did was wrong and disrespectful; it doesn't matter how a lady dresses, and I don't dress like this as an "invitation" to have my behind pinched, and that he should learn to respect others privacy. Although he at first said "why do you have to dress like that?", he seemed a little embarrassed, and he said he was sorry and I accepted his apology. He told me I am very beautiful and told me twice that I have the most amazing butt he ever saw and I thanked him for the compliment, but again I warned him to stay out of trouble, to which he warned me "don't dress like that if you don't want the attention". I told him again "It has nothing to do with how I dress, you'd better learn some self-control. Do you want people to think you're a pervert?". I told him he'd better stay out of trouble and left. I have to admit that I was flattered by a 14 year old finding my butt irresistible, but still, what he did was wrong. Is this how you would have approached this? I will not stop dressing like this just because of this incident or similar incidents. I hope he got the message that this was wrong.