Crossdressing is a way of life for some men/boys???
Well, you can always wear a mid-length denim skirt with hose with a polo shirt, hoodie or jacket depending upon the weather no matter where you go. The trick is to blend in with the public. A guy in a skirt is not all that uncommon, so get out there and have fun ! I can say I've done very well out and about with any problems in a mid-length solid denim skirt. Remember, be polite and courteous and above all be YOU, be yourself. Help others, let people help you, you never know who's mind you are suddenly going to change or when a lady will actually come up to you and compliment you on your style and ask where you got your stuff so choose what you wear appropriately -- solids work best, nothing Ru Paul fancy or flowery for guys in skirts, please. People will come up to you from time to time and ask questions, most will be very nice, some will giggle and others will have idiotic commentary, but they are few and very far in between -- ignore them, they uneducated idiots. Be yourself, be nice, always answer questions in a cordial, friendly way. If you're a guy in a skirt, there's no need to alter your voice to the feminine, just be you. Being fun to be around will do a LOT to help both yourself and others like and I be accepted as we are in public...have fun and enjoy your freedom, cheers ! :">
Is the grass always greener on the other side when it comes to relationships?
I am the same way. I have been in relationships where I was happy but not 100% satisfied in one way or another and although I got along with them and loved them, I was always looking at other women wondering if I would be happier with them. Don't blame the guy you are with..he is nice to you, funny and smart but most importantly...he loves you. It's not his fault you feel this way. Love is not easy to find these days and he is the person you decided to form a relationship with so there had to be something there from the beginning or else you two never would have been together. The issue is with you. You are probably not satisfied in other parts of your life and are always thinking about changing one aspect of your life or another eg: moving to another state, finding a different career etc. My guess is that you are either the youngest or an only child (email me if I am right). I am. I suggest you move away from committed relationships for now and only date people casually. Be up front with them and tell them you don't want to settle down because you don't know what you want. Have fun and enjoy it until you know that you are finished looking. You may never find someone who meets all of your criteria of the perfect man and the sooner you realize that, the happier you will be. My guess is that people like us never change. We will always look for something better because that is just who we are. My only advice is to learn to quiet that voice in your head and remind yourself that the person that you are with could be thinking the same thing about you.
What does "the grass is always greener on ther other side of mountain" extactly mean?
In the UK we say, 'the grass is always greener on the other side.' Never heard the 'otherside of the mountain' bit before - interesting. It means that no matter what you have in life, what someone else has always looks better. Soo imagine a goat in a field - he has green grass all around him, but the goat in the other field seems to have lusher grass and so he will go over to the field to have what the other goat seems to have....but when he gets there he will realise it is not as he first thought and look back at his old field and think, 'hey - the grass was greener over there - look at them all having a good time.' and will want to go back. Lets say you have a married man who looks at his single friends and thinks they have the better deal - so he leaves his wife to have the single life again, but then realises it is not all he thought it was, and he begins to miss the stability and comforts of home, and wants to go back... Basically the saying is means that things might look good somewhere else but that is not necessarily true...because from the other side, what you have might look pretty good to them. LOL the more I try to explain it the more confusing it seems to get! I shall stop now before I give everyone a headache!
I do not believe that this man loves you. Because I even more strongly believe that this man does not have the ability to love anybody but himself. If he did, he would not have been consciously lying to his wife AND children for 2 whole years. Love, be it romantic or not, entails respect, and he’s not showing a single bit of it. Love is to care about the people being a part of your life. It is honesty with everybody, not only a selected amount of people that he gets to choose out of his sole convenience. I also do not think that he is sincere with you. He plays that honesty card you mentioned not out of deference to you, but to avoid responsibility (like all cheaters do). That way you won’t be able to blame him of anything since he informed you about his “situation” from the beginning (aka his rules) and you decided to play along nevertheless. He’s told you what you needed to hear, he’s shown you the right façade for you to fall in love with him. Sadly, that does not mean that he is the way you see him.Even more, he does not love you because if he did, he would not put you through the struggle of being the other woman and feed you crumbs. True love is selfless, therefore you want the best for the other person, even if that means to let her go. He could not bear not being with you 100% of the time, but yet he’s been doing it for 2 years. It is too long for not being with someone who makes you feel like never before; too long to keep you in the dark, too long to lie to his family, to not act on his true feelings… Decent, honorable men could not stand such a situation for that period of time, guilt and shame would eat them up. The urge to do the right thing would be stronger than their immediate personal satisfaction. Only selfish cowards with plenty of issues could do what he’s doing.Finally, he does not love you because if he did, you would not be asking it here on Quora. When you’re loved, you just know.I apologize if I’m being too harsh but I hope that you will save yourself from further pain and run away from this toxic person. You deserve better. Wish you the best!
Like the famous rock song. "Girls Just Want To Have Fun". Many girls are open to dating just to get out and about. To date is an opportunity to do something and often use someone money other then theirs. Many know what they are looking for but choose to be less then honest in the dating game. It is a game or dance around the truth. Men are less focused and just want to get laid and are not suitable mates to begin with. The women sort through all of us and find the one they want to commit to. Sometimes they are only wanting to get pregnant have a baby and move on to next man. Seldom do they really know what they want though they talk a mean talk they do. At the end of the day women use men as much as men use women because the human race is made up of : " A bunch of fucking Monkeys". It would easier if men just all went to whore houses , got there jolly's an went home. It would be easier if women just went to the internet and designed the baby they want to raise. The deceptions that are played out between the sex's is so weird and at the same time know one wants the other side to know the truth. Truly we are "Just a Bunch of Fucking Monkey's". Believe me when I say this offends me more then it will ever offend you.
Why do women leave their husbands, only to ask for them back after they have had their fun?
Not just a woman leaving their spouses men do it too. The only reason I know that a man leaves their spouses/husband: Tired of the same thing They are confused they do not know what they want in life They think it is greener on the other side of the fence They are afraid to get old They want to act young and be a teenager again They are looking for the young twenty year old Well when the fun is over they think that the husband/spouse will take them back? My answer is hell no I do not think I will take that person back after all the pain and humiliation I do not think so. It is too late besides she/he will always have that trust issue problem again. Forgive them but do not take them back. Time heals that is why the husband/wife can tell them to get lost.
My wife left me and now wants me back but I love some else now?
I am a true believer that few people experience "true love" during their lifetime. Because you were married for 15 years doesn't mean that you are "meant" to be together because you spent the most time together. Perhaps your wife assumed she was "settling" for a relationship that she isn't ready to commit til "death do us part." Something as big as a trial separation takes a lot of time to be thinking about, so who knows how long she really felt about the relationship prior to finally separating. Your wife didn't analyze how she may possibly feel if you found someone to love you back--I hope she isn't the type of woman that thinks if you see her with another man you'll be begging her to come back, or promising to "treat" her better, when she wanted to leave in the first place. I'm sure your current girlfriend would have loved to have met you at an earlier time to have enjoyed more years together, but we can only think that perhaps this lesson was needed to find the real love of your life; a person with the same goals and values. Does your wife want you back to satisfy her own resentment, neglect, and worry. It's scary if you mention that your wife wants you to get rid of the girlfriend, but doesn't want to come back because SHE made the mistake and truly realizes she loves you. What would have happened if SHE found someone she loved? Would she have been so caring about how you felt, or continued her selfish ways? Obviously you're experiencing a love that wasn't satisfied by your wife--this could be the one. Accept MUTUAL love and happiness in your life. I think what's disheartening about situations like this is because if you get back together you may never be happy again. And the other people who you both dated, and you, who you loved, will be crushed having to accept the fact you are married.
Question addressed: Why do some males want to be females?In a word, they don’t.Men do not want to be women. Only women want to be women. True some women might look longingly at the rights that are conferred to men as a group. Some men want to be in a mate relationships with other men, but they want to do so as men, not as women.No man would subject himself to the strictures of womanhood.Granted there is some natural human curiosity and some of “the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence” thinking about the other gender(s), but no man would willingly risk the family jewels and then follow by living a female life on a daily basis, 24/7, until they nail the lid shut—as in, unto death.That is why when transition was still medicalized and not informed consent that transitioners were required to live six months to two years—sometime longer—in the opposite role to tamp down magical thinking. Women’s lives are not easy, nor are men’s, just different.These days when someone stops short of surgery and goes back to their original assigned sex, it’s called “detransitioning.” A generation ago it was merely called the “Real Life Test,” or “cross-living.” The wanting versus the having would be put to the test.The question beneath the question is: why do so many people insist that the birth assigned sex is immutable? An infallible assignment.Basically it’s a religious argument that borrows science terminology to buttress its faith-based assertions.Being male rests in the brain and not the gonads. The gonads have no gray matter in them. The gonads secrete hormones, yet if a male assigned person is given injections of female hormones, the body will develop along female lines. On the other hand, if a person is injected with “monkey juice” they will not become a monkey—so much for the argument about “people can think they are dogs, attack helicopters, etc. but they won’t become that.”Being a woman is a full time “job” in the grand sense of the word “job.” No man is up to that task. He won’t do it. There’s nothing in it for him. He might perform burlesque, but it’s a spoof. Only a woman would honestly, completely, and sincerely do it—meaning she’s no male no matter what others say.And the proof? Half the world’s population moves through the day and everyone recognizes they are women. Same with those who were given the wrong birth assignment. They never were men.