What happens if a woman has sperm from two different men in her?
The short answer:Nothing out of the ordinary. Women only ovulate one egg so usually only one baby can be produced. Having different kinds of sperm inside you doesn't change that. However, in the very rare case that she ovulated two eggs she could become pregnant with two children from different fathers.The long answer:A woman usually only produces one egg during each menstrual cycle. A follicle on the ovary develops until it ruptures and an egg is ovulated. Only one ovary ruptures an egg per cycle.It is then picked up by sticky fibers called fimbria and swept into the Fallopian tube, where fertilization (the meeting of sperm and egg) can occur.If a woman had the sperm of two men deposited into her vagina the sperm would have to swim through the vagina, the cervix, into the uterus and then up into the Fallopian tube.This is a very long journey and many sperm don't make it. But let's assume one spermatid from each man makes its way to the Fallopian tube. There will be only one egg there. The spermatid that gets there first will fertilize the egg. After it burrows into the egg a chemical reaction takes place that seals the egg off from any other sperm attempting to fertilize it.However, in 5–10% of cases a woman can ovulate two eggs[1]. This is how fraternal twins are conceived. In this situation if one spermatid from each man reached the two different eggs then the woman could be pregnant by two different men’s sperm at the same time. Otherwise, the sperm from one man could fertilize both.Footnotes[1] Ovulation Questions - American Pregnancy Association
Why are boys so different than girls?
We aren't that different. Men and women are both the same species. Our bodies and brains pretty much function the same and the differences are pretty minor when you compare us to other animals. Some animals have even greater differences between the sexes than humans do. There are some differences in the way our brains function but again this is minor when you consider all the things men and women DO have in common! There are also exceptions to the rule such as guys who think/act more feminine and women who think/act more masculine. Men and women are different, make no mistake. It doesn't take a genius to tell you that our bodies look different and function slightly different. Usually, I find when someone of either gender has big issues relating to the opposite gender, it usually is a social issue that affects ALL their relationships. A lot of people also are not comfortable with certain basic truths and have trouble accepting their own gender for what it is. Some of these people also let their OWN attitudes cloud their vision. If someone has a problem relating to 50% of the population that can cause some serious problems in life. This is especially true if they go around stereotyping any group of people. If you grew up with people telling you that men and boys are bad and that they do this or that you are more likely to believe it and attract boys who are bad. If you grew up with educated parents who were honest about gender, sex and relationships they might have said something like, "Boys are not that different from you. They have feelings too!" Men may react differently to things than women and they may have different interests but the emotions and feelings are all the same as ours. So maybe you feel this way because you have not figured boys out yet. If you did not grow up with brothers or a strong male role model in your life this may be the reason you feel so confused. Boys may be different from you but you have more in common with them than you might think. They are not from a different world and in my opinion, boys are much easier to figure out than girls! Maybe you should start by just quietly watching and observing boys and find the answers to this on your own. You are not the only person who ever wondered this, trust me!
Can a girl love two guys equally at the same time?
Yes, she can love even more than two but the love may or may not be equal. I know a lady who loves three guys. she is my mother and the three guys are Me, My brother & My father.Coming back to your context, It is possible & it can be your misconception too. but the love would not be equal most of the times.You may be assuming her friendly behavior towards other guys as Love.If a girl loves a guy and later she finds some other guy more attractive in any terms then she may start loving him too.She may not be really loving you and might using you for her selfish motives best known to her.What you should do ?First try to find out the reality yourself.CASE 1 - Its ok but if you are not comfortable with it then talk & state your preferences directly.CASE 2- Talk her directly and ask for her final decision.Don’t force her for anything. Let her decide. The more you will try to attract her towards you, the more are the chances of her distraction.CASE 3- Leave her & move ahead. Be careful next time.
Help!! Can a woman love two men??
Yes. She can. But not for long. The "love" that she feels for one though will be of a different kind to the Love she feels for the other. The strongest kind will prevail eventually and she will make her choice. This is a very interesting question because the experience of loving two men will make you realise what Love really is. It will make you experience different kinds of loving, different bonds. The answer you're looking for is within you, search for it and you'll find it. If you cannot find it now, give it time and time will find it for you. In matters of the heart you just can't go wrong. I'm sure deep inside you already know the answer to your own question. You're just a bit confused because both feelings are equally strong and you cannot determine which one is a little stronger than the other. But you will and then one of the relationships will have a closure. Make a nice closure, no regrets, be careful not to hurt others and yourself mostly. Whichever your decision, I just hope it will be the right one. Best of luck.
Children from different fathers? (for the moms)?
All the various situations (widowers, or 2nd marriages), aside. I find it appalling when women and men have children by various partners (especially when they are not married and just "dating" or living together). I am not talking about someone who remarried once and had child with their second spouse. I am talking about women/men who have several children from several partners. Do they not realize that those kids have to live with the embarassment of their parents choices? Yes, embarassment. Think about it...would you want to explain to people why it is that you and all your siblings have different last names and don't look alike? To top it off imagine, having someone say something insulting about your mother because of her lifestyle and sexual past, and yes people do have ways of finding things out and then using it as ammunition, so her past may very well come to light. Just imagine how hurtful that will be to a kid. Those children will end up resenting their parents for the stupid choices they made. Most of the time women who have multiple children by multiple different men are putting their own needs above those of their children. These are women who are looking for someone, anyone, to love them. They are afraid of being alone. They are irresponsible and make poor choices especially where reproduction is concerned. There are SOME women out there who's stories are very different from that though. There are women who fall in love, get married and have children and then their spouse passes away...they've done things in the correct order, and so years later they remarry and have children with their new spouse...that is completely understandable as long as the children are first priority and agree with the marriage. There is a lot to be said about keeping your eyes open and your legs closed/keeping your pecker in your pants. Don't have children by different partners, it really is disgusting and unfortunately those kids will be judged by society for the life choices their parents made. Not fair, but it is what it is. I know that should I ever find myself without my husband, I will never have any more children with someone else. I have to think about my child first. His life is in my hands and it is my duty to set a good example.
Whom should a girl choose if she loves two guys?
Okay, now that's a million dollar question. Girls are mostly so picky. From shopping stuff to lovers. But things differ logic wise in case of picking a lover. Concerning the situation here that if a girl likes 2 guys and whom would she pick, then I guess she will dig the guy with following character characteristics.Funny: girls love the guys who make her laugh every now and then. This makes a sense of all the trouble blowing away from a girls mind.Caring: if a girl is treated like a gem, then she will obviously choose the guy who keeps her in a spotlight.Mature: now this is the part where it gets tricky. You should be funny and at the very same time make sure that you don't crack a joke with same concept. Your conversations with her should be on certain topic that actually makes sense. Then you can be a prince charming from a frog.facial hairs: girls love guys with attractive facial hairs. Recent studies show that guys with dark beard attract more women who seek pleasure. And the bold beard ones are said to be best romance maniacs.Respect: respect your girl like no one else that she feels fully secured. This doesn't apply on only the girl you love, but all the girls around you. This creates your image as a gentle humble man and you will definitely attract girls. Respect her patents like yours. Girls love guys who love her parents any guy would have loved his.Be surprising: girls are like little kids. They love magic and surprises like anything!. Show up with a bunch of flowers and dark chocolates and you will make a foundation in girls mind.Be mysterious: one of the way to find out whom will she choose is this very point. Girls like to deep think a lot. Almost everything. They don't say it, rather keep on thinking about it and keep it to themselves. If you don't reveal too much about yourself, and just give her some of your glimpse and make her think forward then you can make her think about you. If one of the guy in this situation is doing this, then he is on the hot list to be the chosen one.A girl will choose the perfect boy. God made them incredibly so smart that they can X-ray you in and out precisely. If you are showing off, then you are a dead meat. If you behave what you are, then she is gonna go for the real hero. Not the double faced one. A girl will never reveal this secret till you confess your reality and you might get surprised at the end of some day.Nevertheless, girls decisions are always a mystery.Hope this helps!